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"We are no longer friends, tell her that I will not see her again in this life, let her go!"
In December 2003, when the popular superstar Anita Mui was seriously ill and dying in the hospital, many friends came to say goodbye, but she specially instructed the bodyguards to prohibit the two from visiting.
One is the love of his life, Zhao Wenzhuo, and the other is Wu Junru, a close friend of his daughter, who is said to have begged to see Mei for the last time to seek understanding, but was coldly refused.
How did this pair of the best sisters of the year come to the point of "old and dead do not communicate with each other"?
Zhao Wenzhuo, as the love of Mei's life, why didn't he get to the last time?
1. An unsent love letter
"Zhao Wenzhuo is the only person I want to marry in my life." Anita Mui once said sincerely in front of the media.
The two met at a party in 1995.
At that time, due to the filming of "Golden Jade Full Hall", Zhao Wenzhuo accidentally met his "brother", in addition to acting, the two also talked very well and became friends who said nothing.
So when Leslie Cheung received Zhong Zhentao's invitation to come to the house for a party, he brought Zhao Wenzhuo with him, and it was this party that allowed him to meet Anita Mui.
Anita Mui was full of praise for Zhao Wenzhuo's martial arts achievements and offered to ask him to be her personal trainer. And Zhao Wenzhuo, who has always been serious and cautious, did not even think about this errand.
The two began to have frequent contact in private, and gradually developed feelings for each other, and their relationship has always been sweet and beautiful at the beginning.
Zhao Wenzhuo is lively and cheerful, the two are nine years apart, don't look at his young age, but he can solve Mei's worries, Anita Mui is also very willing to tell Zhao Wenzhuo about the troubles she encounters.
Not only that, she also said that she wanted to stay with him, and they had also met their parents on both sides, and they got this recognition, and when the time was ripe, the two were ready to get married.
However, just as usual, the wedding date of the two was suddenly forced to cancel.
At that time, Anita Mui was already a popular female singer, but Zhao Wenzhuo was still an unknown third-tier star.
The disparity in the identities of the two will inevitably be met with public gossip.
The criticism of Mei Zhao's love affair has intensified, and many people believe that Zhao Wenzhuo is borrowing Anita Mui to ascend to the throne. Although Anita Mui clarified for Zhao Wenzhuo, she could not calm public opinion.
In this environment, Zhao Wenzhuo's career was slumped and physically and mentally damaged. The contradictions between each other accumulated, and finally they had no choice but to break up.
After the breakup, the two developed in the entertainment industry separately, but their relationship was still worried.
They broke up before the wedding date and failed to achieve positive results. This pair of people who once loved each other caused thousands of waves when they separated, and also made countless people sigh.
Anita Mui once said in the face of this relationship that if we can travel through the past, she will definitely explain the misunderstanding at that time, maybe they have already grown old.
And Zhao Wenzhuo also lamented that the Hong Kong media hurt too deeply, which led to the breakdown of the relationship. Both of them spoke with vicissitudes and regrets, like an unsent confession letter, forever frozen in the past.
And Anita Mui never started a new relationship after the end of this relationship, never married in her life, walked through the remaining years alone, and even fought the disease alone.
2. Sudden cancer and refusal of visitation
In 1999, Mei was accidentally diagnosed with cancer during a physical examination, which must know what a heavy blow the arrival of "cervical cancer" was for her at the peak of her career.
Fortunately, it was found in time, and under the doctor's treatment, the cancer cells did not continue to spread, the condition improved, and Anita Mui's life was back on track.
But the good times did not last long, Anita Mui, who was temporarily recovered, began to busy with her career again, not to mention her physical fatigue, and often busy until midnight.
Finally, her physical condition was urgent, and in 2002, a re-examination found that the cancer cells began to spread, and the doctor recommended that she have her uterus removed, but Anita Mui firmly refused.
Because she lives in a patriarchal family, her father died early, and her mother prefers brothers, Anita Mui vowed to become a qualified mother and never give up the opportunity to give birth.
However, it is a pity that it is precisely because of her decision that her condition began to deteriorate, causing her life to come to an end.
At the last moment, in order to make up for the shortcomings of her life, she repeatedly decided to hold a solo concert in the Red Hall, and chose to sing the whole scene in a wedding dress.
On the stage, there is endless love for fans and perfect memories of her life.
On December 30, 2003, in the face of a group of friends visiting her for a final farewell, May turned away the only man she had loved in her life.
After learning the news, Zhao Wenzhuo came to visit the sick Anita Mui, but she refused, because Anita Mui at that moment was no longer what she was before, her body was emaciated by chemotherapy, her hair was lost, and she didn't want her loved one to see how haggard she was today.
According to Zhao's recollection, when Mei died, he suddenly felt a coolness hit him on the plane, maybe someone who really loves really has a sixth sense.
Unfortunately, the two never saw each other again. At Anita Mui's funeral, Zhao Wenzhuo left an elegy of "the love of this life, go all the way".
An unsent love letter carrying two hearts that span time. They divorced due to misunderstanding, but they could not forget, they did not grow old in vain, but the relationship was eternal. Their story is an unfinished song.
Maybe there was no outside opinion, maybe they survived that time, maybe ... They will really walk into the palace of marriage.
But to say that not seeing Zhao Wenzhuo is too deep in love, then not seeing Wu Junru or hating too deeply.
Third, friendship becomes grudge
In 2000, the movie "Love Junru Like a Dream" starring Wu Junru lacked an actress, and she temporarily invited her friend Anita Mui to make a guest appearance.
The two of them have known each other since the 1984 movie "Spring River Flower and Moon Night", and the status of newcomer Wu Junru in the circle is far inferior to Anita Mui, although the two were very different at that time, Anita Mui still took good care of Wu Junru, making her feel the most sincere friendship in this circle.
With the frequent exchanges in daily life, the two gradually became acquainted and became close friends. Anita Mui's sincere help helped Wu Junru change the public's stereotypical impression of her and opened up a situation in her career.
This time received Wu Junru's invitation, Anita Mui gladly agreed to make a guest appearance in "Love Jun Like a Dream".
It was originally a good thing, but after the release, Anita Mui found that her scenes were greatly cut.
Not only that, she originally wanted to sing the theme song with the male protagonist Andy Lau, but was once again recorded by Wu Junru with Andy Lau.
"Love Jun Like a Dream" was a huge success, the crew celebrated the banquet lively, only Anita Mui was in a bad mood, and all this Wu Junru did not notice at all.
Anita Mui decided that this was a betrayal of her friend and left the scene early after the premiere and did not appear at the celebration banquet.
Afterwards, she was also photographed going out to buy drunk, and bluntly said in the interview that she was sad because of what Wu Junru did.
Since then, the two have drifted apart until Mei's death, and they have not been able to restore this friendship, which has become Wu Junru's lifelong regret.
In fact, the last meeting and not seeing does not mean anything, perhaps in Anita Mui's heart, these have long been overlooked, she has long forgiven Wu Junru is not not, but this kind of feeling sometimes does not need to be conveyed in words, but in the heart.
The author thinks
Anita Mui's life is brilliant, the works she left behind still affect countless people today, and the memories she left us will always be precious and unforgettable, and she has exchanged her strength and hard work for wide recognition and sincere friendship.
But the good times did not last long, and the red face and poor life made people sigh and regret. We should cherish our hard-won confidants, actively communicate and understand, and avoid destroying friendship due to suspicion and misunderstanding. Only by giving up the small self to become the big self and resolving contradictions can the beautiful feelings endure.
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