The story of the farmer and the snake is not uncommon in real life. In modern society, the mixing of interests makes many sincere friendships ethereal. In stories like this, we can see relationships that were once full of sincerity finally come to the brink of breakdown. This time, the story takes place in an ordinary family in Guang'an, Sichuan, China, involving an abandoned adoptive father with intellectual disabilities and an abandoned baby full of rebellious thoughts.
Fang Chongcai, the adoptive father of the intellectual disability in the story, suffered from acute meningitis in childhood, which caused intellectual impairment, and he did not have the conditions to adopt a child, but he adopted a baby girl Fang Mengzhen who was abandoned by his family. Although there is no legal adoptive father-daughter relationship between Fang Mengzhen and Fang Chongcai, they have lived together for 23 years.
However, as Fang Meng really grew, her rebellious psychology gradually increased. When Fang Mengzhen got married, her attitude towards her adoptive father began to change, and she even thought he was a burden. She sent her adoptive father back to her hometown and asked to sever the father-daughter relationship with his adoptive father. The court finally decided on this request and gave Fang Mengzhen financial compensation.
This story is chilling and makes us reflect on the relationship between people. Although the law does not tolerate human favor, Fang Mengzhen's behavior is unacceptable. If it weren't for Fang Chongcai's kindness at the beginning, it would be difficult for Fang Mengzhen to grow up peacefully. Her father's nurturing grace to her should be immeasurable, but Fang Mengzhen treated her with indifference and ruthlessness.
This story raises many questions worth pondering. In real life, how should we view the efforts of our parents or adoptive parents? When encountering difficulties, how should we face the love and help of our families? Perhaps this story can become an opportunity for reflection and reflection, so that we can cherish our loved ones more and express gratitude and understanding for their efforts.
The story of the farmer and the snake is not uncommon in real life, especially in the interests of modern society, the true friendship of the past has now become ethereal. In this story, an abandoned baby who speaks ill of his adoptive father after marrying ends up in court. How did the 23-year adoptive father-daughter relationship come to this point?
The beginning of the story is that Fang Chongcai adopted Fang Mengzhen, an abandoned baby. Fang Chongcai himself did not have the conditions to adopt a child, and the adoption process did not comply with the law. Although Fang Mengzhen was hung on Fang Chongcai's account, at the legal level, their adoptive father-daughter relationship was not established. In the end, the court ruled to dissolve the adoptive father-daughter relationship between the two.
Talking about Fang Chongcai, Fang Mengzhen could see disgust and hatred on his face, but he could not see the warmth that should exist between father and daughter. On the contrary, Fang Chongcai always had a bitter smile on the corners of his mouth when he mentioned his daughter. This contrast makes people feel chilling and think about what brought a father and daughter who once gave so much to get to this point.
The development of the story tells us that Fang Chongcai is not an ordinary adoptive father. He was ill and mentally impaired since childhood, but his family did not give up on him. Under the care of his mother and older brother, he grew up and was able to perform some basic labor. Despite his intellectual problems, he is truly loving and tries his best to meet her needs. After Fang Chongcai's mother died, he began to take over his daughter's life and act as a parent.
Fang Meng is really a sensible child, she understands her adoptive father's hard work, and wants to help the family reduce the burden. So she decided to drop out of school and work to supplement her family's financial expenses. While working outside the home, she constantly called home and sent money home every month. Such filial piety is touching.
However, as time passed, Fang Meng's true mind also changed. She met her future husband, felt that the two were a match, and decided to get married. But her in-laws and husband were not as friendly as they were to Fang Chongcai, and even began to have negative feelings towards him. Fang Mengzhen also gradually felt that his adoptive father had become a burden, and even suspected that he took a sum of money between her and her in-laws. In the end, she decided to take her adoptive father to court, hoping to dissolve the father-daughter relationship.
In court, because Fang Chongcai's situation was really not suitable for raising children, the court ruled to dissolve the father-daughter relationship. This result made Fang Meng really feel proud, but it was also chilling. A father who was raised hard by Han Xinru eventually became a white-eyed wolf. Although the law does not tolerate feelings, Fang Mengzhen's behavior towards his adoptive father is really unacceptable.
The story ends with Fang Chongcai falling into deep pain after losing his daughter, while Fang Mengzhen has nothing to do with his adoptive father after receiving financial compensation. This ending is embarrassing, and it also provokes some thoughts.
When we evaluate a person, we should not only look at their intelligence and ability, but also on their goodness and morality. Filial piety is one of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and as a person with a damaged IQ, Fang Chongcai does not lack love and dedication. On the contrary, Fang Mengzhen, as a normal person, lacks the basic respect and care for his adoptive father. This unfilial behavior not only hurt the adoptive father's heart, but also made people doubt her character.
We cannot forget what our parents have done for us, whether they are intellectually impaired or not. Their love and nurturing grace cannot be measured. We should think deeply about the true value of family and affection from the stories of Fang Chongcai and Fang Mengzhen. Whether it is an intellectual disability or other difficulties, the love of parents is selfless, and we should cherish and respect them.
This story reminds us that in the face of family affection and interests, we should choose true love. The adoptive father-daughter relationship is not only a legal constraint, but also a friendship thicker than water. Only by treating each other sincerely can you enjoy the warmth of a real family. Whether in writing or in real life, we should cherish and respect our parents and be a kind and filial person.
Title: The End of a True Love: The End of the Father-Daughter Adoptive Father Relationship, What Is Lost?
Fang Chongcai in the story is an intellectually impaired man, but he adopts an abandoned baby Fang Mengzhen with love. After 23 years of father-daughter relationship, Fang Mengzhen finally took his adoptive father to court and asked to dissolve the father-daughter relationship. It's a touching story that makes us wonder, why did this relationship like the story of the farmer and the snake come to this point.
In real life, the mixing of interests makes the true feelings between many people become ethereal. Fang Mengzhen raised in a difficult family since she was a child, and her adoptive father Fang Chongcai was not qualified to adopt a child due to intellectual impairment. However, this mother's selfless love made her choose to adopt Fang Mengzhen. The adoptive father-daughter relationship between the two does not establish at the legal level, but this does not stop Fang Chongcai from truly loving and caring for Fang Meng.
However, the 23-year adoptive-daughter relationship ended in court. Although Fang Chongcai worked hard to raise Fang Mengzhen to grow up, she spoke ill of him and finally decided to break off the father-daughter relationship. The court upheld the judgment of the first instance, finding that the relationship between the two was not established. This decision is chilling, and it also makes people think about the affection and responsibility between father and daughter.
Looking back at Fang Chongcai's life, we can see that he has experienced countless hardships. Meningitis as a child left with the sequelae of intellectual impairment, which made him unable to live like a normal person for the rest of his life. However, his mother and brother were always by his side to support and protect him. When Fang Chongcai adopted Fang Mengzhen, he gave her wholeheartedly and tried to make her happy. He may not do laundry and cooking, but he is always willing to do his part for the family and lighten the burden.
After Fang Mengzhen grew up, he accidentally met his lover. She decided to take her father into a new family to live with her, giving him the security of old age. However, as time passed, Fang Mengzhen gradually felt the unfriendliness of her in-laws and the pressure of public opinion. She gradually came to think that her adoptive father was a burden and had no practical benefit to herself. Eventually, she sent her father back home, breaking the bond between them.
The direction of the father-daughter relationship in this story is touching and triggers people's thinking about love and affection. Fang Mengzhen's behavior is distressing, her irresponsibility to her father not only made Fang Chongcai lose his family affection, but also made him lose the warmth that he should have between father and daughter.
Regardless of whether Fang Chongcai is legally capable of raising children, his kindness and love are undeniable. Fang Mengzhen grew up safely because of Fang Chongcai's nurturing, and this kindness and selflessness should not be abandoned.
Perhaps we should re-examine this father-daughter relationship. Family affection should be a mutually supportive force, not only material interests. The selflessness and devotion of fatherly love should be duly respected and rewarded.
Let's not forget the good time between Fang Chongcai and Fang Mengzhen, a father and daughter. Let us reflect on the hurtful indifference and irresponsibility behind this story. Fatherly love and affection are so precious that we should cherish and respect them.
Perhaps, in this real world, we need more attention and support, so that these hard-working fathers can feel our love and care. Perhaps, in everyone's heart, a lamp of fatherly love can be lit, so that the power of love and affection can shine in our lives.
