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This is a real adaptation of the case, telling the story of a college girl Zhu Mouya who fell in love with a black boyfriend Ma Lang, but did not know that he had AIDS and was eventually infected, and how she bravely faced the disease and used her personal experience to promote AIDS prevention and treatment. The purpose of this case is to arouse the attention and attention of the society to AIDS, and at the same time to convey a positive energy and tragic spirit of not giving up life. This case has a warning and encouraging effect on the reader, let us realize the harm of AIDS and the importance of prevention, and let us see the strength and fearlessness of an AIDS patient.
The story takes place between 2002 and 2005, mainly at a university and hospital in Wuhan. This period is an important stage in the prevention and treatment of HIV/AIDS in the mainland, and it is also a period of rapid growth of the HIV/AIDS epidemic in the mainland. A university in Wuhan is the school where Zhu Mouya studied, and it is also the place where she and Ma Lang met and fell in love. The hospital is where Zhu Mouya received treatment and examination after learning that she had AIDS, and it is also where she began to fight the disease. This article also touches on Africa, the United States and other places, because Ma Lang is from Africa, and Zhu Mouya was later invited to the United States to participate in an international AIDS conference.
The story begins like this:
One afternoon in September 2002, Zhu walked into a CD shop in downtown Wuhan, where she wanted to buy records of English songs to improve her English. She is a sophomore female majoring in English at a university in Wuhan, and she likes English as well as music. She picked out in the store for a while and found an album by Mariah Carey, her favorite singer, "Rainbow." She walked to the cash register with the record, and was about to pay when she heard a low, somewhat hurried voice behind her.
"I'm sorry, can you do me a favor?"
Zhu Mouya turned around and saw a black man standing behind her, holding several records in his hand. Wearing a white T-shirt and a pair of jeans, he was tall and strong, with shiny black skin and short-shaved hair. His eyes were big and bright, and his eyes were anxious.
"What did you say?" Zhu Mouya asked.
"I said, can you do me a favor? I want to buy these CDs, but I don't have enough cash on me. Can you lend me some money? I'll give it back to you. The black man said.
Zhu Mouya listened to his words and felt very strange, why would someone she didn't know borrow money from her? She replied, "Sorry, I don't have much money either. And I don't know you. Why should I lend you money? ”
When the black man saw Zhu Mouya answer him, his eyes lit up, and he said: "Oh, you can speak English!" That's great! You see, I'm a student at Wuhan Medical University. I'm from Africa. I love music, but I don't have a credit card. I only have some cash, but not enough to buy these CDs. Please, can you help me? I really appreciate it. I will give you my phone number and address and I will return it to you as soon as possible. ”
Zhu Mouya listened to his words and was a little shaken. She found the black man fluent and polite. He said that he was a student of Wuhan Medical University, so he should be a learned person. He said he was from Africa, so he should be a man with a story. He said he liked music, so he should be a person with interest. Zhu Mouya also likes music, she looked at the records he was holding in his hand and found that they were all singers and songs that she also liked. She thought to herself, maybe this was a rare opportunity, maybe she could make friends with this black man, maybe she could learn something about a different culture and life through him.
Zhu Mouya hesitated for a while, and then said, "Okay, I can lend you some money, but you must promise to return it to me." You write me your phone number and address first. ”
When the black man heard Zhu Mouya's agreement, he laughed happily, and he said: "Thank you! You are so nice and beautiful! My name is Ma Lang. What is your name? ”
"My name is Zhu Mouya." Zhu Mouya said.
"Zhu Mouya? It's a nice name. Sounds like music. Ma Lang said.
"Thank you." Zhu Mouya said with a smile.
Ma Lang took out a pen and a piece of paper from his pocket, wrote down his phone number and address, and handed it to Zhu Mouya. Zhu Mouya took the note and looked at what was written on it:
Ma Lang Tel: 139XXXXXXXX Address: Room 402, Building 3, Dormitory Building of Wuhan Medical University
Zhu Mouya put the note away, then took out a hundred yuan from his wallet and handed it to Ma Lang. Ma Lang took the money and said gratefully: "Thank you again!" You are my angel! I'll call you later, okay? ”
"Okay." Zhu Mouya nodded and said.
Ma Lang walked to the cash register with the money and records, and after paying the money, he turned around and waved goodbye to Zhu Mouya. Zhu Mouya also waved in response. When Ma Lang walked out of the store, he also glanced back at Zhu Mouya and revealed a bright smile.
Zhu Mouya and Ma Lang soon became boyfriend and girlfriend, and they often went out together, listened to music together, and watched movies together. Ma Lang was very good to Zhu Mouya, he bought her a lot of gifts, and took her to his school and dormitory. He told her that he was a graduate student at Wuhan Medical University, that he majored in infectious diseases, that he was from a small country in Africa, that his parents were doctors, and that he had a younger brother and a younger sister. He said he liked China and he liked Zhu, and he said he wanted to be with her all the time.
Zhu Mouya also likes Ma Lang, she thinks he is an interesting, talented and responsible man. She felt that he was a man with a story, a fun, and an attractive man. She felt that he was a man who could give her happiness, security, and warmth. She feels like she has found true love, and she feels like the luckiest woman in the world.
One night in March 2003, Zhu Mouya and Ma Lang spent Valentine's Day together. Ma Lang gave Zhu a bouquet of roses and a heart-shaped necklace, and took her to a high-end restaurant for a big meal. Then, they returned to Ma Lang's dormitory. Ma Lang carried Zhu Mouya into the room and gently closed the door. He put Zhu Mouya on the bed and kissed her all over the cheek, ears, and neck. He said, "I love you, Zhu Mouya. I want to be a whole person with you. Zhu Mouya felt Ma Lang's enthusiasm and longing, and she also responded to his kisses and touches. She said, "I love you too, Ma Lang. I would like to be a complete person with you. "And then, they... (A few words omitted here)
That night, Zhu Mouya and Ma Lang had sex for the first time. Since then, they have started living together. Zhu often lived in Ma Lang's dormitory or took Ma Lang back to his bedroom. They are like a loving couple, every day... (A few words omitted here)
However, the happiness did not last long. Around the Spring Festival in 2004, Ma Lang began to show symptoms of physical discomfort. He often feels dizzy, nausea, fever, cough, chest tightness, etc. Zhu Mouya was worried about him and persuaded him to go to the hospital for a check-up. But Ma Lang was reluctant to go, saying, "It's okay, it's just a cold." I'll just take some medicine. Zhu Mouya didn't understand why Ma Lang was so persistent, she thought maybe it was because he didn't want to spend money or let others know that he was sick.
One morning in early April 2004, when Zhu woke up, she found that Ma Lang was not around. She got up and went to look for him, only to find only a note in the room that read:
Dear Zhu Mouya,
I had to leave you because I had an important thing to do. I can't tell you what, but you have to trust me, I'm for your good. I love you and miss you so much, but we can't be together anymore. Please forgive me, and please forget me. This is my last gift to you, and the best gift. I hope you can live happily and don't look for me again.
Always love your horse waves
Zhu Mouya read the note and was dumbfounded. She couldn't believe her eyes, she didn't understand why Ma Lang did this, what important things he had to do, why he said they couldn't be together anymore, why he said it was his last and best gift to her. She felt her heart broken, she felt betrayed, she felt abandoned.
Zhu Mouya picked up the phone and dialed Ma Lang's number. But an icy voice came from the other end of the phone: "Sorry, the user you called has turned off." Zhu Mouya dialed several more times, and the result was the same. She thought that maybe Ma Lang was just out on an errand, maybe he would come back to her, maybe it was just a prank. She decided to go to Ma Lang's school to find him, or to ask his classmates about him.
Zhu Mouya got dressed, picked up his bag, and walked out of the dormitory. As soon as she went downstairs, she saw a familiar person. It was her English teacher, Ms. Wang. Teacher Wang saw Zhu Mouya with a look of surprise and worry on his face. He came over and said to Zhu Mouya: "Zhu Mouya, why are you here?" I have something to talk to you about. ”
Zhu Mouya was shocked when she saw Teacher Wang. She thought about how could Teacher Wang be here? What did he have to talk to her about? Could it be related to Ma Lang? She asked, "Teacher Wang, are you looking for me for something?" ”
Teacher Wang sighed and said, "Zhu Mouya, you come with me." Let's go to the hospital. ”
Zhu Mouya followed Teacher Wang to the hospital, and her heart was always nervous. She didn't know why Teacher Wang took her to the hospital, and she didn't know where Ma Lang went. She thought that maybe Teacher Wang knew something she didn't, maybe he could tell her the truth about Ma Lang.
When he arrived at the hospital, Teacher Wang took Zhu Mouya to a special testing room. He said to Zhu Mouya: "Zhu Mouya, you sit down first." I have something to tell you, but you need to be prepared. ”
Zhu Mouya sat on the chair and felt her heart beat faster. She asked, "Teacher Wang, what exactly are you going to tell me?" ”
Teacher Wang looked at Zhu Mouya, his eyes were complicated. He said: "Zhu Mouya, do you know Ma Lang? ”
As soon as Zhu Mouya heard Ma Lang's name, he became excited. She said, "Of course I know! He's my boyfriend! We've been together for almost a year! He left me abruptly this morning and left me a note saying he had important things to do and that we couldn't be together anymore! I don't understand why he did it! Teacher Wang, do you know where he went? ”
Teacher Wang shook his head and said, "Zhu Mouya, I don't know where he went, but I know why he did it. You may not believe it, but it's true. Ma Lang has AIDS. ”
When Zhu Mouya heard the news, it was like being hit by a thunderbolt on a sunny day. She felt the sky spinning and her ears buzzing. She looked at Teacher Wang in horror, unable to speak.
Wang continued: "Ma Lang is a graduate student at Wuhan Medical University, but his major is not infectious diseases, but AIDS. He comes from a country with a high incidence of AIDS in Africa, his parents died of AIDS, and he himself knew he had AIDS. But he hid this fact, not only did not receive treatment and examination, but also had sex with many girls. You're not his only girlfriend, he has a lot of other girlfriends. He was a liar and a killer. ”
When Zhu Mouya heard these words, he felt that his world had collapsed. She couldn't believe that the man she once loved was such a person. She couldn't believe that she had been deceived and hurt by such a person. She couldn't believe that she could have been infected with AIDS by such a person.
Teacher Wang looked at Zhu Mouya's expression and felt sad. He said: "Zhu Mouya, I know this is a big blow for you, but you have to be strong. The most important thing for you now is to get tested for HIV and see if you are infected. If you are infected, do not despair, you still have hope. Now that medical technology is very developed, AIDS is not a terminal illness, as long as you receive treatment and recuperation in time, you can still live a normal life. I will accompany you, help you, support you. You are not alone, you have a lot of people who care about you. ”
When Zhu Mouya heard Teacher Wang's words, she felt a touch of warmth. She knew that Teacher Wang was really good for her, and she knew that Teacher Wang was her teacher and her friend. She decided to trust Teacher Wang, she decided to go for an HIV test, she decided to face her fate.
Zhu Mouya and Teacher Wang walked into the testing room and received guidance from professional doctors and blood collection. Then, they waited for the results for half an hour. Half an hour later, the doctor came over with a report. He said to Zhu Mouya: "Miss, I am sorry to tell you that your test result is positive. You have AIDS. ”
Just when everyone thought that Zhu Mouya would be slumped from now on, what she did made everyone silent.
Zhu Mouya chose to tell her experience of illness to let more and more people know about AIDS.
So how to reach the public? Zhu chose to use a media called Southern People Weekly.
Not only that, in 2005, Zhu Mouya decided to write his personal experience into a book.
In this way, an autobiography called "The Diary of an AIDS Girl" was successfully published by Beijing Publishing House.
Later, while fighting HIV, Zhu Mouya went to various places to give speeches with his personal experience, reminding more and more people to prevent AIDS.