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Editor|Center of the Last Century
preface
"This is love, no one can tell, this is love, muddle and confused"
In the 90s, Jiang Shan and Wang Zhiwen's song "Confused Love" swept the streets, and she inherited the good genes of her musician's parents and sang this song into a classic.
And when she was young and beautiful, she fell in love with the male lead singer because of the song, and then played the screen couple many times, and finally unknowingly fell into a confused love.
It's a pity that this recognized "golden boy and jade girl" finally broke up, returned to become friends, and many years later, they also played the role of husband and wife in a TV series.
After the two broke up, Jiang Shan soon married actor Gao Shuguang and gave birth to a daughter, but before the marriage could wait for the seven-year itch, the two divorced, and since then, she has become a single mother who lives only for her daughter.
So much so that later, when she met Jin Dong, who was handsome, talented and loved her very much, she also had to listen to her daughter's words and broke up painfully, and the two missed it.
What has this national goddess who has experienced twists and turns in her feelings over the years? How is she doing with her second husband now?
Growing up
Jiang Shan was born in Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province to an artistic family, and her parents were opera singers. When she was a child, Jiang Shan was brought to the theater by her parents to watch various opera performances, and she admired the actors on the stage very much.
He began learning piano at the age of 5 and was soon able to play simple tunes. In elementary school, Jiang Shan participated in the school's English after-school interest group, and her English level was among the best among her peers.
In addition to musical and language talent, Jiang Shan has also shown a strong talent for acting since she was a child, whether it is a school gala or a small play between classes, Jiang Shan can easily bring in the role and complete each performance to the fullest.
After entering junior high school, Jiang Shan's father became the director of a film studio, and the family moved to Beijing. After coming to Beijing, Jiang Shan actively participated in various stage performances of the school, and even spontaneously formed a small choir.
Her bright voice and outstanding singing skills made her famous in school. Although her acting career seems to have a great future, Jiang Shan's dream is to become an English teacher, so she insisted on applying to the Foreign Language Institute after graduating from high school.
But under the strong persuasion of her parents, Jiang Shan changed her mind and decided to challenge herself and apply for the acting department of the Central Academy of Drama. Fortunately, Jiang Shan passed the rigorous exam and became an undergraduate student in the Chinese opera acting department.
During college, Jiang Shan often skipped classes at first because she had not yet fully let go of her longing for a career as an English teacher. Under the guidance of her teachers and friends, Jiang Shan finally devoted herself to acting learning.
In 1993, through the recommendation of her friend Wang Zhiwen, Jiang Shan won the opportunity to lead the heroine of the popular TV series "Addiction". It also became a turning point in her career. With this role, Jiang Shan quickly became popular and was called the "national goddess" by the majority of audiences.
After the end of the TV series, Jiang Shan participated in many movies one after another, completely standing in the position of a powerful actor.
Bitter love
In 1997, Jiang Shan and Gao Shuguang met during the filming of "I Want to Have a Home" and fell in love at first sight. Jiang Shan was captivated by Gao Shuguang's elegant handsomeness, and Gao Shuguang was also attracted by Jiang Shan's gentleness and thoughtfulness. Three months later, 33-year-old Gao Shuguang and 30-year-old Jiang Shan entered the palace of marriage.
Life after marriage was sweet at first, and the two often curled up at home researching new dishes or planning their next travel destination. A year later, their daughter Gao Yixin was born, and the child's name even more pinned on the beautiful vision of love between the two, "Yi" and "Xin" together is "love".
However, the good times did not last long. After the birth of the child, Jiang Shan and Gao Shuguang found that there was a serious difference in the life philosophy of the two. Jiang Shan likes to live freely and can work and travel as she pleases.
And Gao Shuguang wants a stable home with a fixed schedule to accompany his family. The two constantly quarreled over the support of their children, and gradually, the sweetness of love was replaced by the pressure of life.
Coupled with the increase in work pressure, Gao Shuguang chose to constantly go out to work to avoid quarrels with Jiang Shan. But this practice made Jiang Shan feel that he was avoiding family responsibilities, avoiding problems, and all the housework fell on her shoulders alone, and she was very angry about this.
In 2003, after 6 years of marriage, Jiang Shan and Gao Shuguang finally filed for divorce. The love of the two for their daughter has not changed, but the difference in life philosophy cannot be reconciled at all. After the divorce, Jiang Shan took her daughter to live in Beijing, and Gao Shuguang moved to Shanghai to develop her career.
They very tacitly did not accuse each other in public, but said that the breakup was only due to the inability to coordinate lifestyles, and the other party was not sorry for themselves. Every holiday, Gao Shuguang would go to Beijing to pick up his daughter and return to Shanghai to live together. Nevertheless, the divorce of parents has a certain impact on the development of children.
Jiang Shan and Gao Shuguang moved from love to marriage, and finally parted ways, making people sigh that love is difficult to resist the run-in of life after all. What they left behind was a sweet and bitter past in their youthful memories.
The road is bumpy
In 2006, Jiang Shan met Jin Dong, a young student 9 years younger than him, while filming the movie "Tragic Mother and Son". Although the other party is just an unknown little actor, the two developed a relationship on the set.
Jin Dong, who was 30 years old at the time, did not grow up happily, and after his parents divorced, he became a left-behind child and was raised by his grandparents. After entering the entertainment industry, he was unknown for many years, until he met Jiang Shan and was deeply attracted by her mature temperament.
The 39-year-old Jiang Shan didn't want to talk about a new relationship, but she still had a good impression of Jin Dong. In 2008, the two officially confirmed their relationship despite criticism from the outside world, which caused many controversies. Even Jiang Shan's daughter Gao Yixin did not want to admit his identity, Jiang Shan repeatedly communicated with her daughter without success, and her daughter would rather wear headphones than listen to her mother's explanation.
In the eyes of her daughter Gao Yixin, Jin Dong, her mother's new boyfriend, is in strong contrast with her mature and stable father, which makes her very disgusted. She used to look forward to her parents reconciled, but now she saw that her mother had found an unqualified boyfriend, and she was very disappointed and angry.
For the past five years, Gao Yixin has strongly opposed his mother's relationship that crosses the age gap. She constantly puts pressure on her mother and Jin Dong, causing their relationship to progress hard. Jiang Shan had to be careful in order to protect her daughter.
In 2013, for her daughter's studies, Jiang Shan decided to take her daughter abroad to accompany her. Before the breakup, Jiang Shan still had feelings for Jin Dong, but her daughter was her first and could only make painful decisions. Jin Dong also had to accept the fact of breaking up, although he once wanted to follow him abroad.
After that, the two started a new life on their own. Jiang Shan devoted herself to accompanying her daughter and occasionally returned to China to work. Jin Dong met Li Jia in the crew, started a new relationship, and eventually got married.
Finally loved
Jiang Shan and Tian Xiaojie's love from far and near, crossing the barriers of age and experience, proving that true love has nothing to do with distance.
The meeting between the two did not go well, Tian Xiaojie only silently watched Jiang Shan at first, until after many cooperation, his intention to pursue gradually became obvious. However, Jiang Shan no longer believed in love at this time, and rejected Tian Xiaojie's overtures many times.
Tian Xiaojie was unwilling to give up and first obtained the support of Jiang Shan's daughter Gao Yixin. When Gao Yixin grew up, she also understood how much sacrifice her mother had made for herself, and she sincerely hoped that her mother could regain happiness, so she became the promoter of the love between the two. With her daughter's encouragement, Jiang Shan finally gave Tian Xiaojie a chance.
It turned out that Tian Xiaojie's past was not smooth, and she was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama at the age of 29 and used to be a car repairer. His solid acting skills have been recognized, and he has been nominated and awarded for the Magnolia Award. And Jiang Shan has also experienced emotional ups and downs, and has no expectations for love.
However, love is like spring breeze and rain, gradually melting the ice and snow in Jiang Shan's heart. He is mature and steady, and can give her happiness and stability. This is very different from the Vanity Fair people she used to get along with. With the blessing of their daughter, the two finally became dependents and married in a low-key manner.
After marriage, Tian Xiaojie took care of Jiang Shan's life and daily life, making Jiang Shan feel loved and happy for a long time. The family of three often travels together to enhance the relationship.
Today, Jiang Shan is no longer afraid of love. The days when Hetian Xiaojie was in love with each other were worth waiting for so many years. Love has nothing to do with age and conditions, only in the fit of two hearts. Jiang Shan and Tian Xiaojie walked hand in hand through the ups and downs of life and finally won their love.
Perhaps it is because both of them have gone through the vicissitudes of life that they can cherish their current happiness. Tian Xiaojie healed Jiang Shan's wounded heart with patience and sincerity, and Jiang Shan also gave Tian Xiaojie warmth and new life. They support each other, spend the rest of their lives hand in hand, and are a pair of lovers destined by God.
epilogue
After Gao Shuguang separated from Jiang Shan, he formed a new family and gave birth to a son, but this did not affect his love for his daughter at all, and he never let his daughter lack his father's love.
Jin Dong, whom Jiang Shan once loved deeply, met his current wife after separating under Gao Yixin's strong opposition and had a happy family.
Now Jiang Shan has finally found her hard-won happiness, and with the encouragement of her lover and daughter, she has re-stood on the stage, chasing her dreams when she was young, and looking forward to more excellent works she can bring in the future.
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