My name is Wang Ming, and I am an ordinary worker, although my life is not easy, but I live a fairly stable life. In order to ensure my life after retirement, I will ask my younger brother Wang Qiang to help me pay social security every month, and transfer 1,000 yuan every month.
I went to retire the other day, and under the guidance of the staff, I submitted all the required documents. However, when the staff checked my social security payment history, they told me that I did not have a payment record.
So, I hurriedly found my younger brother Wang Qiang and asked him about this issue. Wang Qiang looked very flustered, and with an embarrassed look on his face, he told me that he had given the money I had given him to a female friend named Li Ping.
I angrily asked my brother why he was giving my money to someone else, and he was a female friend. The younger brother stammered and explained that he had borrowed money from this friend once and had not been able to pay it back in time, so she kept urging him to ask for money.
I listened to my brother's explanation, and my mood became complicated. I sympathize with my brother's predicament, but I'm even more angry at why he used my money without my permission.
I was torn off, I loved my brother, but I was very disappointed in him.
I managed to find Li Ping and told her that the money was my social security money and that she needed to return it to me. Li Ping expressed her understanding of my request and promised to return it to me as soon as possible.
Li Ping agreed with this and said that she would pay me back as soon as possible.
After a lot of hard work, I finally got my Social Security money back. But the whole process touched me a lot.
As a family, we should understand and respect each other and not hurt others for our own selfish interests.
My relationship with my younger brother Wang Qiang has also been repaired, and we have been able to communicate each other's thoughts and feelings more openly through this incident.
The relationship between my brother Wang Qiang and I gradually returned to peace, and we both understood the importance of family affection and made corresponding changes.
One day, I received a strange phone call. On the other end of the phone, a woman's hurried and anxious voice came: "Hello, my surname is Wu, and I am Wang Qiang's girlfriend."
Wang Qiang actually has a girlfriend, and this news is undoubtedly a huge shock to me.
I hurriedly called Wang Qiang and asked about his girlfriend surnamed Wu. He told me frankly that they had been dating for a while but had never officially spoken to me.
I asked Wang Qiang why he kept hiding this fact, and he explained that it was because he was worried that I would not be able to accept it. He admits that he was indeed wrong, but hopes I can understand him.
In the days that followed, the relationship between me and Wang Qiang became a little strained. I have never been able to fully accept that he has a girlfriend, even though I know it is his personal choice.
Just when I was feeling down, a chance opportunity made me learn a heartbreaking fact - Wang Qiang's girlfriend woman surnamed Wu was pregnant.
I finally couldn't help but find Wang Qiang and ask him why he was so irresponsible to our family. He did not shy away from it, but frankly admitted his mistake.
He sincerely apologized to me and expressed his willingness to take responsibility for himself.
This unexpected turn of events has shaken my trust in my family. I began to reflect on whether there was a problem with communication and understanding between us, and I realized that we needed more time and effort to repair the family that we had broken down because of these family disputes.
My relationship with my younger brother Wang Qiang was gradually repaired, and we understood and respected each other and worked hard to maintain family harmony.
One day, I received a phone call from a teacher at a nursery school. They told me that my brother's child, Xiao Ming, had beaten up a child of the same age in the nursery.
I hurried to the nursery and met Xiao Ming and Liu Hua, the parent of the child who was beaten. Liu Hua described the situation to me, and it seemed that she was very angry about the incident.
Back at home, I talked to my younger brother Wang Qiang about the incident in a serious manner. Wang Qiang told me that Xiao Ming has been a bit irritable and irritable lately, and he suspects that it is the influence of the nursery environment.
Together with other parent representatives, I approached the head of the nursery and raised our concerns and demands.
I hope that the nursery will be able to seriously solve the problem and ensure that every child is properly cared for and educated in the nursery.
This incident made me think deeply. Conflicts and disputes in the family are not always caused by conflicts between loved ones.
As parents and elders, we should always pay attention to our children's growth environment and actively solve problems to ensure their health and happiness.
So, I suggested that our whole family go to a growth camp. I think that through activities like this, we can get to know each other more deeply, find common ground with each other, and then strengthen our family relationship.
My younger brother, Wang Qiang, agreed with my suggestion, so I contacted an organization that specializes in hosting such events.
In the process, I found that my misunderstanding and dissatisfaction with my younger brother Wang Qiang began to fade slowly. Through my hands-on participation in these activities, I realized that my brother's previous actions were not entirely selfish, and that he also had his own troubles and struggles.
In the same way, I also showed my younger brother that I was understanding and tolerant of him. I made him aware of my long-standing expectations and concerns, while also realizing that I might be too him.
A few months later, I received a pension notice. This time, my social security payment records were successfully found.
After my brother Wang Qiang and I experienced the social security conflict, our family relationship gradually returned to harmony.
However, it didn't take long for another unexpected thing to happen. That night, I was resting at home when I suddenly heard a noise outside the door.
I stepped forward and saw that the woman was actually Wang Li, the sister of me and my brother. I really can't figure out how such a quarrel broke out between sisters and brothers, there should be a lot of family affection.
Wang Li angrily told me that she found that her younger brother Wang Qiang had been helping me pay social security, but had not paid any fees for her and my father.
I was shocked by this sudden fact, I had no idea that my brother only helped me pay social security and ignored Wang Li and my father's situation.
Wang Li's anger sparked a big argument in our family. The father was also involved and was disappointed and angry at his younger brother's approach.
At this point, the guilt in my heart reached its peak. I understand that my younger brother Wang Qiang also told me how hard he worked in the way of weight, and in order to take care of me and my family, he did not leave any way back for himself.