In 178 AD, Mrs. Ding and 24-year-old Cao Cao were married for 2 years. On this day, Mrs. Ding forced tears and let the beautiful maid go to her husband's room, and she said: "Go, get pregnant, give you a name." Nineteen years later, Mrs. Ding can no longer help crying: "You killed my son."
In 178, Cao Cao, who had just turned 24, married Ding.
The Ding family came from the Ding family, a large clan, and was a distant relative to Cao Cao.
Both of them are the first taste of marriage, and their relationship is very good.
Unfortunately, several years after marriage, Ding was still not pregnant, and Cao Cao's father, Cao Song, was very anxious, so he tried to find ways to get an heir for his son.
In the first year of Guanghe, Cao Cao was dismissed from office and returned to his hometown for committing crimes.
Ding was supposed to accompany him, but was forced by Cao Song to stay on the grounds of taking care of his concubines.
At that time, Cao Song valued the continuation of incense and was desperate to hold her grandson, and Ding had not been pregnant for a long time, which made the old man even more restless.
After Cao Cao left, Cao Song immediately married his son to another room, eager to give birth to children and grandchildren as soon as possible.
Ding's heart was like a knife but helpless, so he had to endure the pain of letting his maid Liu Shi return to his hometown with Cao Cao, hoping that she could conceive Cao Cao's flesh and bones.
"You go back with him, if you can get pregnant, I will give you a name for him, and it will not be a loss to you."
More than a year later, Cao Cao returned to the capital after returning to the capital, and Liu was indeed pregnant with Liujia.
Ding Shi saw Liu's bulging abdomen, and his heart was mixed, both envious and jealous, and at the same time blamed himself for his misfortune.
However, she still persuaded Cao Cao to take Liu as a concubine, fulfilling her original promise.
The Liu family gave birth to two boys and a daughter for Cao Cao successively, and the Ding family, as the main mother, did not have the honor of giving birth, and it was inevitable that the heart was full of mustard.
But she did not show it, but regarded her three children as her own, especially her eldest son Cao Ang, and placed high hopes on it.
The years flew by, and Cao Ang finally grew up and was already heroic.
Ding was pleased to see him go on his expedition with Cao Cao, confident that he would return triumphantly.
However, the good times did not last long, Cao Ang was attacked in the battle of Wancheng, died in battle, the news came back, Ding was desperate, she was grief-stricken, thinking that her son would definitely be able to escape the war, but she knew that everything would be in vain.
At this moment, Ding finally realized that this tragedy was caused by Cao Cao's mistakes.
She rushed into Cao Cao's room and wept accusing him of being incompetent and indirectly killing her beloved son.
"You have the word "Qixiong" on your lips every day, you only know power, and now you are not awake! That's your son, your own son! ”
Although Cao Cao also grieved the death of his son, Ding's accusations eventually hurt his self-esteem.
In a fit of rage, he drove Ding back to his mother's house.
Cao Cao later went to apologize, hoping that Ding Shi would change his mind: "Madam, go back with me, I was wrong about Zixuan." ”
Dante was never able to forgive and chose to divorce: "It is useless to talk more, I just want a piece of paper now." ”
Ding's heart was like ashes, believing that Cao Cao was unworthy of being a father and husband, and refused to continue with him.
Since then, Ding has spent the rest of his life in his mother's family and never married.
Although she lost her son, she still married Cao Cao without complaint, but their marriage was difficult to repair due to various changes.
Ding's love for Cao Cao has passed with time, and she chooses to keep her thoughts of her son and spend her old age in her mother's house.
Resources:
Cao Cao encounters the "divorce door" - Xiao Qiang - "Happiness: Happy Reading"
