Elderly love is a transaction, without sincerity? This is a topic that has generated a lot of controversy on the web. Some people believe that the elderly love is a kind of pursuit and enjoyment of life, a kind of respect and understanding for themselves and each other, and a kind of non-giving up and non-compromise for happiness. Some people believe that the elderly are in love with a boring and shameless behavior, a kind of irresponsibility and disrespect for family and children, and a kind of greed and calculation for money and interests. So, what exactly is senile love? Is it really a transaction, without sincerity?
First of all, we need to understand that the elderly are not a new phenomenon. In history, there are many famous elderly romances, such as Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang, Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin, Picasso and Jacqueline and so on. These elderly romances have their own stories and touches, and they all show the persistence and enthusiasm of the elderly for love. In contemporary society, with the influence of factors such as population aging, social openness, and economic affluence, the love of the elderly is becoming more and more common and diverse. According to a national survey conducted by the official media: among the elderly over 60 years old in China, 35% have no spouse, and 37.6% have the intention to remarry. The human needs of such a large group cannot be ignored or suppressed.
Secondly, we need to understand that falling in love with the elderly is not a simple transaction. A transaction refers to the act of bartering or exchanging goods for money between two parties, and it needs to have a clear value measurement and balance of interests. Falling in love refers to the relationship between two people developed based on mutual attraction and liking, which requires deep spiritual communication and emotional fit. Although in reality, love will also involve material considerations and support, this does not mean that love can be measured and replaced by material things. The most important thing in love is the feeling and tacit understanding between two people, which cannot be bought and sold and exchanged with money. Moreover, in old age, love is more of a spiritual sustenance and satisfaction, a kind of comfort and companionship in life. Elderly people fall in love, not to get something or take something, but to give something or share something.
Again, we want to respect that it is not a shameless act for the elderly to fall in love. Shamelessness refers to the behavior that lacks a moral bottom line and conscience condemnation, and it needs to have obvious manifestations of hurting others or violating public order and good customs. Love, on the other hand, refers to an intimate relationship between two people based on the principle of voluntariness, which requires reasonable free choice and the protection of personal rights. Although in tradition, love is also constrained and influenced by some moral norms and social expectations, this does not mean that love can be judged and blamed by morality. The most important thing in love is the joy and happiness between two people, which cannot be prescribed and limited by morality. Moreover, in old age, love is more of an expression and dignity of human nature, a choice and right in life. Elderly people fall in love, not to hurt anyone or violate anything, but to respect themselves or realize themselves.
To sum up, we can see that old age love is not a transaction, nor is it a shamelessness, but a pursuit and enjoyment, a kind of respect and understanding, a kind of non-giving up and non-compromise. Of course, this does not mean that the elderly do not have any problems and difficulties in love, such as property problems, children's problems, social problems, and so on. These problems need to be faced and solved by the elderly and related parties, rather than being denied and excluded by prejudice and discrimination. After all, everyone has the right to pursue happiness, and every relationship has a value for existence. We should use more rationality and tolerance to treat the marriage and love of the elderly, and learn to appreciate and bless the human nature and inner needs of such people.
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