1. Fashion Week catwalk controversy: the tearing feeling of girl's style and "hunchback posture".
58-year-old Wen Bixia appeared at Shenzhen Fashion Week, wearing a white bandeau skirt with a blazer for the finale, but caused an uproar due to styling and posture problems.
Under the camera, her long hair is close to her scalp, her makeup is heavy but it is difficult to hide her nasolabial folds and facial stiffness, and her neck is leaning forward and her posture with her chest and hunched back is called "like a hunchback monster" by netizens.
Despite its slender body and superior leg lines, the stiff face with "obvious traces of medical beauty" contrasts strongly with the scribbled shape of "captle".
Some netizens commented: "58-year-old has to be dressed as 18 years old, and his neck leans forward like an old lady walking." The controversy quickly spread to social media, and Wen Bixia forcibly pretended to be tender, and the topic was read more than 100 million.
This is not the first time that Wen Bixia has overturned due to styling. In 2023, when she appeared at the same fashion week in a pink skirt, she was criticized for "stiff steps" and "style that does not match her age".
And this controversy pointed the finger at its "decades as a day" girlish outfit.
From the princess style in the yellow dress to the off-the-shoulder sexy outfit, Wen Bixia has always been obsessed with the combination of long hair shawls, short skirts and high heels, and was ridiculed that "she is the only one in the world who doesn't know that she is old".
2. From "the most beautiful Daji" to the goddess of controversy: marriage counterattack and life choice
1. Behind Wen Bixia's controversy is her ups and downs in life.
Slum counterattack: The history of blood and tears from being sold at the age of 5 to breaking into the entertainment industry at the age of 15
In 1966, Wen Bixia was born in the slums of Tiu Keng Leng in Hong Kong, and her family of ten was crammed into a 30-square-meter tin house.
His father was a veteran who was addicted to gambling, and his mother was unable to raise her, so she took Wen Bixia to a strange man to trade when she was 5 years old.
As a young girl, she clutched the corner of her mother's clothes and cried: "Mom, don't leave me!" In the end, the buyer couldn't bear to cry on hunger strike, so he was sent back.
This experience became a shadow of her life, and it also made her vow to "control her destiny no matter how poor she is".
When she was 14 years old, Wen Bixia ran away from home after being slapped by her mother for her early love, became addicted to tobacco and alcohol in bars, and even witnessed the violent death of her drug-addicted friend.
On the line between life and death, she grabbed the business card handed by director Li Dawei and opened a turning point in her life.
In 1981, at the age of 15, she won the Best Newcomer Award at the Academy Awards for the movie "Pretty Girl", with a salary of 6,000 Hong Kong dollars far exceeding her father's monthly salary.
However, when she was filming "Can't Stop Love" at the age of 17, she found out that she was "tricked" into filming a bed scene with Wu Mengda, and she broke down and cried on the set but was forced to complete it due to liquidated damages, and since then she has been labeled as a "star", and her father has been humiliated in public: "Shame on you!" ”
2. 24 years of wealthy marriage: life and death behind refusal to have children
Fear and pampering of wives
In 1996, Wen Bixia fell into a trough due to the controversy of "Shocking Change", and met He Zuguang when she was relaxing in Hawaii.
At that time, she was haggard without makeup, but he was shocked: "Your crying and swollen eyes are like stars falling on the sea." ”
In order to chase the goddess, he chartered the entire beach to set off fireworks, filled the hotel room with 365 handwritten love letters, and even taught himself photography to act as his wife's exclusive "retoucher" - although netizens ridiculed him for "being P into a black charcoal face, he is also happy".
In 2000, 34-year-old Wen Bixia and Hong Kong wealthy son He Zuguang held a wedding of the century in Thailand.
He Zuguang was born in a prominent family (his grandfather was He Yingqin, a veteran of the Kuomintang), but he fell in love with Wen Bixia, who was boycotted by his family because of his status as a "star".
He once declared in public: "I love her soul, not those films!" He even fought a cold war with his family for three years to marry her, and finally forced back the opposition with the vow of "If I can't marry her, I will never marry for life".
After marriage, Wen Bixia refused to have children due to two shadows: one was to witness her sister's dystocia and hemorrhage and near death, and the other was that her childhood experience of being sold made her afraid that "children will become a weakness".
Facing the pressure of a wealthy family, she tearfully filed for divorce: "You go and marry a woman who can have children." He Zuguang hugged her tightly and responded: "Without children, we are still a complete family of three." ”
In 2010, the husband and wife adopted the abandoned baby He Guolun, and He Zuguang notarized the tens of billions of family property as the inheritance of the adopted son in order to make his wife feel at ease, and even incarnated as a "super dad" to make milk powder late at night and accompany him to read picture books. Netizens jokingly said: "The son of a wealthy family lives as a tool for his favorite wife!" ”
3. The ultimate romance of the "love brain" husband
Over the past 24 years, He Zuguang has adhered to the three rules of favoring wives:
- "I pay for your girlish heart": spend tens of millions of dollars to build a pink cloakroom for his wife and collect 500 princess dresses;
- "Career is your armor": supported her comeback to shoot "Fengshen Bang", personally visited the class to deliver bird's nest, and calmly said in the face of the kiss drama that "actors need to be professional";
- "Time is for you": go home on time at 9 o'clock every night, never travel for more than 3 days, and the mobile phone screensaver is always a photo of the first meeting between the two.
Today's headlines netizens commented:
@港剧迷妹: "He Sheng tore up the script of the boss and changed the diary of his favorite wife, this is a real wealthy family!" ”
@心理学博士王: "Wen Bixia's girlish style is not pretending to be tender, it is the armor of psychological healing." ”
@时尚辣妈: "After reading it, I want to divorce and remarry!" Where is this kind of husband? ”
This marriage has become the confidence for her "life winner" label - He Zuguang not only supports her comeback after retiring from filming, but also tolerates her insistence on girlish dressing. Wen Bixia once said frankly: "He never asks me to change, as long as I am happy." ”
3. Comparison of actresses of the same age: aging elegantly VS persistent girlishness
Wen Bixia's controversy also reflects the polarization of the public's attitude towards the aging of female celebrities.
1. Representatives of "naturalism": Guan Zhilin, Maggie Cheung's calmness
The 61-year-old Kwan Zhilin was praised as a "model of elegance" for her plump body and proper dressing, and she admitted: "Wrinkles are the gift of time. Maggie Cheung walked the catwalk in a black suit at the age of 60, although she was thin but had an elegant temperament, netizens said that her "wrinkles are just right".
2. "Rebel" controversy: Liu Xiaoqing's "Girl Grandmother" character design
70-year-old Liu Xiaoqing often appears in hot pants and double ponytails, and is nicknamed "the originator of the tender world".
Similar to Wen Bixia, her style has been repeatedly complained about "inconsistent with age", but it has also triggered reflection on "society's imposition of women's age shackles".
3. Hairstyle into focus: 10,000-year-old long hair VS white hair elegant
Wen Bixia and Zhou Huimin were both criticized for their "unchanged for decades" long hair, and were advised to "cut their hair short to look younger". In contrast, Ye Tong and Ye Qianwen appeared with white hair and were praised for their "charm of aging calmly".
4. Behind the controversy: social age anxiety and individual choice
Behind the controversy caused by Wen Bixia's style is the public's collision of values on "how women age".
Proponents argue:
"Being able to wear a short skirt at the age of 58 is proof of self-discipline!" (Quoting netizen comments)
"Her happiness is written on her face, why bother to frame her beauty with age?"
Opponents criticize:
"Forcibly girlish is not as tall and elegant as Zhao Yazhi at the age of 70"
"Excessive medical aesthetics will lose natural beauty"
Today's topic: Can you accept female celebrities "forcibly pretending to be tender"? Does it take courage to age gracefully? Feel free to share your views in the comment section!
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