Every time a boy and his girlfriend come to talk about marriage, his mother always has a moth, and he has been single all his life

Here's a story from a friend (Joon):

Xiaojun is the only son in the family, and his father died in an accident when Xiaojun graduated from college. Since the death of his father, Xiaojun found that his mother was becoming more and more strict with Xiaojun, Xiaojun thought of his mother's loneliness, and basically followed his mother in everything.

After 2 years like this, Xiaojun is 27 years old, that year Xiaojun got a girlfriend, and after dating his girlfriend for half a year, Xiaojun thought about taking his girlfriend home to show his mother.

The mother knew that Xiaojun had a girlfriend, and she behaved normally, saying that she would let Xiaojun bring her girlfriend home to show her.

When I brought my girlfriend (Xiaoli) to visit for the first time, Xiaoli took a lot of gifts, but I didn't expect that as soon as I sat down after entering the door, Xiaojun's mother said firstly: "Xiaoli, you see that you bought so many gifts, where did you buy them, did you take a small ticket?" ”

Xiaojun and Xiaoli were stunned, and Xiaojun asked, "Mom, what did you say?" The joke is not funny. ”

Xiaojun's mother said: "I'm not kidding, you look at these things, it looks like someone else sent them to Xiaoli's house, and her family didn't want to eat them, so they were sent to our house." If you go to the supermarket to buy it, then you must have a receipt. If you can't get the shopping receipt, it means that I'm right, then Xiaoli, you don't pay too much attention to our family, our family is not a waste collector. ”

Xiaoli was not happy when she heard this, so she stood up directly, took the gifts on the tea table, and said, "Since you don't like these gifts so much, then I'd better take them back, so as not to hinder your eyes." ”

Xiaoli took the gift and walked out, Xiaojun chased after her, and Xiaoli broke up with Xiaojun directly. Xiaojun didn't want to break up, and after that, Xiaojun kept trying to make Xiaoli happy, but Xiaoli resolutely broke up, saying: "You have such a mother, I don't dare to marry you." After that, he blocked all of Xiaojun's contact information.

Xiaojun also had some resentment towards his mother because of this incident, and for a long time after that, Xiaojun didn't talk to his mother much.

But my mother was still there and said, it's good to divide it, and when I see Xiaoli, she is not a girl from a good family, and that good girl came to the door for the first time and brought what she didn't eat. Xiaojun is really speechless to his mother.

Another year passed, and Xiaojun had another girlfriend, and this girlfriend Xi (Xiaoxiao) met through a blind date. The basic conditions of the woman's family are also known to her mother, and Xiaojun is also very satisfied with the woman. In this way, the two began to dating, and when they were dating for 2 months, one day Xiaoxiao called Xiaojun and proposed to break up.

Xiaojun asked: "Why, haven't we always been fine, why did we break up suddenly." ”

Novel: "You have a mother like that, I don't dare to marry you." I don't want to get married and be a free babysitter for your family. ”

Xiaojun said: "What do you think, how can it be, did someone say something to you?" ”

Xiaoxiao looked at Xiaojun like this, and directly talked about what happened today, saying: "At noon, your mother called me and said that she wanted me to accompany her to buy things, and I thought that she would be my mother-in-law in the future, so I accompanied her to go shopping and buy things." I accompanied my aunt into the mall to buy clothes, and after the clothes were chosen, my aunt directly asked me to pay. Forget it, after buying clothes, my aunt said that she was tired of walking, and said that she invited me to a massage and went to a massage shop she often went to to do a neck massage. When I just wanted to sit down and ask the master to press it for me, my aunt actually said, "Why are you sitting down, you stand on the side and watch to see how the master massages me." You study hard, and when you marry into our family in the future, you will give me a massage in the future, and I don't have to spend money here anymore. You know, stand there and watch. Study hard. ”

Little novel, your mother is like this, do I dare to marry you, then we might as well break up as soon as possible.

Xiaojun said that he comforted Xiaoxiao and kept coaxing Xiaoxiao. Xiaoxiao is better coaxing than his first girlfriend, Xiaoxiao sees Xiaojun constantly apologizing, Xiaoxin softened, and the two reconciled again.

After Xiaoxiao went home, she told her parents about Xiaojun's mother. The little parents are on the little novel, then you will meet with Xiaojun's mother a few times to see what kind of character his mother is, if it has always been like this, then you and Xiaojun should be separated earlier. Otherwise, if there is such a mother, even if you get married, you will leave.

Xiaoxiao listened to her mother's words and felt that she was right, so she thought about going to Xiaojun's house one day.

A week later, Xiaojun took Xiaoxiao home, Xiaojun was afraid that his mother would make trouble, so he bought all the dishes early, bought 3 cooked food, ordered 3 hard dishes for takeout, bought 2 vegetables, and said to his mother: "Mom, my dishes are ready, you only need to fry 2 vegetarian dishes at that time." ”

Xiaojun's mother said yes.

But when Xiaojun led Xiaoxiao home, as soon as he entered the door, Xiaoxiao just said hello to his mother. Xiaojun's mother put the apron on Xiaoxiao and said, "You came just in time, just fry two more vegetarian dishes at noon, and I will wash the dishes." You just copy it. I want to taste your craft. In the future, when you marry in, it will be yours to cook and cook in the future. You burn it for me to taste now, if the burn is not delicious, you go to a class and study hard. You go to cook the vegetables first, and when it's done, I'm telling you what Xiaojun and I like to eat, and you can remember it. I know what kind of vegetables I want to buy in the future. ”

Xiaoxiao listened to Xiaojun's mother talking there, took off her apron directly, threw it to Xiaojun's mother, and said, "Auntie, the threshold for your marriage is too high, and I don't have the blessing to enter your door." After saying that, he just shook the door and left. This time, no matter how Xiaojun coaxed, Xiaoxiao resolutely broke up.

Xiaojun couldn't help it, he was very helpless to his mother. When I got back, I asked my mother, "Mom, what are you doing?"

Xiaojun's mother said: "I'm not here for your good, if your wife can't cook, how will I take care of you in the future." When I'm old, how to take care of me, I'll train her early, and you'll be blessed in the future, why aren't you happy. You conscienceless. ”

After speaking, he still sat down with tears in his eyes. Xiaojun was helpless and didn't know what to say about her.

Helplessness for mom. made Xiaojun dare not fall in love.

This year, Xiaojun is 30 years old, and relatives and friends are urging Xiaojun to get married. Xiaojun was very bitter in his heart, he also wanted to get married, but when he thought of his mother at home, he was a little reluctant.

At the beginning of the year, a colleague in the company introduced him to a girl (Xiaomei). Xiaojun and Xiaomei also chatted a lot, and it didn't take long for the two to be together. This time, Xiaojun didn't want to take Xiaomei to show her mother. But unexpectedly, Xiaojun's mother didn't know where she knew about Xiaojun's girlfriend.

Xiaojun's mother didn't tell Xiaojun, and directly asked someone to inquire about Xiaomei's family situation, and after knowing that Xiaomei had a younger brother. I went directly to Xiaomei's house.

Xiaomei's mother saw that it was her daughter's boyfriend's mother who came to the door, so she warmly invited Xiaojun's mother to come in. After entering Xiaomei's house, Xiaojun's mother observed Xiaomei's home and asked Xiaomei's mother to take her to visit Xiaomei's home. Xiaomei's mother was already a little unhappy when she saw Xiaojun's mother looking east and west when she entered the door. But the door is a guest. Xiaomei's mother took Xiaojun's mother to visit her home.

Xiaojun's mother sees that Xiaomei's room is smaller than Xiaomei's brother's room. Then he opened his mouth and said, "Look at your family, it is patriarchal." I'll just say it directly, your family has a son, and so does mine. I will point to my son in the future.

You will definitely refer to your son in the future, and after Xiaoxiao marries my family Xiaojun, you won't look for your girl anymore. When the time comes, the bride price will be as much as it should be, and I won't bargain with you. ”

When Xiaomei's mother heard Xiaojun's mother speak like this, she said angrily: "There is something wrong with you, when did my family treat my own girl badly, and when I got married, my girl didn't have to go back to her parents' house, why is your face so big, do you think your Xiaojun is RMB, what's wrong with him?" If you leave my house quickly, just like you, no matter how much you give a dowry, I will not marry my girl to your son. Hurry up and get me out. ”

Xiaojun's mother was kicked out by Xiaomei's mother in this way. After Xiaojun's mother came home, she complained to Xiaojun that Xiaomei's mother was rude and was a shrew, and kicked her out.

Xiaojun couldn't help yelling at his mother: "Is she rude or you are rude, you have nothing to do with other people's homes to point fingers, and let other people's girls cut off contact with their mothers directly after marriage, who do you think you are, do you think Xiaomei has to be me, now Xiaomei has broken up with me, you are satisfied." Do you want me to be lonely and old in the future before you can be happy? ”

After saying that, Xiaojun went back to his room. Now he doesn't know what to do.