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Wen 丨 Zhao Cai Xiao Lu
Editor丨Zhao Cai Xiao Lu
The past is like smoke, it is difficult to distinguish the true from the false, reminiscing about the past, without shedding tears.
On September 21, Zhang Zhilin was involved in a fraud case, and his extravagant lifestyle was widely questioned by netizens.
The news of another Hong Kong male god, Huang Rihua, successfully proposed marriage also shocked netizens, and his "negative man" character was also besieged by netizens.
At that time, his wife Liang Jiehua died of illness, and he was deeply heartbroken and vowed to be buried in a grave with his wife.
But now in just three years, Huang Rihua has found another new love and successfully proposed marriage.
Could it be that the love that was dead and rocky in the sea has disappeared without a trace? Could there be something hidden behind this?
Acquaintance and love with Liang Jiehua
In 1979, 20-year-old Huang Rihua entered the artist training class of Hong Kong TVB, which had more than 6,000 contestants, and Huang Rihua stood out with his own strength.
In the training class, Huang Rihua met Liang Jiehua, who was one year older than him, both of whom were newcomers to the industry and often ran tricks for the crew together.
Although the teacher went from the same family, Liang Jiehua, as Huang Rihua's senior sister, the two were similar in age and quickly became familiar and became friends.
Coming and going, feelings developed between the two. Huang Rihua took the initiative to pursue Liang Jiehua, Liang Jiehua also accepted Huang Rihua's pursuit, the two began to dating, and the relationship between the two has been kept secret and not made public.
In 1980, Huang Rihua played a ruthless and cruel killer in the police and bandit film "Passerby", the role was extremely contrasting, successfully attracted the audience's attention, became famous in one fell swoop, and established his status in wireless.
In the following years, Huang Rihua participated in many dramas, such as "The Secret of the City", "Xiangcheng Prodigal Son", etc., and gradually grew into one of the wireless pillars.
In 1982, Huang Rihua played the role of virtual bamboo in the martial arts drama "Dragon Babu", which was a hit, and his popularity increased greatly, and Tony Leung and Andy Lau were called "Wireless Five Tiger Generals".
When his career was in full swing, Huang Rihua decided to disclose his relationship with Liang Jiehua, and the sudden official announcement triggered fan discussion, and some people felt that the two were not suitable.
But this did not affect the relationship between the two, and their relationship became more and more intimate.
However, the good times did not last long, in 1985, the two broke up because of some contradictions and ended their 6-year relationship, and as soon as the news came out, fans were surprised but also relieved.
After the breakup, Huang Rihua met Gong Ci'en in the crew, and Gong Ci'en took the initiative to pursue Huang Rihua, and the two soon came together.
But Huang Rihua found that he still couldn't forget Liang Jiehua, and his feelings for Gong Cien were not as deep as he thought.
After much deliberation, he chose to propose to Gong Cien to break up and recapture Liang Jiehua.
In 1987, Huang Rihua and Leung Jiehua separated again, but a year later, the two reconciled, successfully saved their love, and entered the marriage hall in 1988.
In 1990, his daughter Huang Zhiqing was born, which made their lives more complete, after marriage, Huang Rihua was busy filming TV series, and his reputation rose, Liang Jiehua switched to insurance brokerage and had more time to take care of his family.
After experiencing the separation and merging, the two finally came together and maintained a happy married life.
Liang Jiehua's love and the struggle of illness
But it seems that God is also jealous of their beautiful love, and gave the two a head-on blow.
In 2013, Liang Jiehua and her husband Huang Rihua were on their wedding anniversary, and when Liang Jiehua was wearing the commemorative gift given to her by Huang Rihua, she suddenly had a nosebleed.
Huang Rihua was very nervous, and the two hurriedly went to the hospital for examination, and the test results showed that Liang Jiehua had leukemia, which made the two despair like a thunderbolt on a sunny day.
After that, Liang Jiehua began a 7-year treatment process, and Huang Rihua accompanied his wife step by step, exchanging his health for his wife's early recovery.
Every day, Huang Rihua would accompany Liang Jiehua's bedside, carefully take care of her living and diet, and patiently adjust her long hair that had fallen out due to chemotherapy.
Seeing Liang Jiehua, who had her hair covered in her pillow, she would cry bitterly with sadness, so Huang Rihua comforted her softly and accompanied her for a long time overnight.
Telling their love story, the interesting stories of their daughter's childhood, until Liang Jiehua's spirit was lifted.
In order to pay for his wife's expensive medical expenses, Huang Rihua had to return to the entertainment industry to film and earn money.
He is no longer young, and no one asks him to film, so he can only participate in various commercial activities. Some people think that he is making money without a bottom line, but Huang Rihua can't care so much anymore, and he just wants to do everything to continue his wife's life.
In 2020, while preparing for a bone marrow transplant, Liang Jiehua's body suffered rejection, and her various organs in her body were at risk of failure.
Finally, on May 26, 2020, Liang Jiehua still failed to overcome the disease and passed away.
At Liang Jiehua's funeral, Huang Rihua was grief-stricken and cried heartbreakingly, and he vowed to his relatives and friends present that he would never marry again, because he only had Liang Jiehua, the only love in his heart, and the departure of his wife plunged his life into the shadow of confusion.
Huang Rihua's longing for his deceased wife is difficult day and night, and Liang Jiehua's photos are placed in every corner of the house, and his daughter Huang Zhiqing has repeatedly persuaded his father to look forward, but Huang Rihua is always immersed in memories and cannot extricate himself.
His daughter Huang Zhiqing can only ask her father to go out to relax, buy his favorite snacks, and take him back to the romantic date of the year. The rare smile on her father's face made her very relieved.
Huang Rihua's old friends also took turns to come to the door, climbed the mountain to play ball, and regained the friendship of his youth, and with the help of his daughter and friends, Huang Rihua's mood slowly improved and he learned to smile again.
Today, Huang Rihua has long ceased to act, and his last film and television work was a cameo appearance in a movie in 2017.
Because he didn't like hype, Huang Rihua gradually faded out of the public's vision,
Huang Rihua will slowly come out of his grief and start a new life, because he knows that Liang Jiehua must hope that he and his daughter will have a happy and happy life.
The Internet hotly discussed Huang Rihua's remarriage
The tragic death of Liang Jiehua three years ago made Huang Rihua very sad, and in order to commemorate his beloved wife, Huang Rihua vowed never to marry again.
However, three years later, the rumors of Huang Rihua's marriage proposal with Kwan Baohui came to light, causing widespread controversy.
As soon as the news came out, netizens talked about it. Some netizens expressed their understanding and support for Huang Rihua's remarriage, believing that the living cannot be bound by the dead forever, and Huang Rihua has the right to pursue new happiness.
Other netizens were disappointed with Huang Rihua, believing that he had broken his promise. Others questioned whether Wong Rihua and Kwan Baohui were in a hurry.
There are also a few voices that Liang Jiehua had an extramarital affair when he was alive, and it is not inappropriate for Huang Rihua to remarry now.
But this rumor is unconfirmed, and there is also disrespect for the late Leung Jiehua. Huang Rihua could only prevaricate on the grounds that friends were gathering.
It is a reflection on love and life choices. Huang Rihua's remarriage incident has sparked heated discussions on the Internet, and both support and opposition are justified.
Some people believe that marital fidelity should be above all else, and it is difficult for Huang Rihua to break his promise and find it difficult to forgive.
However, some people also pointed out that in the face of the great grief of his partner's death, Huang Rihua is still trying to survive, which in itself requires courage, and we should not deny him the right to find happiness again.
epilogue
The incident sparked a heated discussion online, fully demonstrating the divergent understanding of marriage and ethics.
But we should be more tolerant of voices and understand that there is some truth behind each choice.
Being born as human beings and achieving happiness is our common pursuit.