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Two years after disappearing, Li Weijia returned to the public eye.
From the latest broadcast variety show "Excellent Student", we can get a glimpse of his current situation:
47 years old unmarried, living alone in Changsha, in a less luxuriously decorated house, living a life away from the bustle + heavy cleanliness.
Some people say that he looks like an old man who lives alone.
Some people also say that there is not a single living thing in the family, whether it is doing housework or eating every day, it is a person, and it looks a little miserable.
In Fang Jun's opinion, it is not difficult for a person to have a real liveliness. On the contrary, to maintain a sense of boundary and order in the bustle, it takes a little sobriety and wisdom.
Why do people think he is miserable?
Probably the moment he came back from a business trip and pushed the door in, he couldn't hear the phrase "You're back", and he was greeted only by an empty room.
It's really a lonely feeling. But this feeling of coldness may be exactly what he wants.
This can be seen from the layout of his home.
Li Weijia's house has almost no overly luxurious and complex decoration, the space color scheme is simple white and black, and there is no large-scale furniture, and it is minimalist as far as the eye can see.
The entrance is a large area of black, there is no large custom cabinet, just a simple shoe rack, which can be used with a storage box.
Some commonly worn shoes are placed at the bottom of the shoe rack for easy access.
Whether it is the color of the space or the storage of the shoe rack, it gives people a feeling of restraint and order.
The living room is equally simple to furnish. The walls were painted only with white latex paint and did not have any superfluous decoration. The floors are covered with light grey tiles.
A set of light brown sofas with a wooden coffee table and a carpet create a relaxation area. Whether it is the choice of furniture or the way of layout, it can be said that it is too ordinary to be ordinary, but the victory is in the cleanness.
There is also a small shelf next to the sofa for replenishment of storage and small items.
There is no partition between the dining room and the living room, visually forming a large space that is very open. A whole wall of built-in storage cabinets is made here, and daily consumables are neatly stored here.
The kitchen area is not small, and the U-shaped layout is reasonable and convenient to use. There is plenty of storage space here, and you can hide all kinds of kitchen items to ensure the cleanliness of the space.
In addition, he also placed a set of open storage shelves in the entrance door, where some commonly used appliances can be placed to free up countertop space and take it more flexibly.
The decoration style of the bedroom is very similar to the living room, also large white wall + gray tiles. Because there is a separate cloakroom, it is enough to take on only the sleeping function here.
The cloakroom storage space is very powerful, and each piece of clothing has its own place, divided into categories, neat and orderly.
Even his balcony maintains this sense of order. There is nothing superfluous here, only a set of transparent shoe racks on the side of the balcony. Not only does the space look fresh and clean, but even the hangers should be uniformly colored and neatly arranged.
Overall, the decoration of this house is really not outstanding, but it is clean and orderly, and it is also impressive.
And this is also inseparable from Li Weijia's heavy cleanliness.
When he returns from a business trip, the first thing he has to do is not rest, but pick up wet wipes and wipe all the suitcases aside.
Then I went to the bedroom, changed the sheets, vacuumed, removed mites, and put on a clean four-piece suit.
This is not the end, the drying racks on the balcony must be wiped one by one, and even the corners and corners cannot be spared.
Finally, clean the floor with a wet wipe.
After doing all of this, he will allow himself to rest for a while.
But even between breaks, he can find some work. For example, remove the coffee table next to the sofa, find the place where dirt is hidden, immediately clean it up, and then install a new shelf.
For example, if it is time to go to bed, he will suddenly remember something, and then rush to the living room, pick up the vacuum duster, and start a new round of cleaning.
What others see as unnecessary is something he has to do—"If I don't finish this, I won't rest." ”
I think that a person who pursues minimalism and freshness in the layout of his home, and keeps it clean and tidy at all times, likes to be lonely, because he cannot allow anyone to disrupt this sense of order.
Wu Xin said a small thing.
Once she was invited to Vega's house, but after sitting for less than 5 minutes, Vega picked up a broom and swept the floor under Wu Xin's feet.
Seeing this, Wu Xin hurriedly said:
"Brother Jia, are you tired, then I'll go first."
Vega did not keep it, but directly sent the guest on the spot.
Later, referring to this past, Weijia explained that because he had obsessive-compulsive disorder, he really couldn't bear to get dirty at home, the key was that Wu Xin drank water without coasters, and the chair was dragged out instead of moved out.
He couldn't stand it anymore, so he had to take out a broom and start cleaning.
After the broadcast of "Outstanding Housework", Vega also posted a Weibo ridicule: the fixed process of coming to my house as a guest, changing shoes first when entering the door and then opening the exclusive celebration ceremony.
He even gave wet wipes to friends to wipe the soles clean.
He does not reject friends from coming to his home, but people who do not want to come will break the sense of order he has established, and over time, many friends are not very willing to come to his house as guests, and for him, he is also happy to maintain some social distancing, which will avoid a lot of unhappiness.
In fact, not only because of obsessive-compulsive disorder and cleanliness, Li Weijia himself is a person with some social fear and needs a sense of personal space.
Many people say that in the happy family, the most mysterious person is Li Weijia.
He has a wise saying: I don't want to miss your life, and you don't want to know my life.
So he will like it in the circle of friends, but never take the initiative to post the circle of friends. So much so that when He Jiong's movie was released, Weijia helped him forward the movie promotion in the circle of friends, and He Jiong was extremely moved after seeing it.
Even in front of his favorite idols, he can also maintain this restraint. Vega especially likes Faye Wong, and once he finally had the opportunity to meet Faye Wong and chased stars successfully. But when Faye Wong offered to add his WeChat, he refused.
His explanation is extremely rational:
"My refusal is to show that I want to be close to her performance, far from her life."
may seem to others that Li Weijia's rejection of the queen of heaven is definitely not understanding human feelings, and he can't eat it in the entertainment industry. But as a rejected party, Faye Wong may be a little happy in her heart - finally there is one less person to peep into my life.
Private life always has to be examined by everyone with a magnifying glass, this is the pressure of the queen of heaven, Vega's kind of distance, just so that each other can be at ease to be themselves, work to work, life to life, continue to maintain a sense of mystery, in this era where everything is transparent, it is really rare.
Put away curious desires, respect the lives of others, and keep your own order, from this point of view, Vega is really sober.
It is precisely because he has always adhered to this sense of boundaries that after the dissolution of the Happy Family, he gradually became a marginal figure in the entertainment industry.
Someone felt sorry for him. After all, he used to be one of the backbones of the Happy Base Camp, and his hosting skills and strength are also obvious to all.
But he seemed calm. When there is negative news, after issuing two statements, there is no response.
It's not like other hosts in the happy family, who strive to be active on major screens. Instead, he stayed in Changsha and lived his own little life.
Engage in investment and enrich your finances. When not busy, I feded my house and did housework.
Go out to buy groceries, wander around and enjoy a slow life.
Occasionally help friends take care of pets, and feel a different kind of liveliness in the interaction with dogs.
Although he pauses and thinks briefly when asked if he feels lonely, this does not affect his choice.
For him, occasional loneliness does not cause much pain, but the loss of personal space can bring real trouble to life.
Therefore, he has always kept his distance from the lively and joyful star life, and pursued the most precious purity and freedom in life.
In fact, Vega's life, when viewed during the holidays, is also very meaningful.
I don't know if you feel the trouble caused by the lack of a sense of boundary when you go home this time.
Those who chase you and ask "Are you in love?" When to get married? Want a second child? Buy or not" relatives, whether they have changed their words.
I sincerely hope that no matter how lively and intimate it is, people can maintain a golden distance between them, and do not forcibly occupy each other's spatial territory because of their curiosity and so-called pity.
May everyone maintain their own sense of order and always have purity and freedom in this complicated and lively life.
Reference: Variety show "Excellent Student"