In the early morning of Chinese New Year's Eve in 2012, a 4-year-old boy "ran naked" on the streets of the United States at minus 13 degrees, his whole body was red from the cold, and he let out a heart-rending cry.
And this scene was completely recorded by the father who was holding a camera next to him, not only sternly refused the boy's request to go home, but also kept urging "hurry up, lie down in the snow".
After the video was posted on the Internet, it immediately caused an uproar, and countless netizens launched a denunciation, accusing the father of abusing his child. But his father defended that this was his family's "eagle education".
Why did such a young child have to be educated in such a strict way? Now that 11 years have passed, what about the "naked running brother" who is distressed by everyone?
The source in this article is from the official media People's Daily Online, released on December 5, 2019, but in order to improve the readability of the article, the details may be edited, please read sensibly, for reference only!
«——【Father's helplessness and entanglement·】——»
The name of the "naked running brother" is He Yide, and his nickname is Duoduo. His "Eagle Dad" is called He Liesheng, who is 40 years old and has a son.
He Liesheng used to be a teacher and tried to start a business, and finally succeeded in making a difference when he was forty years old, and at the same time welcomed his first Lin'er.
At a time when good things come in pairs, not to mention doting, no matter how you look at it, you should grow up with your only son.
But He Liesheng ruthlessly "thrown" Duoduo into the swimming pool on the tenth day when he was taken out of the incubator in the hospital, and threatened that this would be good for the child.
It was obviously impossible for the rest of the family to ignore it, whether it was his wife or He Liesheng's parents, they all tried their best to stop him: "Duoduo is still young, what are you doing, are you trying to force him to death?"
In the face of the incomprehension of his relatives, He Liesheng just insisted on going his own way, and he couldn't move to swim at a constant temperature of 25°C for one hour a day.
Gradually, Duoduo stopped crying, and learned to float on the water from the beginning with the help of a swimming ring.
In this process, Eagle Father He Liesheng will always be a cold bystander, unless he chokes on a lot of water, he reaches out to grab a handful. In the 6th month, the family took Duoduo back to the hospital for a follow-up.
He Liesheng was very nervous, and it wasn't until the doctor said that "exercise is useful, and the child is healthy" that he slowly turned red like a person who had been drowning for a long time.
It turned out that Duoduo was a 7-month-old premature baby. He was in a hurry to come to this world, and when he was born, he went around the ghost gate several times.
Duoduo weighed just over 3 pounds when he was born, and this child, who was as weak as a kitten, entered the intensive care unit as soon as he left his mother's body. Even after surviving various complications, he still can't escape the verdict that he may have cerebral palsy in the future.
Looking at his son who was isolated by the thick incubator, He Liesheng's heart was like a fire. "He is only so young, does he have to accept such a tragic trajectory of life? No, as a father, I must help my son change his fate and overcome all suffering!"
In this way, the unique tacit understanding belonging to He Liesheng's father and son quietly burst out in the silent place of great love.
«——【·“ Eagle Dad's "Open Education·]——»
A snow run in an exotic country in 2012 made countless people know this wonderful father. Some people admire, and of course there are more people who criticize and question.
However, what netizens don't know is that this is just one part of He Liesheng's "open education", and more ways beyond imagination have been practiced by him one by one.
Swimming is just a way to exercise cardiopulmonary ability, and for the necessary physical functions for more healthy children, He Liesheng does not dare to wait for time to verify whether there is a problem with Duoduo.
He wants to get ahead of time, with companionship and careful planning, and personally tap into Duoduo's potential.
2 km fast and slow walking, rope climbing and bridge training, three-car training (i.e. pulley, scooter, bicycle), in addition to martial arts, taekwondo, street dance.
This is no longer a matter of pure interest, but a contest between a father and son and the breadth of the river of life.
It was another weekend, and He Liesheng climbed the Purple Mountain with Duoduo as usual. Looking at his son, who didn't need his encouragement for a long time and was just trying to crawl hard, he suddenly asked, "Duoduo, will you blame Dad for making you too tired?"
Although He Yide, who was only 3 years old, was tired and sweaty, he still looked up at his father and said: "I'm not tired, I know that my father wants me to become a better version of myself, and I have to work hard for this goal!"
This year, He Yide entered Nanjing Experimental Kindergarten, because of the accumulated knowledge reserves, he was transferred to the large class after only two weeks, and the classroom could teach him limited, He Liesheng tried his best to make his son's stage bigger.
Participating in the international OP class regatta, climbing Mount Fuji in Japan for 15 hours, and winning the championship of the 7th National Golden Tower Abacus Mental Arithmetic Elite Competition, one honor after another proves He Yide's ability, and also proves that the efforts of father and son are not in vain.
In this process, there are too many voices in their ears, and they have never wavered, and they are determined to run towards becoming a better version of themselves.
11 years have passed, has He Yide become the next "hurt Zhongyong" predicted by netizens?
«——【Current Situation·】——»
In 2020, a resume belonging to He Yide was placed in front of the public, and it is hard to imagine that these achievements come from a 12-year-old boy.
At a time when his peers were preparing for junior high school, he was already preparing for a master's degree and a doctorate.
The reason why he was able to achieve such an accelerated academic degree has a lot to do with the path of education that his father He Liesheng helped him choose.
He did not let his son follow the path of exam-oriented education, but chose to let him enroll in the self-examination major of Nanjing University at the age of 8, and successfully graduated from the junior college in 2019.
In the following year, He Yide passed 20 self-examinations and obtained a bachelor's degree certificate from Nanjing University. At this time, the alchemy stone of academic qualifications is no longer a test, but a springboard.
In 2021, he was again admitted to the MBA from the University of Wukang, Spain. In the same year, he decided to enter the University of São Paulo in the Philippines and became the youngest doctoral student in the school.
This series of achievements shatters the negations of the past. So much so that this year, when the news came out that He Yide had gone to Cambridge University in the United Kingdom to study for a postdoctoral degree, it would no longer cause more surprises.
Looking back at He Yide's growth along the way, He Liesheng's education method is not so much the "eagle style" he professes, but the timely companionship and high self-discipline of his parents.
He Yide understands that everything his father does is a starting point, that is, to make him a better version of himself.
When parents are the best role models for their children, all concentration and autonomy no longer need supervision.