Subtitle: My mother sold the house money to my brother and then my family was old, and my husband threw out an account book and asked me to choose one of the two
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Liu Chang (pseudonym) traveled for 8 days, finally finished talking about business, got on the plane, and just wanted to go home quickly to take a bath and sleep.
I thought that after returning home, I was greeted with hot water and a table full of delicacies, but I didn't expect that after opening the door, Liu Chang saw my mother-in-law dressed very coolly, standing in the center of the living room eating kiwi fruit.
The juice dripped on the ground, and Liu Chang suddenly became angry!
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When Liu Chang left home for a business trip, his mother-in-law had not yet come, and after 8 days of business trips, he and his wife sent messages every day and made 2 videos, but his wife never mentioned her mother's coming.
Looking at the mother-in-law's "self-cooked" appearance, dressed so casually, she must have lived for several days.
And the mother-in-law does not feel sorry for this house at all, eating a fruit and walking around, the juice flowed all over the place, and stepped on it with slippers, making a lot of stains on the floor, and it was sticky, really unappetizing!
Liu Chang put down his suitcase, walked into the house and shouted: "Xu Ziqi (pseudonym) where are you?" ”
The wife then hurried over from the balcony, still holding a few clothes in her hand.
Liu Chang asked, "Your mother won't tell me when she comes?" Did you help me put the bath water? The wife, on the other hand, scrambled to the bathroom, apparently forgot. Liu Chang walked into the kitchen and found that only the two of them had leftover lunch, and there was no hot food.
The successive blows made Liu Chang upset, where is this still his home? As soon as his mother-in-law came, his wife treated him as an outsider, obviously saying that she would help him prepare things, but she broke her word.
Liu Chang's face was very ugly, but he didn't want to get angry, so he only said to his wife: "Don't promise to help me next time." ”
Xu Ziqi did not speak, and hurriedly went into the kitchen to cook.
The mother-in-law watched for a long time but became angry and said, "Son-in-law, you can't call me my daughter like this?" Yes, you are tired of work, now which big man is not making money outside, he is tired, then he can't give his wife a look! ”
It was good that the mother-in-law did not speak, and after saying this, Liu Chang became even more angry, and he asked: "How many days are you coming to stay?" If there is nothing to do, hurry back, it is not convenient for me to live with you as a big man. ”
Who knew that the mother-in-law rolled her eyes and said that this time she was moving to retire and would live for ten years and eight years.
Liu Chang's head "buzzed", only felt that his blood pressure was about to explode, immediately rushed into the study, took out a ledger, and rushed straight into the kitchen, dropping the ledger in front of her.
Liu Chang pointed to the ledger and said: "You can see it clearly yourself, two years, 100,000!" Today you choose one of the two, either you let your mother go, or you go with your mother and get out of this house for me! ”
Xu Ziqi was stunned, looked up sharply and asked, "You want to divorce me?" ”
Liu Chang said: "Yes, it is divorce!" ”
After 40 minutes, Xu Ziqi finally finished crying and finished talking to her mother, and Liu Chang also finished cooking and eating by himself. Just as he was about to go to the shower, he saw the mother and daughter packing their luggage in the bedroom.
Liu Chang knew that his wife would definitely not dare to divorce, because she had not saved a penny over the years.
Liu Chang and Xu Ziqi met on a blind date, when Liu Chang learned that she had a younger brother, he was afraid that she was a brother-supporting demon, specially confirmed with her repeatedly, and seriously demanded that she must not spend money on her brother after marriage.
Xu Ziqi swore that he was not a demon to help his brother.
As a result, after getting married, she spent money on her brother in an honest manner, using up her monthly salary.
Liu Chang's income is more than 10,000, which is a very high income in this third-tier city, he is fully capable of covering the expenses of the whole family, even if he has one more child, there is no problem, so he does not care about his wife Moonlight.
He feels that his wife spends money on herself, whether it is eating well and dressing, or buying cosmetics and bags, it is considered to consume more when she is young, it is nothing, and when she has children, she will be thrifty, but spending money on her brother is not enough.
After all, everyone knows that Fu Di Devil is a bottomless pit, and Fu Di Demon's younger brother is Pixiu, only in and out.
And helping the younger brother and demon is a lifetime!
So Liu Chang quarreled with his wife, accusing her of deceiving herself, obviously helping her brother, but saying that she was fine. And Xu Ziqi's words made Liu Chang half dead, and she said: "I've been like this since I was a child, this is not a disciple, right?" ”
Liu Changcai understood that Xu Ziqi was brainwashed by her parents since she was a child, instilling the idea of preferring sons over women, and she did not feel uncomfortable, and "dedication" to her younger brother was already the norm in her life, so she felt that she was okay.
So Liu Chang began to keep accounts, writing down the money his wife spent on his brother every time.
After all, such people are too stubborn to be reasonable.
Xu Ziqi earns more than 4,000 a month, uses 1,000 for himself, gives 3,000 to his younger brother, and usually relies on Liu Chang for his life.
Sometimes these 4,000 will all be taken away by her brother, and she will not be able to eat takeaway and drink milk tea or buy cosmetics that month, but she has no opinion.
Married for 3 years, Liu Chang has not yet had children with Xu Ziqi.
Unsure how far the marriage could go, he was afraid that having children would be doomed, so he focused on work and saving money.
Who knew that when he went on a business trip, his wife took his mother-in-law to the house, and he came to retire, which is simply unbelievable! You know, Liu Chang is only 27 years old, and his wife is only 26 years old, why should he give his mother a pension at this time?
Liu Chang guessed that this matter was related to his wife's brother, and he interrogated his wife carefully. Sure enough, in order to buy a house for her son, the mother-in-law sold the house in her hometown and had no place to live, so she came to her daughter's house.
Liu Chang was very angry and asked his wife: "Your mother smashed pots and sold iron to buy a house for your brother, why can't you live in your brother's house?" ”
The wife said: "Oh, you don't know, my sister-in-law is very fierce, my mother can't control her at all, and she won't let my mother move in." ”
Liu Chang slammed the ledger on the table and said, "So you mother and daughter think I'm a bully, right?" Are you talking about human language? Your sister-in-law is fierce, will your brother not retire in the future, and your mother expects me to retire? ”
Xu Ziqi said hesitantly: "Then my mother will not be cared about in the future, and I can't leave it alone." ”
This made Liu Chang laugh completely, and he asked: "Since you want to give your mother a pension, then why don't you save money?" You look at this ledger, married for 3 years, you transferred 100,000 to your brother for 2 years, I ask you what to raise your mother? ”
This question made Xu Ziqi speechless, unable to answer, so he could only lower his head and pick his hands.
Liu Chang also completely lost patience with her, and warned her again that if he gave his brother money in the future, he would divorce her.
Liu Chang did not say that he was unwilling to help his mother-in-law in her old age, but he asked his wife to save money from tomorrow, hoping that she would bear the responsibility of providing for her mother's pension.
After listening to Liu Chang's words, Xu Ziqi nodded stunned, and no longer dared to give money to his younger brother.
Although Liu Chang said very desperately, he is not a desperate person, if the brother-in-law does not give his mother-in-law a pension at that time, he will definitely give his wife money and help her take care of the elderly.
It's just that people like Xu Ziqi don't have an independent personality, they have been brainwashed by their patriarchal mothers for a long time, they don't know how to love themselves at all, and they don't know how to value small families, and now Liu Chang is useless to plan her life.
Such a person needs someone to take her, control her, and teach her to establish a family concept like a normal adult.
Therefore, under Liu Chang's "high-pressure conditions", Xu Ziqi changed the vice of helping his brothers and demons, so that he had more opportunities to make his own decisions, re-examine his life, and no longer mess around so muddly.
Judging from the marriage of these two people, people without independent concepts need "ruthless people" like Liu Chang to help.
People's values are cultivated from childhood, and it is difficult to change her by reasoning.
If these disciples know how to love themselves, and can be inspired and become independent when they hear the Great Principle, they will not continue the problem after marriage.
Getting married is also an opportunity to be free and struggle from the brainwashing control of your parents.
If the partner is very reliable, then the Fu Di Demon can be completely independent.
Therefore, Fu Di Devil is still living in the brainwashing of his parents after marriage, his personality is cowardly and timid, and he needs someone to force them to make changes, or even threaten them, which is much more useful than lying on his stomach and reasoning.
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