I don't know if you have noticed such a thing, most of them have many common characteristics of people who are not capable.
As the saying goes: "If you don't have the ability, you can know it at a glance".
This sentence can be described as a hit point, whether a person has the ability or not, we can completely see through some of his behavioral characteristics.
Around us, there are many people who are not capable and do not know how to improve.
And these people who are incapable and unmotivated often have three common characteristics.
People with these three characteristics need to pay attention to it, and if they can get rid of it, change it quickly!
Take advantage of small advantages
From ancient times to the present, there have been countless cases of accidents because of greed and cheapness.
During the Song Dynasty, a "shrewd" merchant opened a money bank in the city of Luoyang.
One day, when the store was about to close, a ragged mother-in-law suddenly entered the store.
There are people up and down in the money village, and when they see their mother-in-law covered in tatters, many people don't care at first.
When the mother-in-law saw that no one took care of her, she was used to it, but she quietly walked to the shopkeeper.
"Shopkeeper, can you still exchange silver tickets here?"
The shopkeeper thought to himself: "Every day, there are only some hillbillies who don't know where they come from, and they are delaying my time." ”
He casually replied, "Yes." ”
After hearing the shopkeeper's affirmative reply, the mother-in-law carefully took out a money bag from her arms.
"This is the pension money that my girl gave me, you can help me get a silver ticket." By the way, can you read it for me again? ”
The mother-in-law gave her money bag and letters to the treasurer.
The shopkeeper first weighed the weight in the money bag, and obviously felt that there were more than a dozen taels.
Then he opened the letter and found that the silver taels written in the letter were less than those in the money bag.
So, the shopkeeper immediately changed his face.
"Mother-in-law, we need some fees to exchange silver tickets here, but seeing that you are coming to our store for the first time, I will make my own opinion, and this fee will be waived for you."
"Shopkeeper, you're so good, then you can change what you can change for me."
Immediately afterwards, the shopkeeper took out a silver ticket of ten taels from the cabinet and gave it to her.
After the mother-in-law got it, she left happily.
It wasn't until the next day, when his men checked the accounts, that they realized that their shrewd shopkeeper had been deceived.
It turned out that the mother-in-law's money bag was not a silver tael at all, but some dyed iron.
The shopkeeper was furious when he learned that he had been deceived.
But what can I do then, my mother-in-law has already disappeared with the silver ticket.
can only blame the shopkeeper for being confused by his greed and the content of the letter, even if he is angry, he is helpless.
And this actually lays a hidden danger for the shopkeeper business to not do well for a long time.
Soon after, the money bank announced the closure of the store, and the shopkeeper disappeared.
As the saying goes: greedy for small and cheap suffers big losses.
In our lives, there are always people who seem to be shrewd, but in fact they are very stupid.
"Don't take advantage of cheap, don't take advantage of yourself, don't take advantage of others, don't take advantage of cheap, isn't this a fool."
It's obviously a very small thing, and there will always be people who want to take advantage of it.
To put it bluntly, isn't it greed?
These narrow-minded people have been bound by their greed for a long time in the acres and thirds of land in front of them.
We can only see the little benefits that are revealed in the present, and we do not take into account the possibilities in the days to come.
Sadly, they don't feel that there is anything wrong with taking advantage of them, but they are complacent about their cheapness.
In fact, it's nothing to take advantage of, I'm afraid that you not only didn't take advantage of it, but also let yourself be in trouble.
So do you know what people who don't have the ability to do in addition to being greedy and cheap?
I don't know how to pretend to understand
"You see you don't understand anything, only I'm the smartest."
Once upon a time, in a wealthy country, there was an arrogant emperor.
Being in a high position, over time, the emperor gradually became a little fluttering, and he even didn't know who he was.
And he also has a different hobby, that is, he likes to wear new clothes.
So, he sent his subordinates all over the country to search for beautiful clothes and bring them to the palace.
However, when the emperor saw the clothes brought by his subordinates, he didn't mean that he was immediately happy to wear them.
It's about judging people who don't know how to pretend to understand, as if they can show how professional they are.
After some criticism, the emperor took the clothes to the room and tried them on one by one.
Don't look at the emperor in front of his subordinates, saying so many unpleasant things about these clothes.
In fact, he liked these new clothes brought by his subordinates more than anyone else.
But I only know that these clothes are beautiful, but I don't know what is so good about them.
For the sake of face, he can only pretend to understand to make such remarks.
In fact, this emperor not only said all kinds of unpleasant things on his clothes, but also commented on many things without pretending to understand.
The emperor's behavior also made the whole country rumor and mourn.
As the saying goes: when the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds.
The world is so big, there is always everyone around us.
These people who don't know how to pretend to understand, in their own world, always think that only they are the smartest.
As everyone knows, in the eyes of people who really know how to do it, you are like a clown jumping off the beam, grandstanding here.
In addition, this kind of person will also have a bad habit, which is to put all the thoughts in their hearts on their faces.
The world is not centered on us personally, and what others think is also important.
Don't always be self-righteous and judgmental, because a lot of times not knowing how to pretend to understand will put me at a great risk.
In addition to liking not knowing how to pretend to understand, people who don't have the ability to do it also like another thing very much.
Idle
I don't know if you've ever heard of such a word: complaining.
I'm sure many of us have heard of it, so do you know some of the stories in "Complaining about the Sky"?
In the past, a certain Jingzhou Thorn originally relied on the industry left by his ancestors, and his family background was also quite solid.
However, after the death of the elder, the true nature of this assassin was completely exposed.
Immersed in the wind and snow all day long, over time the family property was wiped out.
Regarding the failure of his family, this assassin not only did not reflect on his mistakes, but shirked all the responsibility.
complained about the injustice of heaven, complained that after his defeat, his relatives did not know how to help him.
One night, the assassin was on the street to drink to kill his sorrows, and by chance he ran into an old man dressed in gorgeous clothes.
The old man came up to him with a smile on his face and said to him:
"The old man sees that your body exudes golden light, and your face also reveals the direction of great wealth and nobility. If you believe in old decay, come with me. ”
At first, the assassin only thought that he had drunk too much and had hallucinations in front of his eyes, but after a closer look, the old man was indeed standing there.
To say that I don't want to go back to that prosperous and happy life must be false.
So, after thinking for a while, Thorn Shi followed the old man.
I don't know how long it took, the old man brought the assassin to a splendid mansion.
Followed by. The old man opened the door of a secret room, and saw that the secret room was scattered with gold, silver and jewelry, which was so magnificent.
The old man said to the assassin: "These elite jewels are a little bit of the old man's heart for you, I hope you don't forget me after you develop in the future." ”
However, at this moment, the eyes of the assassin only had the golden financial report in front of him, and he could not hear what the old man was saying.
Thorn Shi's face is full of greed and selfishness.
But at this time, the assassin didn't know that everything in front of him was a fantasy made by the old man, but if he wanted to swallow this treasure privately at this time, he would be trapped in a catastrophe.
But he still stepped forward, and it was not until he walked in that he found that the world in front of him had suddenly turned, and he was actually in the gloomy woods, and the old man did not know where to go.
After this time, Thorn Shi deeply felt that he had a rich and noble life, and he was doing nothing day by day.
But the reality is not as he wants, waiting day by day, he can't wait for what he wants, and he just complains incompetently every day.
Actually, what's the pie-in-the-sky thing?
It's just the incompetent people waiting, and they are always able to bask in something that will never happen.
It seems that in their eyes, even if they are lazy and idle all day long, as long as they have a rich and noble life, one day, they can reach the peak of life.
In fact, in addition to this, they always like to complain and shirk responsibility when doing things.
"Anyway, it's none of my business, don't come to me, you have to look for him."
How can a person who can only do nothing and be lazy all day long have a time of wealth.
We must know that there will be gains if there is pay, and how can we get the same results as others without paying.
In fact, what will happen to our lives, but we can't spy on them with a face.
Nor can we judge a person's inner world and direction by relying on a superficial thing.
I hope that in the days to come, we will all be able to achieve success and find our own path.
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