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"Honey, where have you been? Have you gone somewhere? "Are you back?"
One night in 2017, Yan Wei saw his wife Anya, who had not yet returned home that night, and his heart was full of excitement. He called her to inquire.
"I'm running!"
"Run? Where to run? "Anya is not used to exercise," Yan Wei asked suspiciously and nonchalantly. Then, the husband's tone suddenly became stern:
"You don't care where I am!"
Around eleven o'clock in the evening, Mrs. Anya finally returned. Seeing that she was wearing new clothes and her hair had just been washed, Yan Wei immediately suspected that she must have moved into another man's room...
An affair turned into tragedy.
Yan Wei and Anya met at a gathering of friends. Everyone drank a lot of alcohol that day. After the party, Yan Wei invited Anya to the hotel where he was staying.
Yan Wei's attitude was a bit joking at the beginning, and he never considered being responsible for Anya. However, a few months later, Anya approached Yan Wei, told him that she was pregnant, and expressed her desire to marry him.
In Yan Wei's opinion, when she first saw Anya at home, she must have been a miserable woman. Moreover, Yan Wei has also seen the conversation records of Anya and others, and the content is quite explicit.
Yan Wei looked at Anya crying in front of her, not knowing what to do, and said: "It's good to get married, but you have to get rid of your bad friends." ”
Anya immediately handed the phone to Yan Wei to delete. Yan Wei couldn't find a reason to refuse, so he reluctantly agreed to marry Anya.
In fact, Yan Wei has other purposes for marriage. Before graduating from high school, he went out to work. Father and son often quarreled because Yan Wei could not find a partner. Therefore, Yan Wei's marriage at this time was a little turbulent.
On New Year's Day 2013, Yan Wei and Anya held a party in their hometown of Chongqing. However, Anya was not yet 18 years old at the time, so the two did not have a marriage license.
After marriage, the life of the two was quite bumpy and contradictory. Moreover, Yan Wei found that his wife also maintained contact with other men, often having ambiguous conversations online.
In 2016, after getting the certificate, life did not get any easier. Yan Wei asked Anya to help repair the house, but she refused:
"I married you to enjoy life, not to be a maid. You gave me everything, am I still a boy? ”
Yan Wei felt that if their current life was unhappy, he could divorce. Hearing Yan Wei's words, Anya said with disdain: "I'm still young, I want to drag you to death!" ”
In this way, the two live in a cycle of mutual harm, without any intention of changing the status quo.
The husband's uneasiness after marriage.
In May 2017, Yan Wei invited Anya to work at a construction site in Lujiazhai City, Jiangsu Province. They stayed away from home and continued to quarrel. One night, Anya told Yan Wei that the boss invited her to dinner and that she would not come back to eat with him. Yan Wei quickly asked the identity of the boss, but Anya never mentioned who the boss was.
During the meal, Yan Wei and Anya video called, checking her situation while she was eating. After the video call was connected, Yan Wei found that Anya was drunk and her face was red, which immediately annoyed him:
"I didn't say you can't drink, but why do you drink so much?"
"Well, don't worry, my boss invited me to dinner, if I don't drink, isn't that disrespectful to my boss?" Anya replied, in a slurred tone.
Yan Wei heard Anya's answer, but did not respond. They just say that not drinking is disrespectful to the boss. If your boss assigns you something else, does that mean you regret not doing it?
Anya knew that Yan Wei's words had deep meaning, and quickly hung up the phone. Yan Wei wanted to call her several times, but she didn't answer.
Late one night a few months later, Anya returned home. Yan Wei called to inquire, and Anya told him she was resigning.
After hanging up the phone, Yan Wei recalled his wife's rapid breathing during the call and realized that something was wrong. When Anya came back, she wore different clothes and washed her hair, and Yan Wei thought that Anya had left to share a room with someone else.
Before Yan Wei could angrily question Anya, she said coldly: "I want a divorce, I want a free life." ”
"Honestly, is there anyone else?"
"Hmph, even if I divorce you, I won't marry someone else."
"If you don't want to marry a stranger, then why would you divorce me?"
"Didn't I say I wanted a free life?"
"Then you didn't think about the feelings of the children?"
"What right do I have to think about my feelings? If both of my children have the surname you, what's the point of me raising them? ”
Seeing that Anya did not care about the two children, Yan Wei immediately calmed down and said that divorce was okay, but it would end after a while. However, Anya has already begun packing and insists it must be done immediately.
The husband's anger led to tragedy.
In the morning, Anya packed up her things and went to sleep. Yan Wei wanted to repair their relationship, so he hugged Anya from behind. However, Anya angrily pushed him away:
"Hmph, you are not even as good as a dog, always cranky!"
Yan Wei saw that their relationship was irreparable, so he didn't think much about it. Before going to bed, he checked his phone and found that Anya had posted a message on social media:
"I just want to give these things to people who care about me, and you're no longer on the list, and now, I don't even want your emotions." Until Anya despised him, Yan Wei didn't know what he was doing. He remembered the stern words Anya had said that night. Yan Wei could no longer suppress the anger in his heart, and calmly loosened the belt around his waist. He pinched Anya's throat tightly.
The next day, Yan Wei claimed to be unwell. When all the workers were done with their work, he quietly dismembered Anya's body, packed it in a locked box, and threw it into a remote place by the river.
The next day, Yan Wei was like a zombie, avoiding all interaction with everyone, and only ate while drinking beer. The workers thought Yan Wei's behavior was strange, but no one expected him to kill his wife.
In the end, Yan Wei could no longer bear the mental torture and returned to his hometown of Chongqing. After returning home, Yan Wei told his sister what happened. She was taken aback and urged Yan Wei to turn himself in.
Before turning himself in, Yan Wei met with his parents and children, and then went to the Chongqing Municipal Public Security Bureau...
Conclusion:
The marriage of the two is a doomed disaster, a long-term conflict lacking love and communication. Their story is a cautionary tale about immature and irresponsible marriages. In this extended copy, we will continue to delve into the issues of their marriage and how the ultimate tragedy inevitably occurred.
Yan Wei and Ren Xiaoqian's marriage began under the impulse of alcohol and immaturity, and they did not really understand each other from the beginning, nor were they fully prepared for marriage. This is a classic example of how marriage should not be decided in a hurry just to escape reality or because of external pressures. When the foundation of a marriage is not strong, it can easily break down, leaving behind pain and hurt.
Their marriage is rife with a lack of communication and understanding. Couples never seem to really sit down and listen to each other's needs and concerns. Instead, they are more willing to blame and attack each other, escalating the conflict. This lack of communication leads to emotional alienation from each other and ultimately makes them feel irreparable.
The marriage of Yan Wei and Ren Xiaoqian also exposed their personal immaturity. None of them are ready to enter married life, not prepared for their responsibilities and obligations. Yan Wei seems to have been trying to evade his responsibilities, while Ren Xiaoqian shows erratic and impulsive behavior. This immaturity leads to their failure in dealing with marital problems, which ultimately leads to the disintegration of the marriage.
Marital infidelity is also part of the problem. Ren Xiaoqian maintains contact with other men and often interacts inappropriately online. This behavior not only hurt Yan Wei's feelings, but also destroyed the foundation of trust in their marriage. Staying honest and faithful in a marriage is essential, and infidelity only exacerbates conflict and mistrust.
How did the final tragedy happen? When their marriage fell into despair and pain, their emotions seemed irreparable. Yan Wei's anger and disappointment accumulated to an unbearable level, which eventually led to the tragedy. This tragedy is an extreme response to psychological stress and emotional burden, and it reminds us how we should better handle conflict and emotions in marriage.
The story also reflects society's pressures and expectations for marriage and family. Yan Wei and Ren Xiaoqian may have rushed to marry under external pressure because they felt that marriage was part of society's expectations. However, this hasty decision often leads to the failure of the marriage because it is not based on true love and understanding.
Finally, the story of Yan Wei and Ren Xiaoqian tells us that marriage is not an easy thing, it requires real effort, understanding and communication. If there is a problem in the marriage, it should not be avoided or avoided, but should actively seek solutions. Above all, marriage should be based on love, respect, and trust, and not for other reasons. Only in this way can the marriage be happy for a long time.