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In recent years, with the rise of social media and the popularity of smart phones, the problem of online violence has become increasingly prominent, which has triggered people's thinking about the bottom line of morality and respect for the rights and interests of others. A video of a man on a bus giving up his seat to an elderly man sparked a heated discussion on Douyin, and the incident sparked attention and discussion about online violence.
Recently, in a video circulating on Douyin, the father of a blogger gave up a seat to an old man, but was secretly photographed by someone next to him and posted on Douyin to mock his dress, and in the comment area and a group of netizens mocked the man's dress "rustic". Call it a middle-aged greasy male outfit for Liangguang. The man, a middle-aged man from Anhui Province, accidentally swiped this video and saw a group of people laughing at himself.
This kind of behavior that takes pleasure in ridiculing others not only hurts the self-esteem of the person being ridiculed, but also violates the basic principle of respecting others. In order to protect his rights and interests, the blogger's father took the initiative to chat privately with the secretaire hoping that she could delete the video. However, the secretly filmed not only did not admit to the secretly filmed and did not intend to apologize for deleting the video, but also smugly that he finally had a Douyin "fire". This act of online violence for pleasure is deeply worrying.
After further understanding, I learned that the secretly photographed person is a mother with two children, according to the previous videos posted on her Douyin homepage, her family is average, he and his husband are very lazy, how lazy can they be? I'm so lazy that my rice bowl is moldy, and I won't clean it up.
As this netizen commented under his video: Since you are also from an ordinary family as a parent, it is more important to understand that this father, who is also an ordinary person, this uncle gives up his seat with a tired body, and you are laughing at people's outfits here, it can only be said that you are superficial in thinking and uneducated!
Online violence is not only a moral issue, but also a violation of human dignity and rights. In cyberspace, people often lose respect and care for others because of anonymity and distance, and take pleasure in attacking and ridiculing others. However, we should be aware that everyone should be treated with respect, both in real life and in virtual space.
After many private messages without success, the father of the netizen couldn't bear it, so he half-jokingly told his daughter about it, and the blogger was very angry after seeing the video of the secretly filmed, and immediately went to the private chat with the secretly filmed person to ask the other party to delete the video, but also did not get a response.
So, the blogger posted a video hoping that the candid photographer could delete the video mocking his father. The video said: My dad wears clothes in a nest, but he and my mother are the best and best people in the world, you say you have no malice, but I see that you dislike it, do you have quality without the permission of others to secretly photograph you? He didn't talk for a few days, but he told me when he came home from vacation today, and showed me this video half-jokingly, and he said, "Girl, I'm angry." Looking at his tired gaze and his dirty hands from work, my nose couldn't help but sour. I asked him why he didn't tell me earlier, he said I don't bother me at work, the most worried thing still happened, he has no culture, he is not bad, he still gives people a seat, this video is angry my hands and feet are cold, you really have no quality at all.
During the period, the blogger's father also kept asking her to tell the secretaire to be reasonable, not to use dirty words, and hoped that this matter would end here, let her rub the hot spot, and then everyone would not disturb each other.
Unsurprisingly, the video quickly gained attention from netizens, with a large number of netizens pouring into the sneaker homepage to criticize his behavior for lack of morality.
However, the secretly filmed did not admit his mistake and blamed the father and daughter for the scolding of netizens. Under pressure, the sneaker finally replied to the blogger's father's private message, and the first sentence was to blame his daughter, and said that he was raped online because of his daughter. 并要求其女儿公开给她道歉。 博主父亲听后委婉表达自己的感受，而且自始自终也没有想要得到偷拍者的一句道歉。 I just hope that both sides can take a step back and delete the video from each other, but the candid not want to do that.
But this time the can't bully the blogger's father like before, the blogger is next to him, took the mobile phone and directly theorized with the candid photographer, and the candid photographer could not bear the verbal attack.
Subsequently, she complained about the blogger's video, on the grounds that she was abused by her video guidance online, and she was affected as a mother and could not take the child well. and sent a video to scold the blogger, implying that the blogger did not have any ability to think, and she did it just to attract traffic. Then he said in the video that I posted the video with my consent.
At this point, the sneaker still did not realize his mistake, and was still arguing for himself, completely without thinking about how uncomfortable it was for people's fathers to be ridiculed by you with a group of people for several days. Of course, netizens are not stupid, they will not be biased by her, and directly report that she was banned by the Douyin platform.
Douyin is banned
然而事情并没有结束，偷拍者开始在直播，并在直播中辱骂网友和父女二人,称自己被他们“网络暴力”。
The blogger called the police in desperation, and the police quickly arrived at the scene. After questioning, netizens handed the video screenshot to the police for viewing. However, the police believe that this is an act of giving up seats to promote positive energy. The blogger felt it was more mockery than praise, but the police insisted that the photo on the bus was not a candid photo. But the blogger only wants the other party to delete the video, but the police believe that the matter is not a big deal, saying that the secretly filmed person has been punished, and if the blogger wants to solve the matter, he should first delete the video himself to calm the situation.
The blogger then consulted his father, and his father also said that he didn't want to make a big deal out of it, after all, the secretaire has been banned, so let the matter pass. The blogger said he felt powerless now, and had to give up despite the fact that things had come to this point.
This incident has triggered people's thinking about online violence, moral bottom line and respect for the rights and interests of others. In this seemingly free space of speech, we should learn to respect others and not judge and ridicule others easily. At the same time, it is also hoped that relevant departments can strengthen the supervision of online speech and maintain the harmony and order of the online environment.
Filming and uploading videos without their consent is itself a privacy violation and moral misconduct. The purpose of uploading the video is also to mock the appearance of the man, which is a kind of "online violence". She does not respect the privacy of others, but when questioned by the group, she in turn accuses the victim of "online violence", which is completely nonsense.
The actions of the sneaker fully exposed her moral corruption and lack of quality. Not only did she not apologize, but she also attacked the victim; She does not admit her mistakes, but blames them on others. Such people often lack moral cognition and lack a minimum moral bottom line.
Secondly, the passive response of the police also highlights the current weak supervision of social platforms. Many online violence is hidden under the surface silence, and the government and relevant departments should formulate and improve relevant laws and regulations to clarify the definition and punishment measures for online violence. At the same time, strengthen the supervision of online platforms and social media, require them to implement their review and management responsibilities, and effectively combat online violence.
In addition, all sectors of society also need to participate in the governance of the network environment. Media, social organizations, and netizens should speak out, calling for attention to and resolution of online violence, forming public opinion pressure on online violence, and promoting social joint condemnation of online violence.
This incident has brought people together to reflect on what respect is and what morality is. In this virtual network era, we still need to adhere to the truth, goodness and beauty, and cherish every human brilliance.
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