The daughter-in-law takes care of her 50-year-old rural father-in-law, which is a family matter. After the father-in-law drinks, he likes to do husband and wife affairs with his daughter-in-law.
I don't know why, but my father-in-law always thinks that my daughter-in-law is very experienced.
In this family, my husband and my father-in-law are three people crammed into a small three-bedroom house. I wake up early every day and am busy making breakfast and tidying up the house.
In the eyes of my father-in-law, I am a model of a good wife and mother, but I am just an ordinary rural woman, not as good as he says.
Every night, my father-in-law would sit at the door of my house and stare at me. I felt the desire in his gaze and couldn't help but frown.
But he always didn't give up, and kept looking for topics to talk to me. He said I was young, beautiful, and energetic. Again and again, I held back what felt like I was about to explode.
It's all been a long time, and I've always been tolerant of things like this for my family. Childhood seems like a carefree time.
I'll never forget the times I spent running through the dirt-filled villages. It can be said that this family has always been in my heart.
Every night, my father-in-law would drink a lot of wine and slowly get drunk at the door of his house. The family was harmonious and harmonious, but the family had conflicts because of his father-in-law's alcoholism.
His drinking problem has caused our family to be very chaotic, and my husband and I have not had a conflict with my father-in-law, but we are all guilty.
I wanted to help my father-in-law, but I didn't know where to start. Recently, a friend of mine introduced me to a great way to relax and relieve stress.
I found that when I practiced yoga, I was able to control my emotions better, balance my pH constitution, and my mind was calmer.
Just the other day, my father-in-law pushed open the room where I was practicing yoga and came straight to me. He smiled and said, "Daughter-in-law, do you practice yoga again?" Do you want me to sit and see? I've heard that yoga is great for the body! The corner of my eyes twitched, and I heard my father-in-law's meaningful laughter, I controlled myself from letting my emotions get out of control, nodded, and said, "If my father-in-law is interested, you can also try it."
But I could only silently endure his unreasonable demands again and again.
However, the situation seems to have gotten worse. My father-in-law wasn't just watching me practice yoga, but he started scratching the walls of the room with his fingers.
I couldn't take it anymore and finally decided to talk to my husband.
I told my husband what had happened, and he froze. The matter between men and women in the countryside has always been a relatively sensitive issue.
The husband thought about it all night and finally decided to talk to his father-in-law.
The next night, the husband and his father-in-law had a serious conversation. I heard them talking in the house, but I didn't know what they were saying.
This is a tangle in a family, but also a love and tolerance in a family. Despite the difficulties, we did not give up hope.
I believe that in the days to come, our family will work harder to pursue happiness.
After my husband's conversation, my father-in-law seems to have changed a little, and he no longer takes the initiative to find me, nor does he use scratching the wall to hint.
However, I was not completely relieved in my heart, because this was only a temporary solution, and it did not really solve my father-in-law's problem.
A few days later, when I was busy making dinner, my father-in-law suddenly interjected and said, "Daughter-in-law, you see you're back practicing yoga again!" You're getting better and better.
I looked up at my father-in-law and tried to say something, but found that my lips were dry and my voice was choked.
My father-in-law's words seemed to ignite a fire that burned my heart. I didn't run away anymore, I decided to face this problem that had been bothering me for a long time.
I hope you can understand me and respect the dignity and bottom line of our family.
After listening to my words, my father-in-law's face changed slightly, and then he quickly regained his composure. He said calmly: "Daughter-in-law, you misunderstood.
Rest assured, I won't say anything like this again.
I breathed a sigh of relief, hoping that my father-in-law would really change. However, although my father-in-law no longer took the initiative to look for me, he still created embarrassing scenes for me from time to time.
I was so frightened that I immediately ran away, and a wake-up call sounded in my heart.
I didn't know what to do, and the conflict in this family made me feel stuck. Although the husband knew about it, he was powerless to solve it.
I couldn't help but ask myself, why would I have to endure all this in such a family?
Every night, I was silently thinking about this question in bed. I think of my parents, who have always been my strong supporters.
I can't let them see that I'm so weak, I can't let them down. However, I also don't want to bring more conflicts and quarrels to this family.
Finally, I made up my mind that I was going to leave the family and start my life all over again. I know it's not easy to leave, but I can't stay silent.
I began to actively search for relevant laws and regulations and consulting bodies, hoping to find a solution to the problem.
Leaving is a relief and a courage. Regardless of the outcome, I decided to find a way out for myself and my family.
I hope that my decision can give courage and hope to myself and others facing similar issues.
My husband and I talked all night and finally decided to sit down with my father-in-law and have a good talk. We understand that this problem cannot be dragged on any longer, otherwise the family conflict will only get deeper.
Soon my father-in-law walked into the living room and sat down in front of us. He looked a little nervous, but still asked with a smile, "Is there anything you want me to do?" I looked at him and said in a firm tone, "Father-in-law, we need to talk about what happened recently."
I continued: "Father-in-law, you know that your behavior has made me feel very uncomfortable lately. We are a family and should respect and care for each other.
My father-in-law was silent for a moment, looked at my husband and me, and said with difficulty: "Daughter-in-law, I have never been malicious, I just think that you are kind and have more common topics and exchanges than young women."
The father-in-law lowered his head and was silent for a while, then raised his head with tears shining in his eyes. He trembled and said, "I'm sorry, I didn't expect to hurt you.
I looked at my father-in-law's eyes and felt a little distressed. After all, my father-in-law is not young, and we can't hurt his dignity because of this problem.
The husband gently patted his father-in-law on the shoulder and said, "Father-in-law, we don't blame you, we just hope you can understand our thoughts."
The father-in-law wiped his tears and nodded. Daughter-in-law, I appreciate your dedication to my family all the time, you are a good daughter-in-law.
Although this conversation was a bit awkward and painful, I believe that after this communication, our family will become more harmonious.
From that night on, my father-in-law never behaved excessively towards me again, and we got along more harmoniously together.
Conflicts and disputes in the family are sometimes unavoidable. But as long as we can resolve it with love and understanding, then family disputes will gradually be resolved.
Over time, the tension in the family gradually eased. My husband's serious conversation with my father-in-law played a role, and my father-in-law's behavior towards me practicing yoga became less and less.
However, a sudden event shattered my beautiful illusions of family harmony. One night, the husband suddenly began to behave strangely cold and distant.
I was a little confused and didn't know what had happened to him.
I tried to communicate with my husband and look for his support and understanding, but he always passed by. This made me feel very disappointed and sad.
This doubt and uneasiness began to erode my inner peace.
My husband's attitude began to soften a bit, and he explained to me that he had recently encountered some difficulties and stress at work, which had led to low mood.
Gradually, my husband and I regained our old understanding and trust. We began to share the pressures of family and work together, supporting and supporting each other.
However, this period of tranquility did not last long. By chance, I stumbled upon an ambiguous text message between my husband and another woman.
I couldn't accept the fact that my husband had cheated on me, and I felt like I was being greatly hurt and betrayed. I decided to face the problem head-on and find a solution.
This is a dilemma in a family, and family disputes and conflicts once again make us face a choice. I am full of pain and confusion, but at the same time, I hope to find a suitable solution to rebuild the harmony and happiness of my family.
The conversation between my father-in-law and my husband seemed to play a role, and the pressure my father-in-law put on me was reduced.
One day, I was busy preparing dinner when I suddenly heard my father-in-law's voice: "Daughter-in-law, look at the vegetables in this basket, why is it so rotten!" "I hurried over to take a look, and sure enough, a few of the dishes were rotten.
"Father-in-law, this is a rural area, and the vegetables picked can't all be flawless." I tried to explain.
"Your daughter-in-law has been away from her hometown for so long, and she still doesn't know how to pick vegetables?" The father-in-law said with a dissatisfied face.
I feel very aggrieved, I also grew up in the countryside, and I have some experience in picking vegetables. I was about to refute my father-in-law, but my husband suddenly interjected: "Father-in-law, let's all be considerate of each other, this time the rotten vegetables may not have been picked in time, and we will pay more attention next time."
A few days later, when I came back from the street, I saw my father-in-law standing at the door talking to a strange woman, and the two of them looked like old acquaintances.
My father-in-law said contentedly, "This is my distant relative Xiaoli, and she came to visit us. ”
I pretended to smile calmly: "Oh, hello, I'm my father-in-law's daughter-in-law. ”
Xiaoli turned her head to look at me, her expression was a little unnatural, but her father-in-law kept patting Xiaoli's back, and praised me for taking care of my father-in-law's filial piety.
Back in the house, my heart was full of suspicion and uneasiness. Why did a distant relative of the Guild suddenly come to visit us? And his attitude towards Xiaoli is so affectionate, it makes me feel uneasy.
However, in the next few days, I found that my father-in-law and Xiaoli got along more and more frequently. They often go to the vegetable field together, and her father-in-law will teach Xiaoli how to grow and pick vegetables.
My father-in-law is obviously my husband's father, but he cares so much about a strange woman, which makes me feel uncomfortable.
I couldn't stand this situation and decided to talk to my husband. However, before knocking on my husband's door, I overheard him talking to my father-in-law.
"Dad, what do you mean by your concern for Xiaoli? She is not our relative, why do you do this to her? The husband's voice was filled with dissatisfaction.
"Son, you're mistaken. Xiaoli is an educated youth in our village, and I worked in her house for a while, and I have a lot of affection.
When I heard this, I couldn't help but push the door open. The eyes of my husband and father-in-law turned to me, and I looked at my husband and said resolutely, "Husband, I can't stand this family situation anymore.
I want to get rid of this entangled family relationship and no longer be trapped in this contradictory ending. I wish I could find my own happiness instead of struggling in this chaos.