Actually, I'm a loner who doesn't like to be in groups
The sister who touched the tea with me is the mother of Lu Ming's classmate Ke Ying, Wang Yan!
Her liking for me, for Lu Ming, for Huang Yelu's parenting articles, and for her love for Youyou's essays truly explains what it means to "like"!
Like a person, an article, it is unstoppable, and it can't be pretended to be active expression and light in the eyes.
This sister has a light in her eyes when she mentions her liking for us!
The light she emitted warmed and touched me, and I caught it with 100% sincerity.
Our acquaintance began one day when Luming got out of school.
I heard an infectious voice: "Wow, this is the sound of the deer." "
To be honest, since Luming went to school, he has won the love of many classmates and parents.
Every day after school, I always heard a lot of children's voices, full of enthusiasm, coming from all directions, all shouting him.
Zhou Luming!
Deer chirping.
It was in this kind of greeting that Lu Ming ran left and right, responding to every little friend who greeted him, and then jumped up and down with his little friends, laughing and laughing.
I am very relieved.
I said to Lu Ming: You are very popular.
At this time, there are often many mothers, unfolding a motherly smile, happily watching the deer and the children into a ball of joy.
He will also communicate with me about the situation of Luming.
Naturally, I became friends with these moms.
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And that day, Wang Yan's "Wow, this is Lu Ming" made me particularly tempted.
Because I heard the warmth and sincerity in her voice!
I looked back and saw the light in her eyes.
I caught the light.
So, we looked at each other and had a heated discussion on "Deer Song".
She said: "As soon as I look at Lu Ming's eyes, I have a military temperament. "
I said, you are too tasteful, you can see it at a glance.
She knew that Lu Ming wore a customized "military baby suit" to school, and she was full of admiration.
said that boys should be cultivated in this way, with ideals, beliefs and blood.
I know that Lu Ming and I met someone who understands themselves at the same time.
In this world, there are countless people. There are countless "contacts and exchanges", but there are very few real understandings.
So, once you have it, cherish it!
And just like that, we chatted all the way.
Every sentence of you and me can arouse the resonance of each other.
Sparks are flying all around us, and they are brilliant colors.
03
When I went home in the evening, I took the initiative to add Wang Yan's WeChat.
Lu Ming often instructed me to work overtime on the WeChat of a certain classmate's mother.
As long as he has a good time with someone, he will say: Mom, you can add his (her) mother's WeChat.
Wang Yan said that she was very excited to receive my invitation to add WeChat, and she felt that one of her sisters she liked very much could take the initiative to add her, and she was flattered.
My time and emotions are only given to those who deserve it.
Wang Yan, it's worth it.
After Wang Yan added me to WeChat, she immersed herself in the article of "Huang Yelu".
The more I look at it, the more I like it.
She has been deeply intoxicated by the articles of the Huangye Lu public account.
There are a lot of details in the article, she can say them all, which is really like.
Last Sunday was Ke Ying's birthday, and she took the initiative to invite me and Youyou Luming!
She was afraid that it would be a little abrupt, but I was full of emotion!
Among the friends she invited, several of them were already readers of Huang Yelu. They all emphasized again and again: Mr. Huang, you must insist on updating and updating more!
So, I must work hard to move forward and live up to it!
04
Wang Yan is a very pure, enthusiastic, simple, sincere and energetic person, who is very consistent with me in all aspects, from the three views to the temperament, from the person to the person, and even our tastes are very consistent - no spicy or happy, spicy first.
She is ten years younger than me, and she is a "year-old" little sister who has no generation gap.
She grew up in Leshan, Sichuan, a city with a very cultural atmosphere, and she loved literature and art by nature, but she always felt that she had regrets in literature, especially in Chinese.
is a mother, has a stable job and family, but still wants to make up for the regrets of youth, and still insists on reading books while taking care of the baby after work.
There are several such little girls around me, and they are all a few years younger than me, in their teens or even twenties.
Wang Yan loves literature, but regrets that she didn't learn Chinese well in high school.
Maybe it's this kind of "love house and black", maybe she has a reference mark in her heart to find friends, maybe she met me and touched the regret of the year.
In short, she had mixed feelings, and by chance, she naturally liked every article I wrote with Youyou Luming and Huang Yelu.
After the big party ended, the group activities were at Wang Yan's house. Four children, four mothers, from noon to night, the children had fun and the mothers chatted happily.
On the night of the party, Wang Yan also posted a circle of friends, and between the lines, it was full of sincerity and enthusiasm.
Still like her smile and sincerity, with light, not dazzling, but bright.
It makes people feel new and warm, and it is accompanied by the upward force together.
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We, the four mothers, unite and cooperate, mothers grow together, and bring their babies to grow together!
Actually, I'm not a person who likes to huddle.
Whether it's self-growth or growing up with a baby, I like to be alone and come at my own pace.
From childhood to adulthood, it has been like this.
I am kind to others, and I get along with everyone sincerely, and treat each other with sincerity.
I'm a good person, and I get along well with many people.
My bosom friends are all real bosom friends. ‘
But I don't have any group friends.
This time, it's the first time.
Since you have accepted it, then cherish this "first time".
Ever since there was such a thing as modern online communication, there have been many "groups".
However, "things gather like and people divide into groups" is eternal.
Some swarms are non-existent.
Some groups don't live up to their names.
Some groups are canvassing for likes.
Some groups are disease-free and moaning.
But some groups are just here to get down to business!
This group of four of us moms - we didn't even have a name.
And it dried.
Yesterday, between work, we began to communicate how to write a good official account.
What I never expected was that Changyan Xiaomei only said yesterday morning that she would start writing an official account, and she really wrote it in the afternoon!
As a person with severe procrastination in some aspects, I must learn more in the face of Changyan's resolute and resolute style of doing what I say!
How hard you try!
Therefore, I also took advantage of the off-duty time and the gap between accompanying the baby to write this article as soon as possible, so as to remember it and encourage it.
