Text: Happy Baby
I like Yu Hewei's words in the movie "Second-hand Masterpiece": "In life, there is nothing in the world, mediocrity disturbs itself, no one can force you, only yourself can force you." You are what you are, and you will not change the impression of others because you jumped off the building. People need more courage to live than to die, and the most important thing in life is to have a clear understanding and reconcile with oneself. ”
watched the opening of Yu Hewei's words, and deliberately watched the whole movie for this shot, this is the real society, once people have unlimited scenery, they are easy to suddenly fall down, and it is really difficult to face this society.
At that time, I didn't cry much when I watched "Solid as a Rock", but I cried when I watched "Second-hand Masterpiece", there are too many places in real life that hurt my heart.
After reading other passages, he is simply sober when he comforts others, and he also uses "mediocrity disturbs himself", but when he comes to himself, he is confused and crazy, which is what medicine says "it is difficult for a doctor to heal himself".
Why don't we do it, when we persuade others, we do one thing at a time, and when things happen to us, we will collapse more than others.
I remember Shi Tiesheng once said, "People who talk about death every day are not looking forward to death, but longing for love." ”
If you give yourself a little reason for lending to others, maybe life is often plain and ordinary, not everyone's life is ups and downs, all the way to the grand plan, the key is to recognize yourself and admit your ordinary.
In fact, most of us ignore the truth that many things don't need to be meaningful, that eating, drinking, and having fun are not the same as wasting time, and that enduring hardships and standing hard work is not the same as being meaningful.
When you are anxious about internal consumption, please remember that life is just a superposition of various experiences, as long as you want, you can do those seemingly meaningless things, such as being in a daze, watching the sunrise, counting the stars, your experience is the greatest meaning.
Life is not necessarily about doing things that everyone thinks are meaningful, meaning is given by oneself.
Life is a wilderness, not a track, as long as you enjoy the moment is meaningful, I mean it's better to go to the dock and have some fries and be happy.
Life still has to read more, read more, ask more and learn more, often people and things are your own shackles, only if you figure it out can you get out.
There are countless lows in life, and when you can control your emotions, you are invincible to everything in the world.
When your cognition reaches a certain height, you may lose your emotions, and without emotions, you will naturally not be swayed by negative emotions.
In fact, many times it is really mediocre and self-disturbing, and some things are just feeling struggling and entangled in the heart for a short period of time, after that time, no one cares who you are or what you do, at most it is just a few words of ridicule.
Remember, no matter how good someone says you are, they won't give you a penny; Others say that no matter how bad you are, they won't ask you for a penny.
When you forgive someone, they may not be aware of it, but you will be relieved. Forgiveness is not for others, forgiveness is a gift we give to ourselves.