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After the death of my husband, does it take a long time for my wife to be able to free herself from the shadows and return to normal work and life?
This issue has sparked widespread discussion on the Internet recently. On July 4, Bi Xia, a well-known singer, made her first public appearance after the death of her husband Zhang Hengyuan, however, she appeared not to pour out her grief, but to promote her upcoming concert. Bi Xia was tied with a ball head on the spot, her hair looked messy, her face was haggard, she didn't seem to have heavy makeup, she was wearing a black dress, her eyes were also a little heavy, and she could even see that her eye bags were clearly visible.
Although Bi Xia may have used beauty filters, after all, it was for concert promotion, and too vicissitudes of the image may affect her image. However, none of this could hide the godless tired look in her eyes. Some people expressed their incomprehension on social media, thinking that their husband had just passed away, how could they get to work so quickly?
Zhang Hengyuan died on June 13, while Bi Xia began promoting the concert on July 4 and needed to rehearse for at least a week. In this way, only ten days after Zhang Hengyuan's death, Bi Xia returned to work. Does that mean she's not sad at all? Many netizens expressed difficulty in accepting this, believing that this is not a manifestation of true love. They believe that if there really is deep love, then the wife cannot return to work so quickly when the husband has just died. Usually, it takes at least a few months, or even years, to adjust to the mood, especially if Bixia wants to hold a concert, it needs to be full of energy and passion, which is almost impossible for the average person.
However, a different point of view was also raised. It has been pointed out that Bi Xia's work may have been arranged in advance, and she may have signed the contract before Zhang Hengyuan's death. If she temporarily cancels the concert, she will face liquidated damages. Therefore, her bleak and tired expression may be due to the death of her husband rather than her own career choice. Bi Xia was born in 1991 and is relatively young, and although he became popular in 2013 with "The Voice of China", he did not become very famous. Therefore, her remuneration may not be very high, and she may need to take advantage of the current heat to earn some money to support her family, which is also understandable.
In addition, we need to realize that people in the entertainment industry and ordinary people have different professional characteristics. Celebrities, whether actors or singers, often need to appear in public, which is a requirement of their profession. Even in moments of sadness and pain, they need to maintain their image, as this may affect their career prospects and even lead to bans. Therefore, Bixia's rapid return to work may be due to professional needs, she lives in the entertainment industry and cannot see these issues like ordinary people.
To sum up, people have different opinions about Bixia's behavior. When judging whether she is too cold, we need to take into account her professional characteristics as well as personal circumstances. In any case, this incident has sparked a discussion about how widows should deal with grief and work, and has also made us rethink the professional pressures and life challenges of celebrities in front of the public. After all, everyone's situation is different, and it is difficult to judge the choices and behaviors of others by uniform standards.
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