The time of a housewife is really not time, and the money of a housewife is really not money.
This morning, I sent my three children to school in a panic, the eldest son was still inking there because of the discomfort of wearing clothes, and the younger son was also crying there because of this and that, but I sent the two eldest away in a fit of anger and locked him in the house alone.
When I came back, he was still crying, crying and shouting for me to send him, and I thought to myself: I am not used to you.
So, let him carry his schoolbag, bring a kettle, and walk to school, and I also walked with him, and I carried things by myself, and I didn't interfere with my back.
This time, I have to let him know a lesson for himself, don't think that crying and crying can be satisfied when something happens, and don't shout at your mother whenever something happens, yell at your mother, and vent your emotions directly, I am my mother, not their "emotional venting bucket".
If there is a problem with something, say it well, solve it if it can be solved, and if it can't be solved, find a way to solve it slowly, or put it over there, and then solve it when you find a solution.
Always emphasize these words to them, and always say that they should speak well, but they don't take it to heart, then when this opportunity comes, it is not necessary to teach them a good lesson and let him remember it for a long time.
I didn't have to eat when I went to school late for breakfast, so I sent a message to the teacher in the class group, and he was going to go late, so he should be punished as much as he wanted.
The teacher asked him if he had breakfast at home, and I replied directly: he didn't eat it.
Since it is a long lesson, it is enough to grow, but I can't feel distressed halfway, looking at his small size, carrying a schoolbag and hanging a kettle, I really want to carry it for him, but in the end I still endured, and when I got to the school gate, he went directly into the campus, throwing me a lonely back, without the joy of turning around and smiling at me every morning to say goodbye and beckoning, I was lonely again, and I hurried to work.
The child got it done, and then went to work in the vegetable garden, and before he could do anything, two hours passed, thinking that the clothes that the child had changed yesterday had not been washed, so he went to wash the clothes again.
After washing two large basins of clothes, the washing machine was stirring one basin, and there was another basin to be determined, so it was busy until 12 noon, and I hadn't eaten lunch alone.
If you look at my time, is it really not time, and I haven't done anything, just like that, the morning has passed, people have to go to work, and there is a salary, I am here, nothing has been left behind, and I will be mistaken for thinking that I am very relaxed, as if I play at home every day.
Housewives are really not so easy to be, no, it's about to be winter, the temperature drops when it says it drops, it says it will fall below zero next week, and the children have to buy it inside and out.
Let's not talk about anything else, two pairs of fleece shoes, four pairs for two children, four sets of autumn clothes and pants, fleece pants, sweaters and down jackets.
This is just the lowest configuration, and the two children spend money inside and out, and they really feel that money is not money.
What's more, I haven't counted mine, as if being a mother is to be the main child, the mother can not buy clothes all year round, and the child changes seasons, clothes are essential.
So I really feel that the housewife's money is not money, and time is not time, because in the end, time and money don't know where they go, and also, time is not spent on themselves, and money is not spent on themselves, where has it gone.
Everyone knows that clothes will not be automatically clean, the floor will not be automatically clean, wardrobes need to be organized, housework needs to be managed, bedding must be washed and changed frequently, the kitchen has to be cleaned up every day, dinner has to be done in a different way every day, and children's learning has to be stared at.
But no one wants to admit the value of housewives doing this, because in the end, they will be asked: Why are you going to spend so much time? Just a little housework, so little things can't be done? Don't you play every day for the rest of the time? You don't need to make money, you don't know how hard it is to make money, right, where is the money spent?
In the end, housewives are like a cage, trapping people without giving answers and results.