#记录我的2023#
Recently, the incident of "a returnee white-collar worker living alone in the mountains and exploring open gender relations" has caused widespread heated discussions on the Internet.
What happened
Gu Yue, who was born in 88, is the heroine of this story, after completing graduate school from the Netherlands in Europe, returned to China to become a white-collar worker and worked and lived in Shanghai for eight or nine years. But Shanghai's bustling urban life did not make Gu Yue feel happy.
After many thoughts and explorations, Gu Yue felt that she yearned for a more primitive key and wanted to explore the looser gender relationship. Therefore, through communication with WeChat friends, she finally met and chose the male protagonist of this story - Yang Shu, came to Yunnan, and began their longing primitive life with a gender relationship that is not married, can be social, and a life partner.
Now that they've had babies and live in dirt houses without electricity, they're enjoying a primitive life at a low cost while exploring open-ended relationships. They each have their own space, each has its own place, and the economy is also managed separately.
In life, each of them takes on the part they are good at, such as Yang Shu is good at repairing houses and making fires, and Gu Yue is good at housework and gets along harmoniously. In the dull, enjoy the simple pleasures of the moment, such as playing music on a rainy day, dancing and singing casually but comfortably.
Of course, there will be conflicts in life because of many details, such as the experimental method of farming, the requirements for living, and so on. So they also arranged a place to live under the mountain, and Gu Yue would go down every week to ensure some sense of distance. At the same time, Gu Yue also said that when the child is older, she will also start some of the careers she wants, and at the same time, she is Yang Shu's first girlfriend, so she will encourage Yang Shu to make some girlfriends and allow various experiences to occur.
Comments from netizens
Some netizens said: This kind of relationship between the sexes is not what they want.
Some netizens said: disapprove, do not oppose, think they are happy.
Some netizens said: This girl is very self-centered and only cares about her feelings, and the boy is just a partner, which is very boring.
Some netizens said: It's good, the man has no bride price to be white for his wife and children.
epilogue
The author believes that many things in the world are not simply right or wrong, or black and white, and many things are reasonable when they exist. The author doesn't want to judge anything, but the author agrees with Gu Yue's phrase "allow all kinds of experiences to occur", people should not set limits for themselves, as many netizens say "just be happy yourself"
So what do you think about this, express your thoughts!!