Domestic violence, cheating, debt, mother-in-law and sister-in-law discord, Yang Ziyu's parents tear up, about to take their daughter?
Zhang Ailing said that life is a gorgeous robe, crawling with fleas.
Behind the bright and beautiful Internet celebrities, there is also a chicken feather.
Internet celebrity "Sanshi's family" relies on the funny jokes of 10-year-old girl Yang Ziyu and her father to attract tens of millions of fans, and make a lot of profits.
For a long time, the relationship between Yang Ziyu's parents was confusing, until Yang Ziyu's mother admitted that she and Ziyu's father had divorced, everyone knew why her mother rarely appeared in the video.
With Yang Ziyu's popularity, her mother also changed her short video account to "Yang Ziyu's mother", and occasionally shared parent-child videos with her daughter.
However, things were not as warm as they seemed, and Yang Ziyu's parents began to poke and tear.
Yang Ziyu's father connotated that his mother cheated and abandoned his daughter, causing the other party to encounter long-term accusations and ridicule and even abuse, Yang Ziyu's mother also often shared sad photos, accusing her ex-husband of not letting herself see her daughter.
Recently, Yang Ziyu's parents broke out in conflict, and they each issued long texts and tears, and their marriage almost collected 8 o'clock family drama elements, which is embarrassing.
01 Yang Ziyu's mother: ex-husband domestic violence, in-laws bullying, sister domineering, business failure ex-husband refuses to bear debts
In Yang Ziyu's mother's story, her marriage is a complete tragedy.
That year, Ziyu's mother was 24 years old and was starting a business, and met Ziyu's father, who was singing in the two-person theater.
After falling in love, Ziyu's father quit his job and they did business together.
Half a year later, the business failed, and they returned to their hometown and decided to get married.
Ziyu's grandfather does not agree to this family matter, Ziyu's mother has a love to drink water, it doesn't matter if the conditions are not good, they are young, as long as they work hard, life will always get better.
There was no wedding, no diamond ring, they rented a house from Grandma Ziyu and hastily completed the marriage event.
What Ziyu's mother didn't expect was that only half a month after marriage, her father-in-law called to ask for pension money.
At that time, my father-in-law was less than 50 years old, and Ziyu's mother had just become pregnant with Ziyu, so she refused.
On the night of giving birth to Ziyu, it was my grandmother and uncle in the countryside who took a taxi to the hospital to pay the surgery fee, and so far, the money has not been returned to Ziyu's uncle.
On the 6th day of confinement, Grandma Ziyu quarreled with her daughter-in-law, and after the helpless Ziyu's mother slapped herself more than 10 times, she dragged her weak body to the hotel in the cold winter of the northeast in December, when it was snowing.
The mother and brother found Ziyu's mother, and after some comfort and persuasion, Ziyu's mother went home for the child.
On the 9th day of confinement, he publicly asked Ziyu's grandfather for 20,000 yuan, saying that he was raising a child, and angrily scolded his daughter-in-law after failing to succeed.
During the whole confinement, the in-laws did not cook nutritious meals for Ziyu's mother, even if the daughter-in-law had a high fever of 40 degrees and dripped a little, they still drank from morning to night, and scolded when they were unhappy.
Ziyu's mother is becoming more and more silent, and for the sake of the child, she has been insisting.
When the child was 8 months old, the mother took Ziyu back to her mother-in-law's house, and was scolded by her in-laws, and in the middle of the night, the mother and daughter stumbled home on the dark mountain road, and the father-in-law who caught up took off Ziyu's mother's silver bracelet and turned away.
When Ziyu was more than 1 year old, her parents went through the divorce procedures, looking at the weak and cute daughter, Ziyu's mother finally couldn't bear it, and she grieved herself for another 7 years.
In 2014, Yang Ziyu's parents started a business again, and his grandmother's relatives lent them more than 900,000 yuan, and they lost money again.
They went to Shenzhen, worked part-time to pay back money, such a difficult day, has always been the mother-in-law helping Ziyu's mother, mother-in-law is also in Shenzhen, living in the daughter's house and not asking about the granddaughter, Ziyu's mother while taking her daughter while setting up a stall to earn some living expenses.
In 2018, Ziyu's mother went to another place to work, and the child gave it to her ex-husband and mother-in-law.
In 2021, Ziyu's parents took her to shoot jokes together and became popular, and she had 6 million fans in 3 months.
On January 24, 2022, Ziyu's mother left home, because her father, grandmother and aunt took turns to reprimand Ziyu, Ziyu shivered and cried, but her mother did not dare to say a word to anyone, and there was no way to protect her daughter.
The aunt threw Ziyu's mother out of the house in front of Ziyu, and Ziyu's father also refused to return the 250,000 yuan lent to them by Ziyu's uncle, which he thought was lent to Ziyu's mother and had nothing to do with him.
Ziyu's mother said that when she was 6 months pregnant, she was subjected to domestic violence by her ex-husband, and on the day she was driven away, she was beaten twice.
Ziyu's mother, who was bullied by her in-laws, husband and aunt, looked at her daughter who was crying heartbreakingly, and suddenly smiled.
She picked up her daughter and left, but was taken back by her ex-husband and mother-in-law, and she could only leave silently.
Ziyu and her father are getting more and more popular, but Ziyu's mother has always been scolded for abandoning her husband and daughter, cheating, and even seeing her daughter is very difficult.
After enduring for more than a year, Ziyu's mother couldn't bear it, and sent a long article to express her 10-year grievances, and decided to let her daughter return to her side and let her daughter grow up happily.
02 Ziyu's father: Just go here, my regression backfired
In the face of his ex-wife's outpouring, Ziyu's father also posted a response, directly accusing his ex-wife of cheating.
Ziyu's father admitted that his ex-wife married him because of love, but he said that love lost to life, and blamed his ex-wife for accusing and complaining.
He did not explain everything his parents and sister did to Ziyu's mother, only said that it is difficult for officials to decide family affairs, and many things are not right or wrong.
He accused his ex-wife of marital infidelity and posted chat records to confirm it.
Regarding entrepreneurship and debt, Ziyu's father said that the debt was borrowed by relatives on both sides, and after parting ways, each was responsible for repaying their respective debts.
Ziyu's father posted a transfer record, saying that he transferred money to his ex-wife many times, and the other party did not pay back the money and asked him for 1 million, and he tore his face if the purpose was not achieved.
Regarding his daughter Yang Ziyu, the father accused his ex-wife of taking little care of him, and he did not prevent the other party from watching the child, but always Ziyu's mother said that she wanted to see the child, and when the time came, there was no one. When he ran away, he didn't care about the child's cry, but now he has been making up stories, describing the child's grandparents as fierce and vicious.
"You have come back to see your child a few times, and the short video has improved before coming back more, whether you see your daughter you know in your heart."
Ziyu's father's response was more organized, without the feeling of being out of control of his mother's emotions.
It's just that he has passed through a lot of pain that Ziyu's mother confided in.
Regarding domestic violence, he said that it is the character of Northeasterners; Regarding his parents insulting his ex-wife, he said that if his ex-wife was a docile person, he would not have done these things today; Regarding his sister, he said that his sister let them live in a house and should be grateful; Regarding educating children, he said that he is a strict father.
It seems to respond, but it avoids the important and the light, and the answer is not what is asked, and the penmanship of Qianqiu is very professional.
Now, their contradictions focus on their daughter Yang Ziyu, who is now not only a child, but also the foundation of his career.
03 A broken marriage, innocent children, where will Ziyu go
For her ex-husband's response, Ziyu's mother clarified live, saying that the screenshot of her ex-husband's transfer was a loan, because she couldn't pay the rent when she went to Shenzhen, and she had to pay it back. The account achieved 6 million fans, and she didn't ask for a penny, but she alone bore the previous common debt.
Because the custody is with Ziyu's mother, she plans that after her daughter returns to her side, she will not be allowed to appear on the short video platform again, and she will grow up healthily and study happily.
Ziyu is in the fourth grade, the pressure of studying has become greater, and she has to make jokes for the income of the whole family, making it not look like a girl, but often after school alone at home, dinner at the evening nursery.
"Use children to earn money to feed you all, have you considered children? Is Ziyu in the lens the real her? Now I can't see the child, touch my bottom line, I won't let you bully like before, I will let my daughter return to her mother as soon as possible! ”
Ziyu's father denied that he used his daughter to make money, saying that the child has grown up well in all aspects, and he is also confident and generous in front of the camera, making videos is much better than playing games and watching TV, and his daughter has a good relationship with himself.
Ziyu's mother said that she only told part of her experience over the years, and there are more things she keeps for the time being, and now she only wants to return to her daughter.
Yang Ziyu's father's short video account, if you lose Ziyu, you will lose your soul.
Probably, regarding the belonging of their daughter, none of them will give up easily.
It is difficult for Qing officials to break up family affairs.
There was a lot of noise, and only Yang Ziyu was hurt the most.
Parents quarrelling, grandma's family and mother discord, family quarrels and scolding, invisible fathers, these are all hazes of growth for children.
From their respective long texts, it is not difficult to find that in family life, Yang Ziyu's mother is in a very difficult situation.
High debts, no fixed place to live, scolding her in-laws, strong sisters, husbands and young children who leave her hands alone, such an environment, Yang Ziyu's father also requires his ex-wife to be docile?
But if Yang Ziyu's father can handle family relations well, he will not come to this point.
Father's love is the mother's quiet, the mother's silence is the son's peace, the son's peace is the family's peace, and the family's peace is all prosperous.
"Along the way, without the pride of the past, I also lost the appearance of the beginning, I don't push when I should come, I don't chase when I should go, and these years of tossing have long made me unrecognizable." At this age, talking about the past is like selling misery, talking about the future is like daydreaming, and talking about the present is a fan of the authorities. Speechless, the words are bitter. I hid from everyone, pretended to have passed a lot of hurdles, and looked very happy. In fact, only I know that some things are really difficult to get through..."
Ziyu's mother's words expressed the bitterness of many middle-aged women, no matter what, I hope they can solve the problem calmly, give Ziyu a better environment, and let her have real happiness.