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Marriage is the years that two people have walked together based on each other's love and respect. However, when there is a rift in the relationship between the couple and even turns into endless pain, it may no longer make sense to continue to be together.
When communication barriers begin to appear between husband and wife, and mutual understanding becomes difficult, marriage loses its foundation. The two people, who were originally close, now seem to be the most familiar strangers. This kind of indifference and alienation will make each other's problems more and more, and the distance between hearts will become more and more distant.
When there is a loss of trust between husband and wife, suspicion and accusation of each other, the marriage loses its soul. Trust is the bond that holds a husband and wife together, and once broken, it is difficult to repair. This distrust can lead to endless quarrels and cold wars between the husband and wife, and the relationship will gradually wear out.
When husbands and wives begin to hurt each other, or even speak ill of each other, marriage loses its meaning. Love is about tolerance and giving, not hurting each other. When there is only hurt and pain left between husband and wife, continuing to be together will only make each other more miserable.
At this time, letting go may be the best option. Rather than having both of you struggle painfully with a difficult situation, choose to let go and give each other a chance to find true happiness. Of course, this does not mean that the relationship between husband and wife is completely over, but it is necessary to find the right way and method to solve the problem.
In marriage, the relationship between husband and wife is complex and delicate. Sometimes, we need to put in a lot of effort to keep the relationship together; Sometimes, we also need to be brave enough to let go and give each other a chance to start over. When there are problems in the relationship between husband and wife, we need to think seriously and face them bravely. If we've tried our best and the problem still can't be solved, then letting go may be the best option.
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