Wen Bixia's story, like a touching movie, echoed in my heart.
In 15 years, Wen Bixia was walking on the road. Suddenly stopped by several men. A man pulls a business card out of his bag and asks if she is interested in starring in a movie. Wen Bixia's curiosity drove her to agree to this opportunity.
The next day, she went to audition and successfully passed the director's assessment. So, she embarked on the road of acting and filmed her first movie "Beautiful Girl". This opportunity allowed her to enter the entertainment industry, get rid of the financial pressure of her family, and no longer worry about being sent away.
Wen Bixia was born in an ordinary family, and her family was not rich. When her parents were facing financial difficulties, they considered sending her out in order to survive. However, she was determined not to leave her family. Despite the many attempts of the people around her, Wen Bixia always hugged her mother and did not let go. This reluctant emotion made her painful and uneasy, and she lived with fear all the time.
Shooting movies allowed Wen Bixia to earn her first pot of gold and also won her freedom. No longer having to worry about being sent away, she chose to stick to her dream. However, her parents still stressed the importance of her studies and wanted her to continue her studies. Although she obeyed her parents' wishes and continued to go to school, she always missed the joy of filming in her heart. The conflict between studying and filming made her heart numb, and Wen Bixia finally decided to move out of the house and rent a small house by herself.
Just as she was making this decision for her life, fate brought an adventure. At the age of 17, she and Andy Lau filmed the movie "Can't Stop Love" together. Although they frequently laughed during the filming, this experience was the source of her tacit understanding with Andy Lau. After the movie fire, Wen Bixia began to reach the peak of her career, but her family continued to persuade her to return to her studies.
However, Wen Bixia met He Zuguang, a man born into a wealthy family, gentle and considerate. A spark of love arose between the two, and He Zuguang has always given her freedom and support. They eventually entered the palace of marriage and remained faithfully by each other's side.
However, Wen Bixia does not want children. She saw the difficulties and pain her own sister encountered when giving birth, and decided to give up the idea of having a biological child. Although this decision caused dissatisfaction from her mother-in-law, He Zuguang has always stood by her side and firmly supported her choice.
In the end, the two adopted a son, a decision that made He Zuguang very happy. Although Wen Bixia's career is still busy, she struggles to balance work and family, and she reduces her working hours in order to spend more time with her son.
Today, Wen Bixia and He Zuguang's marriage has gone through 22 years. They have always given each other space of freedom and mutual respect. Not only did they maintain a strong affection, but they also treated their son with love. This unpromising marriage persisted for a long time because of mutual tolerance and support.
Wen Bixia's story brings us inspiration. She bravely pursued her dreams, insisted on her choices, and remained committed to her family and son. She dares to fight against difficulties and traditional ideas, and pursues truth and happiness.
Love requires mutual understanding and support, while families need to be tolerant and respectful of each other. It is this belief and hard work that has made the marriage of Wen Bixia and He Zuguang stand the test of time.
56-year-old Wen Bixia still maintains a youthful appearance, and her life story is not only a legend, but also an inspiration for us to chase our dreams and stick to our true love. No matter at any time, we should stick to our own choices and create our own happiness with sincerity and hard work.
Wen Bixia: My road to the entertainment industry
In 15 years, Wen Bixia was walking on the road. Suddenly stopped by several men. One of the men rummaged through his bag and pulled out a business card. Wen Bixia watched warily as these men with bad eyes were ready to run away at any time. I'm thinking about running to a crowded area. As a result, the man said to her: "We are going to make a movie, and we want to ask you to be the heroine, are you interested?" ”
As soon as she heard that she was asked to make a movie, Wen Bixia felt quite fresh and agreed to him. She went to the audition the next day, she read the lines and the director said it. After that, she went to make her first movie "Beautiful Girl". Since then, he has entered the entertainment industry. She can make money by filming on her own, and she no longer has to worry about her mother sending her away.
Wen Bixia was born in an ordinary family in Diu Keng Ling, Hong Kong. She also has 3 older sisters and 4 older brothers. There are many siblings in the family, and the parents are almost unable to support them. So I wanted to send my little daughter away. Mom found a good family for Wen Bixia, they have money and like their daughter. Will be fine with daughter. But wait for her mother to take Wen Bixia to meet that person. Mom said to her very gently: "In the future, you will live with this uncle, and they will treat you very well." After that, he also pushed her towards the person. Wen Bixia seemed to know that she was going to be sent away. I kept holding my mother's leg and didn't let go.
Seeing that there were more and more people around, the person left angrily. My mother had to bring her back again. Because of her crying, her mother couldn't bear to send her away. After all, her daughter is also the flesh that fell from her body, and if she is really sent away, she will also feel distressed. Wen Bixia didn't want to be sent away. She heard from classmates that the children who were sent away were not wanted by their parents. When you go to a new house, you will be beaten if you disobey, and sometimes you will not even have enough to eat. After returning home, Wen Bixia was afraid of being sent away again, so she grew up to her teenage years with fear.
Later, she went to make movies and made money. After having the money, she was no longer afraid that her parents would send her away. Her parents were against her going to make a movie. Because she was still studying at that time, her parents felt that learning was important. Wen Bixia had to follow her parents' words and continue to school. But she always thinks about filming when she goes to class. She has fallen in love with filming since making her first film. I was full of thoughts about filming, and I had no intention of studying.
After that, in order to make a movie, she moved out of her home and rented a small house to live outside. At the age of 17, she made the movie "Can't Stop Love" with Andy Lau. There are many kissing scenes between the two in the play, and Andy Lau asks her: "Have you ever been in love?" Wen Bixia smiled and said, "In love." He was a little surprised. So the kiss scene is not very difficult for her. But at that time, both of them were young, and they couldn't help but laugh when filming kissing scenes. So a kiss scene was filmed more than a dozen times. It is said that her boyfriend was jealous when he saw her kissing with others.
Later, the film caught fire, and Wen Bixia also caught fire. Her parents still didn't give up on letting her study. Eventually, she decided to go back to school. At the age of 20, Wen Bixia made a comeback. She also filmed "Underground Love", "Burning Harbor", "Wind and Clouds" and so on. At a party, Wen Bixia met He Zuguang. He Zuguang was born in a wealthy family, tall and handsome, gentle and considerate. He Zuguang was moved when he saw her at the party.
I kept an eye on her ever since. As soon as she went out after the party, I saw her crouching in the doorway playing with the kitten. After a while a friend came to pick her up, and she smiled and walked away with the man. Such a beautiful person should be pampered. Later, the two met again at an event. He Zuguang plucked up the courage to confess. After that, the two were together. After the two were together, he rarely asked her about things, giving her enough free space.
When Wen Bixia went to a party, he never asked who she was going with. Very reassuring to her. Later, Wen Bixia's father died of illness. During that time, she was sad, and He Zuguang was always by her side to comfort her. I was afraid that she would be cranky at home alone, and took her to the beach to relax. After 3 years together, He Zuguang asked her if she wanted to get married? Wen Bixia said what she thought. After that, He Zuguang went to prepare for the wedding and married her. I didn't expect to be opposed by my family.
The mother-in-law felt that their family was so big and a wealthy family, and he should marry a family member. How is it possible to marry a female star? He Zuguang is a very filial man. He had always listened to his parents before, but he had to make his own decisions about marriage. Wen Bixia saw that her mother-in-law disliked herself so much, and felt that she would not be happy if she married in the past. So a breakup was proposed. I didn't expect that he, who has always had a good temper, was actually angry. Say nothing and don't want to break up.
He said: "She doesn't have to worry about getting married, he will get his parents to agree." "The family saw that He Zuguang wanted to marry Wen Bixia wholeheartedly, and they didn't change their minds no matter how they persuaded. After that, the family had to agree. After marriage, Wen Bixia wanted to continue filming, and He Zuguang supported her very much. After that, Wen Bixia filmed "Feng Shen List", "Love in Late Autumn", "Zhazheng" and so on. The two have been married for many years and have no children.
As for why Wen Bixia did not want children, He Zuguang was also puzzled. She never said anything about the child, and she didn't ask him if she didn't say it. Later, I couldn't bear it and asked her. Once when the two went on vacation, He Zuguang asked her: "Why don't you want children?" Wen Bixia told He Zuguang that she had seen her eldest sister give birth to a child and suffered from heavy bleeding and death. When she saw her eldest sister's painful appearance, she didn't want to have children.
He Zuguang will always stand on her side and think for her. Since she didn't want to give birth, then he wouldn't force her to give birth. But the mother-in-law did not think so, she always wanted to hold her grandson. Very angry after learning that she did not want to have children. So He Zuguang went to explain to her mother-in-law. Seeing her son protecting her so much, her mother-in-law was not good to say anything. Wen Bixia had seen how filial He Zuguang was to his parents. Whatever his parents asked him to do, he did almost everything. Never rebelled against his parents.
However, in order to protect her, he did not quarrel with his parents. She also has a husband who has always protected her, even if she has no children, she can be in a wealthy family for so many years. Although He Zuguang said on the surface that he didn't care if he had children, Wen Bixia always knew that he liked children. Later, the two went to adopt a son. The two finally had a child, and He Zuguang was very happy. After having a son, Wen Bixia also began to learn how to be a mother. However, she spends most of her time filming outside.
Once I came home to find my son much taller. Wen Bixia sighed that her son was taller again. In order to spend more time with her son, she rarely filmed. Now, Wen Bixia and He Zuguang's unpromising marriage has gone through 22 years. The relationship between the two is still very good. Because the two have always given each other free space and respect each other. The two are also very good to their son. Although not biological, the son has a very good relationship with them. Every time he takes photos, he likes to put his arm around Wen Bixia's waist, and he seems to have a better relationship with his mother. 56-year-old Wen Bixia still looks so young, she is married to love and is spoiled by her husband as a little princess.
