At the age of 28, I am a lively and cheerful single young woman. Usually, I work as a sales person in a well-known company, and although I am busy with work, my income is acceptable, which makes my life very moist.
I long for a close partner who can be with me for the rest of my life.
On weekends, I go shopping with some good sisters. They all already have their own small families, and some have become mothers.
"Xiao Wang, you should also consider finding a partner to marry, they are all 28, and it will be difficult to find a suitable one later!" My sister Ali said to me.
"Yes, we introduced so many people that you don't like, and you can't be too high-minded." Sister Lin also chimed in.
I smiled wryly, and was not embarrassed to tell them about the difficulty that I had not found a suitable partner.
Just when I was about to give up the idea of getting married, a magical encounter changed my destiny...
One day, Ali rushed to me and said that there was a very nice young man in her aunt's house, who was handsome and had a good personality, and was exactly the same as the ideal object in my mind.
On the day of the blind date, I arrived at the agreed café half an hour early and sat nervously by the window and waited.
He dressed plainly and plainly, with a warm smile on his face, looking sunny and sincere. My heart was beating faster, and my intuition told me that this person might be the other half of my dreams.
Later conversations confirmed my hunch. Zhang Ming has a cheerful personality, warm and humorous, and is very compatible with my interests and hobbies.
I could feel the kindness and sense of responsibility in his heart.
"Zhang Ming, do you have time? How about we go for a walk by the river? "When we broke up, I plucked up the courage to ask him out.
"Well, I'm honored." Zhang Ming readily agreed.
As we walked along the river, watching the sunset sprinkle gold on the river, I felt joy and sweetness like never before.
I became pregnant shortly after marriage, and Zhang Ming was overjoyed, and seeing the joy and pride on his face, I knew that he would definitely be a good father.
Finally, our child was born safely. Holding the child, Zhang Ming said with tears in his eyes: "Our baby is so cute!" At this moment, I felt extremely happy.
I also deeply feel the joy of being a mother. Zhang Ming offered to register the baby's household registration in the house in my name because the house was in a good school district.
But seeing the fatherly joy on Zhang Ming's face, I didn't think too much.
But a few days later, I couldn't help but ask Zhang Ming: "Honey, why did you put the baby's account here?" Are you worried that we will be separated in the future? ”
Zhang Ming seemed taken aback, and a trace of sadness flashed on his face. "I don't mean that, I just want to choose a better school district for my baby," he said.
I had an intuition that he was hiding the truth and kept asking questions. Zhang Ming confessed to me with red eyes: He couldn't get any of the demolished houses, all in the name of his younger brother Li Gang.
After he finished speaking, his eyes were full of self-blame and apologies.
I was amazed. Obviously told me that the demolition will be divided into 3 apartments, one for him and one for his brother. Is he lying to me? I felt very unhappy in my heart, but seeing Zhang Ming's pain, I couldn't bear to blame him.
After learning the truth, I was angry and sad. Zhang Mingming told me that the demolition will be divided into 3 apartments, one for him and one for his brother.
I really can't understand, my mother-in-law obviously has 3 houses, but all of them are given to the eldest son Li Gang, and the younger son has nothing, how can the father-in-law be so unfair? .
I called my mother angrily to complain, saying in tears that my in-laws' family was too unspeakable. My mother comforted me and calmed me down, and my mother-in-law's approach did not seem to be completely partial, it was possible that it was a special agreement between brothers.
Mom's words calmed me down, and I decided to wait patiently for Zhang Ming to give me an explanation. Fortunately, our husband and wife relationship is reliable, and Zhang Ming quickly noticed my abnormality.
Now breaking his promise, Li Gang will be sad.
After listening to it, I understood the ins and outs of the matter, and the father-in-law and mother-in-law also had their own difficulties. At this time, Li Gang suddenly came to visit, and he smiled and said to us: "This is the biggest new house, I will give it to my nephew as a gift for 100 days!" You are a family, and you need a big house.
I was very touched by Li Gang's understanding. I was suddenly relieved and decided to accept this gift, because this is exactly what my father-in-law and brother want.
After this misunderstanding, my relationship with Zhang Ming became more and more intimate and harmonious. We are very grateful to Li Gang for his kindness and solving the urgent need.
One day, Zhang Ming said to me, "My dear, we can't always rely on others for help, we need to learn to be independent. I decided to quit my current job and start my own company! You say, are we better to do production or sales? ”。
I support Zhang Ming's idea, after all, he has a talent for business, and entrepreneurship will be a good choice. After discussion, we decided to do the sales industry we are most familiar with, specializing in the products of several big brands.
So Zhang Ming resigned to start the company, we were busy working during the day and studying how to expand the business together at night. Finally, half a year after the establishment of the company, it entered the right track, orders continued to pour in, and business became more and more prosperous.
Two years later, we had enough start-up capital to realize our dream of buying a house and give our children a real home of their own.
The moment I moved into my new home, Zhang Ming hugged me in circles and said excitedly: "Honey, this is all the result of your and the company's employees' efforts!" We will have a better life in the future, I promise.
I am also sincerely relieved and happy. We are determined to focus our energies on our careers and families instead of material things.
As the business became more and more prosperous, Zhang Ming's company developed and became one of the famous brand agents in the industry.
But I found that Zhang Ming often worked late for the company, and after returning home, he was always looking at the document research business, and his face looked tired.
The doctor said that he has been under too much pressure lately and needs to adjust his routine and rest more.
I was very distressed and blamed myself for not being able to detect Zhang Ming's abnormality in time. That day, I had a serious conversation with Zhang Ming, saying that he must reduce the burden of work, and the company's development cannot be at the expense of health.
Zhang Ming was very moved to see our efforts, and immediately decided to reorganize the company and cultivate the management team, and he gradually moved towards the role of strategic guidance.
The shift in work has also made Zhang Ming's life more balanced. He would regularly take our family out on vacation, and every night when he came home he would accompany the children to do homework and chat.
Once, Zhang Ming said to me, "My dear, without you, there would be nothing now. Thank you for always supporting me and making me a better version of myself.
I held Zhang Ming's hand and said softly, "My dear, no matter what happens in the future, we will go hand in hand."
Through all this, the marriage boat of Zhang Ming and I continues to move forward. We learn to cherish the people around us and enjoy our current life.
However, the good times did not last long, and just when the business was at its peak, the epidemic suddenly broke out. The entire industry has come to a standstill, and our company orders are rapidly declining.
One night, Zhang Ming sighed and said: "My dear, this epidemic has hit me hard, and the company may be going out of business."
I comforted, "My dear, it's just a temporary depression, this wave of epidemic will pass." At critical moments, we need to be more confident.
The important thing is that our family is safe and healthy, and everything else will be fine.
Zhang Ming nodded, and a smile returned to his face. In order to help Zhang Ming through this difficult time, I took the initiative to contact our previous customers to find out what else they needed.
With our joint efforts, orders slowly picked up again. Zhang Ming's company gradually found the rhythm of operation.
Our family of three has been lifted up in this pandemic. Zhang Ming and I cherish ordinary family fun more, and the children have become more sensible and self-reliant.
I believe that there will be more problems waiting to be solved in life in the future. But with family together, we have enough courage and confidence to face it.
However, just as life was gradually getting back on track, a dispute suddenly broke out between Zhang Ming and me.
One day, Zhang Ming offered to transfer 20% of the company's equity to his brother Li Gang in return for Li Gang's past kindness.
"My dear, Li Gang has made great sacrifices for our family since he was a child, and this equity is nothing." Zhang Ming explained.
"But this is a company you founded yourself, why should you give away shares?" In the future, Li Gang can intervene in the company's operation! "I was very angry.
"Then you can't joke about the company! This is in the interests of our family, how can you make a decision without discussing? I strongly disagree with him handling it without permission.
We argued for a long time, but in the end, Zhang Ming relented to me and agreed to at least discuss it at the shareholders' meeting.
Later, I calmed down and thought calmly, and felt that Zhang Ming was also out of affection for his younger brother. I decided to take the initiative to talk to Zhang Ming to resolve the misunderstanding caused by this incident.
"I'm sorry, darling, I went too far." I first admitted my mistake to Zhang Ming.
Zhang Ming also blamed himself and said: "I didn't think it through, I should have discussed it with you first." I promise that I will not make any more decisions about the company in the future.
Through open and honest communication, we re-established mutual understanding and trust. This makes our relationship stronger than ever.
After that, after our discussion, Zhang Ming still gave Li Gang 5% of the shares as a thank you for his help. Li Gang also did not ask about the company's affairs, and only gave Zhang Ming advice and support at important moments.
This incident made me deeply realize that there will inevitably be differences in getting along, but as long as we uphold an inclusive, understanding and respectful attitude, we can resolve misunderstandings and rebuild trust.