In 1958, a photo of Lu Xiaoman and his "live-in boyfriend" Weng Ruiwu was exposed, which aroused widespread attention and heated discussions. This special relationship began on the day Xu Zhimo asked Weng Ruiwu to give Lu Xiaoman a massage. Because Lu Xiaoman often had stomach pain, she chose to follow Weng Ruiwu's advice and became opium for pain.
However, after Xu Zhimo's plane crash, Lu Xiaoman made a bold decision and chose to live with Weng Ruiwu. Although Weng Ruiwu already had a family, he did not divorce, which made their cohabitation last for more than 20 years but never became husband and wife. The relationship sparked widespread controversy and reflection.
First of all, the relationship between Lu Xiaoman and Weng Ruiwu broke through the shackles of the traditional marriage model and showed the delicate balance between love and responsibility. They dare to choose to leave an unhappy marriage and seek true love and happiness. This has led to a deep reflection on the influence of the institution of marriage in modern society.
At the same time, we also need to deeply explore the real reasons behind Xu Zhimo's departure from Lu Xiaoman. Is it because their relationship has faded, or is there some other secret that cannot be hidden? This question challenges our ability to interpret and reason about historical events.
In addition, Weng Ruiwu, as a married man, faced a huge family dilemma in the process of deciding to live with Lu Xiaoman. It has also triggered a reflection on traditional family concepts and moral norms. Did they make the right decision? Can an illegitimately relationship be tolerated and understood?
Finally, we cannot ignore the cost of opium. Although it was to relieve the pain, it also brought a lot of distress and pain to Lu Xiaoman's life. This reflects the fact that the pursuit of happiness and freedom in modern society is often accompanied by many thorns and choices.
To sum up, the relationship between Lu Xiaoman and Weng Ruiwu provokes us to think about the modern concept of marriage, personal freedom and the pursuit of happiness. Their choices demonstrate an impact and redefinition of conventional ideas. However, we must recognize the difficulties and costs behind the relationship and further reflect on the relationship between the individual and society, love and responsibility. Only on the basis of understanding and respecting the needs of the individual can we build a more equal and inclusive society.