Why is it so difficult for a boy to open his mind? The evidence of the boy's difficult brain has been found, and the parents have known it sooner

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I have to say that boys are very different from girls, little girls of the same age are sharp and sharp, and what needs can be expressed quickly and accurately, but the little boy is naïve, stumbling and talking for a long time.

Boys and girls are playing games, and girls can quickly distract themselves when they hear their names, and boys, no matter how much their mother calls his name, it's as if they didn't hear it.

In primary school, most of the class cadres are girls, and the top few grades are also girls.

The corpus callosum is naturally weak, which is the main reason for the late opening of the body in boys. The corpus callosum is a bundle of nerve fibers that connects the left and right brains, and its main job is to help the left and right brains cooperate with each other to do things.

Girls have a naturally thick corpus callosum, about 20% larger than boys, and the blood flow in the brain is much faster than that of boys, which means that information from the girl's brain can flow quickly between the left and right brains. So girls can multitask with high quality at the same time, while boys can only focus on one thing.

Let's take talking as an example, the connection frequency of a girl's left and right brains is dozens of times that of a boy, so as soon as a girl speaks, the left and right brains all light up, she can quickly identify the intention behind other people's emotions and expressions, and process words quickly and accurately, while boys only speak a little bit bright, so boys can never quarrel with girls.

In the past, because of my lack of understanding of boys' nature and brains, whenever children had deviant behaviors, most of the time I either criticized or blamed, and a "war" broke out almost every day, which broke out very much.

For example, teaching him to brush his teeth, how to teach him is not the essentials, asking him to brush by himself will cry, because I usually told him that if the teeth are not clean, he will get tooth decay, and he is worried that he will not brush well, so he has to be assisted by me, and he will cry without me. I tried brushing my teeth and showing him how, but he couldn't remember.

Later, in the book "Wild Parenting", I learned that most boys are visual Xi, and they learn Xi mainly absorb information through visual channels such as pictures, charts, symbols, and schematic diagrams.

Looking back, every part of every tooth had to be cleaned properly, and it was too normal for a little boy not to remember. Later, a brushing flowchart was made, and the child slowly got started.

Asking the boy to work, learning Xi, we are Xi used to verbal communication many times, and when we see that he doesn't react, we think that he deliberately goes in and out of the right ear, but in fact, he really doesn't receive your message.