Preface
As a mother, in the face of her daughter's sudden changes, she must be surprised, worried and even helpless.
However, there will always be many twists and turns on the road of life that we can hardly predict.
Growing children are also experiencing turbulent inner turmoil.
As mothers, understanding, tolerance and support will eventually become a strong backing for them through the wind and waves.
Another identity of the queen of the music world
When we hear the name Faye Wong, the first thing that comes to mind is the fairy-like singing voice and the light and ethereal voice.
Over the past 26 years, she has warmed and touched generations of listeners with her singing, and she is a well-deserved queen of the music world.
However, outside the stage, she also has another identity - Dou Jingtong's mother.
It seems like it's been a long time since we've focused on this relationship with the singer.
She is a wife, a mother, and in addition to singing, her life should have richer colors.
But on this day, when we set our eyes on the mother and daughter again, we were greeted by an uproar.
The daughter's untimely styling stunned the airport
In November, Beijing Airport.
This is Faye Wong's unforgettable day.
On this day, her daughter Dou Jingtong appeared at the airport in an extremely amazing shape, which instantly stunned everyone.
How jaw-dropping is this look? Let's take a look.
The bright and touching beautiful girl transforms into a great monk of Mohican
26-year-old Dou Jingtong was originally a very beautiful girl.
She has waist-length hair, fair skin, and beautiful facial features.
Every time she appears, she will dress up carefully to set off her beauty.
This time, however, we see a very different Dou Jingtong.
She shaved off her long hair, kept a short flaming head, and shaved her temples fresh.
She also wears an extremely exaggerated yellow sunglasses on her head, like an actress who came out of a movie.
And that's not all, the look is even more shocking.
I saw that she was wearing a loose sweatshirt and trousers with red and green stripes, and the colors on her clothes were very flamboyant.
But the style is extremely casual, not at all like the dress that girls would choose.
The most laughable thing is that this dress is matched with two sneakers of different colors! one shoe is yellow on the inside, and the other is white, which is as if you have no time to change it when you go out in a hurry in the morning.
Such a shape is unbelievable on the body of a beautiful girl.
Dou Jingtong completely transformed from a bright and moving girl to a great monk of Moxican, which made everyone dumbfounded.
Mother's helplessness and helplessness
When this gorgeous scene entered Faye Wong's sight, she only felt that the world was spinning.
The girl in front of her in strange clothes is not like the gentle and lovely girl in her memory.
Faye Wong was in a trance for a moment, and even suspected that she had recognized the wrong person.
When she looked closely, she found that this person with a shaved head, red and green striped clothes and two different shoes was really her daughter Dou Jingtong!
"Jing Tong, what's wrong? How could you..." Faye Wong stepped forward to look at her daughter, stammering for a while, at a loss.
The daughter looked at her mother with a very indifferent look, as if she didn't care about her arrival.
"I just want to try this hairstyle and outfit, Mom, haven't you always let me be myself?" Dou Jingtong responded plausibly, turned around and was about to leave.
Faye Wong was stunned in place, not knowing what to do for a while.
Her daughter's appearance undoubtedly caught her off guard, and she even wanted to cry on the spot for a while.
However, after all, her daughter has grown up, and she has no position to interfere too much.
Faye Wong let out a long sigh and could only watch her daughter's back in the distance.
Seeing such a scene, we can't help but ask - what drove this bright and moving girl to choose such an extremely inappropriate look?
A symbol of rebellion
We live in a society that focuses on outward appearance.
A beautiful girl like Dou Jingtong should have carefully maintained her hair, put on the most fashionable and fitting skirt, and became the focus of passers-by.
However, she shaved off her beautiful long hair and opted for an aggressive short hairstyle.
This is undoubtedly a subversion and challenge to ordinary aesthetics.
The red and green striped dress on her body is also a symbol of rebellion.
The colors are bright, but the style is loose and casual.
Paired with messy and untidy shoes, they all release an attitude of deliberate disregard for social norms.
This kind of shape seems to be a declaration to the world that I just want to be different from you!
Explain worldly detachment
Another obvious feature of Dou Jingtong's style is its out-of-this-world temperament.
The red and green striped sweatshirt on her body cleverly echoes the canvas bag printed with the big "Fu character" on her back.
This made her whole person exude an aura that did not eat the fireworks of the world, as if she was going to become a monk in the next second.
Her short flaming hair is also a hippie hairstyle, representing detachment and disregard for the world.
Such an overall shape seems to tell us silently that she has gradually looked down on Hongchen, and is no longer as unexpectedly dressed and staring around her as before.
The inner struggle of a growing girl
Such an extreme change in style may be the struggle and cry of a growing girl in Dou Jingtong's heart.
As Faye Wong's daughter, she has been in the spotlight since she was a child.
She grew tired of the deliberately flattering dress, and didn't want to be a symbol of a perfect daughter in the eyes of others.
So she chose to rebel and choose to be different.
She is trying to show the world that she too is an independent individual and has the right to choose her own path.
She may be at a turning point in her life.
We seem to be able to hear the cry in her heart through this shocking appearance—I, that's me!
The queen of the song waited anxiously
When her daughter's back disappeared into the crowd at the airport, Faye Wong finally had time to think about the accident.
At first, she was overwhelmed by her daughter's crazy look.
The back of her daughter who said goodbye without saying goodbye ran over her heart, leaving a scratch that could not be smoothed.
Soon, however, years of motherhood reminded her that as a mother, she should understand her daughter's inner struggles and give her room to grow.
Faye Wong looked at the blue sky outside the window and couldn't help but think of the scene when her daughter was born many years ago.
Will that little life wrapped in the pink carpet have a rebellious day like today?
As a mother, she deserves more understanding and support for her daughter.
They are all growing and looking for their own paths.
Faye Wong smiled and decided to give her daughter a little time and space.
She believed that Jing Tong would think well and then find her own place.
The most important thing a mother should do is to be with her in the process.
Great wisdom and wisdom embodied in peace
In this unexpected change, Faye Wong's peace and wisdom are also admirable.
As a superstar in the music industry, she could have chosen to educate her daughter, asking her to temporarily let go of rebellion and regain her gentle image.
But she understands that styling is just an outward manifestation of her daughter's inner world.
Excessive intervention can lead to further and further distance between them.
So she chose to be understanding and inclusive.
Even if her heart fluctuates, she will give her daughter enough space to believe that she will eventually find her own place.
This broad maternal love is the wisdom of her achievements in a generation of singers.
epilogue
When Jingtong is on the verge of rebellion and growth, will the mother of the singer continue to wait anxiously?
The answer seems to be yes.
For Faye Wong, a wise mother, she understands what her daughter is looking for.
She will keep watch until her daughter calms down and finds her own path and position.
No matter what, they will always be the mother and daughter with the deepest bond.
This relationship is destined to transcend the ups and downs of the rebellious period until they both grow old.
This mother's love will continue to shine on the road of their mutual support.