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My name is Li Fengying, I am 56 years old and a retired worker. My husband Li Dawei passed away this year, and his pension is only 7,000 yuan, which is far from enough for our old couple. To help me get through this, my son Li Xiaoming and his wife Wang Liping invited me to move in with them.
When I first moved to Li Xiaoming's house, Wang Liping was friendly to me and had no obvious complaints. I did my best to help take care of their daughter Li Sisi. She does housework every day, tells stories at night to put Sisi to sleep, and takes her to the park on weekends.
One day, Wang Liping said to me: "Mom, you have been living in our house for a month, and you have helped a lot, thank you." But you know, taking care of Sisi is also very tiring, Bob and I have to work, can you save money, save some money to rent a house and live by yourself? We can give you a little living expenses every month. ”
When I heard these words, a sense of grievance immediately rose in my heart. I am your elder, and helping you do this is what I should have done, so why do I trouble you? I've been so careful that I spent a little money, why do I think I'm wasting? My tears almost burst out of my eyes, but I held back. I fumbled with the handkerchief in my bag with a trembling hand, but pretended to be calm and said, "Okay, I'll pack up and find a place to move out." You take care of Sisi more, you don't need to give me living expenses, I can make do with it myself. With that, I stood up abruptly, rushed into the room, and began to pack my luggage.
I was just about to step out of the house when Li Xiaoming returned. Wang Liping stepped forward and put on a pitiful look and said to him: "Your mother is vexatious today, saying that we treat her badly, crying and making trouble and having to move out." I can't even persuade her, you deal with it quickly. ”
I heard Wang Liping distort the facts, and the anger was difficult to suppress. It turns out that I am a vexatious person in your heart! I clenched my teeth, my mind full of images of arguing with them. But after thinking about it, you still have to give yourself an explanation, you can't let them win. I stepped forward and said in a calm tone: "Xiaoming, I don't want to cause you any trouble, and I understand that your daughter-in-law asked me to move out." I just think that she said that I was a little too vexatious, I helped you do housework, and I didn't ask you for anything, why is it unreasonable? At this point, my voice trembled a little, but I still held back my tears.
Li Xiaoming hesitated for a moment and said, "Mom, we really appreciate your care during this time." The daughter-in-law is serious, don't mind, continue to live with us. ”
Hearing my son say this, my heart suddenly relaxed, it turned out that he was still towards me! It seems that it is not that my son also wants to drive me away, but the daughter-in-law has the intention to get by with me. I nodded, a relieved look on my face. Move your prepared suitcase back into the house and sit back in the living room. Wang Liping's face was ugly, she glared at me, then turned her head and went into the kitchen. I looked at her back and thought that she was really a vengeful little nizi, and I would have to be careful in the future.
A few days later, Wang Liping talked to me again, and she said: "Mom, let's talk honestly, I said it bluntly, I think it's too inconvenient for you to live in our house, our conditions are poor, I'm afraid you won't be able to eat." It's better for me to buy you a suite in the senior apartment, you are more comfortable living by yourself, and we will also give you living expenses every month. ”
I didn't get excited again this time, but thought quietly. Indeed, their family conditions are poor, and it is difficult for me to live on both sides. And I don't care to take their money. Take a step back and open the sky, I can move out, they are also easy. I was anxious to find a dependency, but now that I want to open it, I can still take care of myself.
"Well, you have a point." I nodded and said calmly. "You can buy me a house with monthly living expenses, and I am already content. Don't worry too much about me, I can do it alone. I had a relieved smile on my face. Wang Liping also seemed relieved, her face was much better.
Just like that, I quickly moved into a nearby senior apartment. Li Xiaoming and Wang Liping gave me a monthly living allowance as promised. Occasionally I would go to their house to cook and play with Sisi. At first, I was worried that I would be lonely, but after a long time, I found that living alone has its own benefits. I can live my life without having to take care of other people's faces all the time. Anyway, children have their own children, I just need to take care of my health.
Now I have fully adapted to my new life. Every day, I would go to the community center to chat and play cards with other elderly people, and I was more cheerful than before. I often go out to the park and get some fresh air. Occasionally I invite my son's family to my new home, and we have a good and warm atmosphere.
Yesterday, Li Xiaoming's family came to see me again. Wang Liping seemed to have softened her attitude towards me and brought me some fruit.
Wang Liping said to me: "Mom, are you still used to living alone?" Do you need us to bring something more? ”
I smiled and said, "I'm living alone, you don't have to prepare anything, just come and see me often." ”
Li Xiaoming also said: "Mom, you should pay attention to safety alone, we have been busy with work recently, it is not very convenient to see you, you should be careful when you go out alone." ”
I nodded and said, "Don't worry, I'll take care of myself." You should be busy with work and have no time, and I can handle it alone. ”
The family had lunch at my place before leaving. When Sisi left, she threw herself into my arms and asked me to tell me stories, and I couldn't help but help her tell two more stories before putting her to sleep. Watching their car drive away, a sense of steadiness and satisfaction rose in my heart. Children are children after all, and I have to learn to be independent. Tomorrow is another brand new day, and I want to enjoy life well.
A week later, today I went to the community center again. I joined the choir of the community and singing with many senior friends was really good.
The teacher of the choir is a music teacher named Mr. Yang, who taught us to sing some classic old songs, and everyone was in harmony with the music, and the mood was beautiful. At first, I was a little shy to sing, but Teacher Yang and other elderly people were very friendly, and gradually I also integrated into this big family and was able to sing out loud.
The song we sang today is "Jasmine", this folk song has a beautiful melody, and everyone listened to it with excitement. When we sang with a beautiful piano sound and a magnetic voice, I felt that my whole body was much refreshed.
After the chorus, Teacher Yang said to us: "The chorus effect is very good!" Next time I want to organize us to perform in the community so that more people can enjoy our singing, what do you think? ”
"Okay, support!" We agreed with each other and were all looking forward to the next performance plan.
I also said to Teacher Yang: "Teacher Yang, this is a great idea! Choral singing brings us a lot of fun, and it would be even better if we could share it with more people. I'll call my friends and family to watch it then! ”
"Then it's settled! Everyone remember to practice more and practice the songs, we will definitely have a great performance by then! Teacher Yang said to us.
After the choir ended, I stayed at the community center and chatted with some old friends. We talk about children, health, wellness, and so on. Although everyone's experiences are different, there are many resonances at this age. I feel like making these friends really makes life no longer lonely.
After dinner, I called my son Li Xiaoming and told him that I had recently joined the choir and found a lot of fun. I also said that we were going to put on a show, and we had to make sure they were going to be there. Li Xiaoming happily said that he would definitely come. I hung up the phone and smiled silently in my heart. I really found a new life, and it is a life that is getting more and more fulfilling and happy.
Fast forward and in the blink of an eye, our choir will perform at a cultural event in the community. Throughout the week, the team practiced late every night to make sure everyone memorized the melody and lyrics of the song.
Today is the day of the show. At 3 p.m., we arrived early in the activity room of the community center to prepare. Chairs and sound equipment have been set up on the stage. I couldn't help but feel a little nervous when I saw the setting of the venue, it was the first time I performed and sang in front of so many people.
"Don't be nervous, just sing seriously. Trust me, you're going to be able to put on the best chorus! Teacher Yang noticed our uneasiness and encouraged us with a smile.
We were still rehearsing on site for the next hour, and Teacher Yang took the trouble to remind us of the precautions. Just when I couldn't remember all the details, the audience entered one after another. I quickly checked my phone, and Li Xiaoming sent a message that the family was already seated in the front row.
After hundreds of spectators were seated, Mr. Yang gave us a "cheer" look, and we fished onto the stage and took our places in front of the microphone. I took a deep breath and reminded myself to focus on the song and melody and not think about anything else.
As the accompaniment started, the group and I began to sing "Jasmine". Our voices gradually merged loudly, and we listened quietly. When I entered the chorus, my eyes met Li Xiaoming, who smiled proudly at me. I couldn't help but smile and dive into the song.
The last treble lingered, and the audience erupted into enthusiastic applause. I am extremely pleased and excited that we, the elders of the amateur choir, can also win everyone's recognition through our efforts.
After the performance, Li Xiaoming and they rushed backstage, praised my singing one after another, and pulled me to take a group photo. I smiled and told them about the rehearsal, and the relationship between the children seemed to be closer.
This choral performance not only allowed me to discover new possibilities in life, but also made my relationship with my relatives more harmonious. Although life is not as good as it used to be when you get old, as long as you keep an eternally young heart, you will find that there is still infinite fun in life. I am truly grateful for the joy that the choir has brought me and allowed me to find meaning in life.
The choir's first performance was a complete success and we decided to turn this into a regular cultural event. Performances are held every two months, and the cruise mode is exhibited at different locations in the community. I also officially joined the choir and became part of this big family.
Two months later, one weekend, we went to a park near the community to host a show. I rehearsed with the team members in advance, hoping to achieve the same good results as last time. This time, we sang the classic old song "Me and You", and the atmosphere was warm and romantic.
Before the performance, I received a call from Li Xiaoming, who said that there was something temporary in the company, and only Wang Liping came with Sisi at home. I said it's okay, you can listen to it next time. After hanging up the phone, I was a little happy because I could reunite with my daughter-in-law and granddaughter alone this time.
When Sisi and Wang Liping took their seats in the audience, I waved to them. Sisi also waved at me excitedly, and I smiled in response to her. Then I turned my attention to the show and threw myself into the singing. The audience also hummed softly along with us, and the atmosphere was harmonious and beautiful.
After the performance, I jumped off the stage and walked in the park with Wang Liping and Sisi Lao. Sisi also kept praising me for singing well, and as we walked and talked, the distance between me and Wang Liping seemed to be getting closer.
"Mom, I didn't expect you to find a career in the choir and live such a fulfilling life, I'm so happy!" Wang Liping said sincerely.
I responded with a smile: "Singing brings me infinite joy and allows me to find the meaning of life." I will inform you of every performance in the future. ”
The family chatted until it was dark before reluctantly parting. I believe that through such shared memories, we will become closer and closer. I also want to continue to work hard to make my life more colorful.