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60-year-old aunt remarries 34-year-old guy, aunt: too tossed at night, guy: This is the wife's responsibility
My surname is Wang, I live in Baise City, Guangxi, and I am over the age of Huajia. Now it's 60 years old, my only son has started a family, and my grandson's care is mostly taken care of by my daughter-in-law and mother-in-law. Because my daughter-in-law doesn't enjoy spending time with me, she prefers her own mother to take care of her grandchildren to avoid disputes. I understand her distress, I don't want to say more, and I will send some living expenses from time to time. My monthly pension is 8,000 yuan, which is enough to cover my own living expenses, and even if I donate a part, it is enough to support them.
Years ago, my ex-husband and I had long since parted ways, and this marriage ended not because of betrayal or violence, but because of personality incompatibility and often quarreling over trivial matters. The age difference also caused us to have a generation gap, and in order to avoid getting involved, we chose to break up peacefully. After the divorce, my son stayed with me, and my ex-husband generously handed over his property and property to me to ensure my well-being in the future. Despite his selfless dedication, he himself does not have to worry about livelihood because he has a career.
Not long after, I learned that he had found a wife who matched him well, and the two lived happily ever after. Seeing their happiness, I feel sincerely happy that he has finally found a suitable other half for him. At that time, I silently sent them blessings, hoping that they could walk happily to the end of their lives together.
Soon, it had been years since my ex-husband and I divorced, and I enjoyed living alone during this time. Originally, I planned to continue this single career, but fate brought me an unexpected turn.
This young man, about the same age as my son, is 34 years old. When I first met, I didn't have any affection for him and thought he was just a young guy. But he persevered in reaching out to me, greeting me, showing deep concern, and gradually, I was drawn to him.
After getting along with him, I gradually learned his strengths. Although his salary is not high, he is hardworking and self-motivated. He is both mature and responsible, and whenever I need help, he always offers and never complains. I am deeply pleased with his qualities, he is a wonderful man.
Eventually, he proposed to me, hoping for a real marriage. He said firmly: "I am young, never married, I don't want to just live with you, I long to have a real marriage to eliminate worries and make my parents worry-free, at the same time, I am full of sincere feelings for you, as long as you are willing to marry me, I will love you with all my heart and regard you as the most important person in my life." ”
I was so impressed by his words that we decided to get a marriage license. After marriage, he is still self-motivated, working hard every day and caring for his family. He prepares a late-night snack for me every night, and on weekends he orchestrates activities such as having dinner with friends or going out.
Even though he was younger than me, our marriage was not bound by age and we enjoyed a happy life. However, as time went on, life at night left me feeling exhausted. The intimacy of the nights kept me awake, and although he was full of energy, I felt exhausted. Although I was reluctant to refuse him, the frequent requests made me feel exhausted.
Despite this, our feelings remain indestructible. Whenever I tried to reject him, he would say, "There is a responsibility between husband and wife, you should not refuse me." I love you with all my heart, it's a couple's duty. "His words made me feel guilty, I understood his point of view, but also hoped he understood my physical condition.
Although life at night made me tired, the bond between us was indestructible. I will try to communicate with him and hope that he will understand my needs. We will face the challenges of life together and create a happier future, because I am not willing to give up this precious relationship.
One day, we went to a concert together, and I liked classical music and he liked rock. Although the musical styles are very different, we always find common points of interest. In the intoxication of music, I suddenly understood that love is like a beautiful symphony, and various sounds are harmoniously intertwined to form a brilliant and colorful picture.
Over time, we experienced the ups and downs of life together, tasting all the sweetness and bitterness. Whether it's family gatherings or wandering the alleys of the city, we feel happy and fulfilled. He always surprises me, sometimes suddenly taking me on a hike and sometimes suddenly preparing a romantic dinner. This care and love makes me feel extremely happy.
Our married life is also colorful, full of happiness and difficulties. But it's these setbacks that make our feelings stronger. At one point, he lost his job and had problems with his family's finances. But we did not get bogged down because of this, but faced it together and solved it together. Together, we overcame this dilemma by creating a budget and making tangible reductions in expenditure. This experience has brought us closer together and stronger trust in each other.
Our married life also reached an important turning point, and we decided to raise a cute pet dog together. This puppy has added endless fun to our lives. We walked together, played together, took care of it together. This experience taught us responsibility and cooperation, and also made our family more homely.
Despite our disagreements and quarrels, we were always able to sit down and communicate and solve problems. Our marriage relationship is based on mutual respect and understanding. We support each other, grow together, and constantly add new colors to marriage.
Recently, we are planning a trip to Europe together to explore different cultures and landscapes. This will be a new adventure in our marriage and I can't wait to look forward to it. We are also thinking about raising a child, and although there is an age gap, we believe that love is the most important thing.
Some people may question our marriage, thinking that the age gap is too big. But we don't care what other people think, because we know that love can't be measured by numbers. The important thing is that we are happy together and enjoy each other.
Whenever I see him, I feel happy. His smile, his gentleness, his firmness, all made me fall into it. We don't know what the future holds, but we're willing to keep going, supporting each other and accompanying each other.
I thought age would be a hindrance for us, but in the end I learned that love has no age. Our marriage is a beautiful symphony, every note is happiness, every beat is joy. No matter what the future holds, I will cherish this relationship because it makes my life more colorful and makes me feel extremely happy. We've always been together, we've always loved each other, and that's enough.