Yang Li looked at the two obvious red lines on the pregnancy test stick, exclaimed happily, and then carefully packed it into the bag.
The moment she saw the two red lines, Yang Li was so excited that her hands and feet were shaking, and tears blurred her vision.
She gently stroked her still flat abdomen, full of happiness and thought that a new life was about to be born here, a flesh and blood vein between her and her husband.
After learning the news of her pregnancy, Yang Li began to prepare for various deliveries. She consulted many parenting books and fully understood the diet and precautions during pregnancy.
According to tradition, her mother-in-law often came to take care of her during the confinement period, but thinking that she had not had a good relationship with her in-laws, Yang Li was a little embarrassed.
Since marriage, Yang Li has never been as intimate as before talking to her mother and coquettish.
After careful consideration, Yang Li decided to only ask her mother to take care of the confinement and not let her in-laws come over. This decision made Yang Li herself a little uneasy, but she still plucked up the courage to think of being able to get along with her mother day and night.
The next day, Yang Li truthfully told her mother-in-law her thoughts, and her mother-in-law's face suddenly changed, and she was very dissatisfied: "How can you not call me to come and take care of you and the child?" You marry into our family, confinement is the responsibility of your mother-in-law, this is already a rule, how can you change? ”
The mother-in-law's strong attitude made Yang Li a little flustered, and she explained in a low voice: "Mom, I also miss you to come over, but I am in a special physical condition now, or I am more accustomed to my mother's care, can you understand me?" ”
"Considerate of you? Aren't you also my son's child when you're pregnant? Do you still treat you as a daughter-in-law? The mother-in-law said angrily.
At this time, Yang Li's sister-in-law also interjected: "Cousin-in-law, you can't do this, your father-in-law is so good to you, how can you not ask them to come and take care of the confinement?" ”
Yang Li was speechless for a while, she didn't expect her request to attract such a big reaction. Seeing that she was silent, the sister-in-law said again: "Cousin-in-law, if you insist on this, I will divorce my husband!" Our family attaches so much importance to ethical traditions, we can't ask for your daughter-in-law anymore! ”。
Yang Li was startled, she glanced at her mother-in-law pleadingly, but her mother-in-law snorted and turned her head. Yang Li shook her head helplessly, and decided to avoid this dispute first and quietly think of countermeasures.
She really didn't expect that her small request would actually provoke such fierce opposition and put the relationship between her relatives in a tense situation.
Yang Li lay on the bed tossing and turning, her mind full of the angry faces of her mother-in-law and sister-in-law. The decision she had plucked up the courage to make, but now she faces such great resistance that she is in a dilemma.
But my mother really can't stand the difficulties of my mother-in-law, and only grandma can understand my mother.
Thinking of this, Yang Li suddenly missed her mother very much. She picked up her cell phone and dialed her mother's number. As soon as the phone was connected, Yang Li began to choke, and she sadly told her mother about today's dispute with her mother-in-law.
The mother listened quietly and said distressedly: "Ali, I'm sorry, it's because my mother didn't educate you well, so you encountered this."
Hearing her mother's self-blame, Yang Li hurriedly said: "Mom, this has nothing to do with you, it's that my daughter is not good and causes you trouble." ”
The mother let out a long sigh: "I shouldn't have forced you to marry someone who didn't fit your heart, and in the past few years since you got married, my mother has been feeling guilty."
Don't worry, mom will definitely do her best to help you through the confinement.
Yang Li listened, her heart was hot, and her gratitude to her mother was born. Hanging up the phone, Yang Li regained her courage and confidence.
The next day, Yang Li plucked up the courage to consult with her younger brother, wanting him to persuade her sister-in-law, but her brother's attitude was cold: "I only respect my wife's ideas, you should not go against your in-laws as a daughter-in-law, and I can't help you."
Yang Li sat on the sofa in disappointment, biting her lip and silently.
Seeing her injured look, the sister-in-law softened her heart and stepped forward to persuade: "Cousin-in-law, you should be considerate of the feelings of the old couple, they treat you as a relative, and you embarrass your mother-in-law like this."
But you also think about it, confinement according to the rules is the task of the mother-in-law, and if you insist on this, it is really not good for family harmony.
Yang Li still shook her head firmly: "I know your good intentions, but I really just want my mother to come over, I'm really sorry."
The two of you talked for a long time, but Yang Li still insisted on her opinion. The sister-in-law saw her tough attitude and no longer discouraged her.
After talking this day, Yang Li had mixed feelings. She began to question whether she had gone too far and whether she should take a step back and take care of her mother-in-law's feelings.
Yang Li fell into the pain of confusion, she knew that this matter would definitely cause harm to the family relationship, but what should she do?
This night, Yang Li slept very unsteadily. She tossed and turned in bed, her sister-in-law's words lingering in her mind.
At three or four o'clock in the morning, Yang Li finally didn't hold back and called her mother. Listening to her mother's warm and concerned voice, Yang Li couldn't help but choke: "Mom, I'm afraid."
My sister-in-law said that if I divorced my brother, I would be kicked out of this house.
When her mother heard her say this, her heart was also tight, but she still comforted her softly: "Lili, don't worry." The sister-in-law may be angry for a while, she will not really divorce.
Mom will always support you.
"So what if she does kick me out? I'm going to be homeless... Yang Li choked and said.
"Don't be afraid, Mom, this is your forever home. As long as you make the choice you think is right, you must be brave and not be threatened by others.
Yang Li sniffed and said, "Mom, I figured it out, since that's the case, then I'll ask you to take care of the confinement." If they really don't want me as a daughter-in-law, I will go back to my mother's house to live with you, and I will raise the child alone.
"Good boy, you're doing the right thing. Believe in yourself and don't be afraid. Your mother will always support you. The mother said approvingly.
Hanging up her mother's phone, Yang Li regained her confidence and was determined not to be at the mercy of her sister-in-law's threats. The next day, she decisively informed her sister-in-law of her decision.
In fact, I can't really get divorced, I just said angry words, you must not go to the heart. You should be a daughter-in-law as you wish, and we should not force you.
Yang Li nodded and said calmly, "I accept your apology." But my decision will not change, I will ask my mother to come and take care of the confinement.
The sister-in-law blushed and said, "I know the wrong cousin, don't worry, I will never be vexatious in the future." You can arrange whatever you want.
Yang Li smiled slightly, thinking that she could finally firmly face the threat of her sister-in-law. It was her right to choose to invite her mother over and did not need to be swayed by anyone's objections.
Yang Li breathed a sigh of relief from her sister-in-law's apology, she didn't expect her sister-in-law to turn so quickly. But Yang Li also understood that this matter was not completely over.
So, despite her sister-in-law's understanding, Yang Li resolutely invited her mother to her home and began a month-long confinement care.
When her mother appeared at home, Yang Li burst into tears with excitement. She hugged her mother tightly, as if she had returned to her childhood embrace.
Yang Li nodded and thought to herself, with her mother here, she had unlimited power.
Her mother was thoughtful and meticulous to her. She Yang Li regulates her body and carefully takes care of her living and eating. Yang Li felt the long-lost warmth surround her again, making her feel extremely relieved.
At this moment, my sister-in-law suddenly came to talk to Yang Li, and her attitude was very soft: "Cousin-in-law, I really can't help it, I took it for granted before."
I'm too impulsive and give you trouble.
Seeing her sister-in-law's sincerity, Yang Li nodded and said, "I accept your apology." Actually, I understand your husband's thoughts, but I really just want to invite my mother over.
"I see, cousin-in-law. Rest assured, I have already explained it to my in-laws, and they also said that respecting your choice is the most important.
The sister-in-law immediately expressed support.
"Thank you so much." Yang Li said sincerely.
The sister-in-law nodded with a red face, and took the initiative to help Yang Li do some housework, before leaving.
This conversation made Yang Li understand that as long as she is firm, her family will eventually understand and accept her decision.
During the confinement, under the careful care of her mother, Yang Li's health improved every day. In addition, Yang Li also gained many life enlightenments from her relationship with her mother during this time.
One day, Yang Li leaned into her mother's arms and sighed: "Mom, I really didn't expect that my small request would actually attract such a big opposition."
The mother gently touched Yang Li's head and said softly: "Yes, understanding between people is the most difficult thing. But as long as you communicate attentively, there will always be a solution.
Yang Li nodded: "I also figured it out, in fact, the mother-in-law and brother-in-law are not wrong, they just ask me according to the customs, and I shouldn't blame them completely."
"Well, you handled this matter very maturely." My mother said approvingly, "This experience has made you and I re-establish our relationship, which is the biggest gain."
"Yes, Mom, I really appreciate your meticulous care, and understand that the relationship between family members is the most precious.
Yang Li said with emotion.
"Mom will always support you. Remember, don't do too much harm to other people's words, and keep your own independent thinking.
The mother encouraged.
"Well, I'll remember that." Yang Li smiled and nodded.
This confinement experience made Yang Li see all kinds of mistakes and misunderstandings between people, and also realized the importance of understanding, tolerance and respect.
Yang Li is determined to learn from this, resolve misunderstandings in the family, seek more understanding with her in-laws, and let this child be born in a harmonious and loving environment.
The care during confinement soon came to an end. Under the careful care of her mother for a month, Yang Li's body has basically recovered.
Near the end of the confinement, the sister-in-law brought the old man to visit Yang Li again. Everyone sat around the living room and talked about their recent sightings.
"Ali, you have worked hard this month to take care of my grandson. Are you recovering well? The mother-in-law asked with concern.
"I'm fine, all rely on my mother's care, otherwise I really can't get through this month by myself." Yang Li said with a smile.
"Well, mom personally takes care of you, which does make you feel free." The mother-in-law nodded and said, "It's okay, the child is about to be born, and our family and Hemeimei are the most important."
"Yes, mother-in-law, we will definitely be a happy big family." Yang Li said happily.
"Cousin-in-law, you have worked hard during the confinement period. You and your baby are well conditioned and go back to your mother's house for some more time.
"Thank you, I'll have a good rest." Yang Li replied with a smile.
On that day, the mother-in-law's family brought many exquisite confinement meals, as well as gifts for the baby. Yang Li looked at their sincere smiles, and also felt sincerely relieved and moved.
Yang Li's heart rose full of gratitude for her family. She understands that there will inevitably be differences in ideas and ideas between relatives, but as long as they understand each other and are tolerant, they will definitely be able to resolve misunderstandings and regain the warmth of home.
She is determined to renew her relationship with her in-laws, and she will always keep in mind her mother's advice, maintain her own judgment, and learn to think from the perspective of others.
After experiencing this storm of separating family affection, Yang Li gained valuable life experience. She saw the difficulties of getting along with each other and realized the value of understanding and tolerance.
This family conflict finally ended with Yang Li's persistence and the understanding of her family. It reflects the collision of tradition and personal ideas, and also shows the possibility of relationship repair.