The dilemma of honest people: The change of thinking and concept from the story of Lo Rongzhi and Fa Ziying [introduced] In the 2020s, when people talk about "honest people", most of them will associate it with the difficulty of getting rid of singles and finding objects. However, as early as more than two decades ago, we already saw signs that "honest people" were not welcome. In the scrupulous relationship between Lo Rongzhi and Fa Ziying, we can't help but have some questions and thoughts. 【First paragraph】The age difference between Lao Rongzhi and Fa Ziying triggered the thinking that Lao Rongzhi was born in 1974, while Fa Ziying was born in 1964, and the age difference between the two is as high as ten years. According to the concept of 2021, Lao Rongzhi's relationship with "uncle" is not mainstream for the contemporary post-00s. However, more than two decades ago, Lo Rongzhi's choice was undoubtedly non-mainstream. In those days, it was not uncommon for young girls to marry old men, largely due to economic constraints. Compared with now, people's economic conditions are limited, which makes the relationship between many young girls and uncles more money-based. However, the relationship between Fa Ziying and Lo Rongzhi does not seem to be based on money.
【Second paragraph】Behind Fa Ziying's "resume" and personal choices, Fa Ziying has been a bad boy since he was a child, and even left school after only reaching the third grade of elementary school. In 1981, 17-year-old Fa Ziying thought he was living in good times because the country had just undergone economic reforms. However, in that era, social security problems were more serious, which was an opportunity for Fa Ziying. He began to rob and injure others frequently, but did not get away with it and was eventually sentenced to ten years in prison. However, he was freed a year early in 1990, a year in a year when Chinese society changed dramatically. In the past nine years, China's social and economic development has been rapid, and opportunities are everywhere. For people like Fa Ziying who have no education, skills and business acumen, the change in society is undoubtedly a huge stimulus. And Lao Rongzhi, a young and beautiful girl with a secondary education, set her sights on Fa Ziying, whose conditions were completely unmatched. 【Third paragraph】Lao Rongzhi's choice and change of thinking concept Lao Rongzhi has been versatile since childhood, excellent academic performance, after the middle school entrance examination, he was admitted to technical secondary school and assigned to a local school to become a primary school teacher.
However, she chose to fall in love with the ugly-looking, bad-looking, and aggressive Fa Ziying. Such a choice seems illogical for a young woman with a secondary education. One of the possible reasons is the curiosity mentality, film and television dramas with the theme of Puzzle Boy were very popular in the 90s, and many ignorant girls regarded Puzzle Boy as a hero. Lo Rongzhi may have been stimulated by this. Another possible reason is that Lao Rongzhi misunderstands Fa Ziying, and is likely to mistakenly believe that Fa Ziying has unlimited prospects and wealth. Lao Rongzhi chose to follow Fa Ziying to death and launched a series of criminal activities. This makes us think that it does not matter whether a person is talented or not, what matters is whether the three views are correct. Lo Rongzhi's wrong three views ruined her life. 【Fourth paragraph】The fugitive life of Fa Ziying and Lao Rongzhi In 1996, due to conflicts with others that led to casualties, Fa Ziying realized that his big trouble was coming and chose to flee his hometown. At this time, Lao Rongzhi chose to follow Fa Ziying and live a life of desperation together, and committed many crimes during this time. This makes many people feel puzzled why the original Lao Rongzhi chose to follow Fa Ziying to die in the world. The 22-year-old Lo should be aware of what his choice means.
Lo Rongzhi claimed to have been coerced into following Fa Ziying, but this claim was hardly convincing. Judging from Lo Rongzhi's cruel use of cruelty to the victim, her choice at that time was completely voluntary. The reason why Lo Rongzhi chose to follow Fa Ziying is probably because she participated in many undignified things with Fa Ziying before fleeing. 【Summary】The story of Lo Rongzhi and Fa Ziying has triggered us to think about the change in thinking and concept. Although Lo Rongzhi had talent and secondary education, he chose Fa Ziying, whose conditions were completely unmatched. Behind this choice, it may be influenced by the curiosity mentality and the wrong perception of Fa Ziying. However, whether a person's three views are correct is crucial, and Lo Rongzhi's wrong choice ruined her life. Therefore, we should think carefully when choosing our life partners and friends to ensure that our three views are correct to avoid going on the road of no return. 【Personal opinion】The story of Lo Rongzhi and Fa Ziying has triggered me to think more deeply about the change of thinking and concept. In contemporary society, people's values and codes of conduct are constantly changing, so we should be more cautious when facing choices to ensure that our thinking concepts are in line with the requirements of modern society.
At the same time, we must also realize that a person's talent and education level are not the only criteria to measure his character and life value, and the correct three views are the key to shaping a person's destiny. Therefore, we should focus on cultivating correct thinking concepts to avoid regretting for the rest of our lives because of wrong choices. 【Question Guide】How much do you think a person's thinking concept affects his life? When choosing a life partner and friend, how do you consider each other's mindset? Do you have a story similar to Lo Rongzhi and Fa Ziying happening around you? Please share your views and experiences.