There is no more grief in life than a white-haired person sending a black-haired person.
And this kind of human suffering is the most common thing in the world.
Although this kind of pain is incomprehensible to ordinary people, most people will still choose to come out of the pain and accept reality.
But there are also extreme people who indulge in the pain of losing a child.
And in many film and television dramas, we will see more radical people, who will clone or even resurrect people through technological means.
In the second part of "The Wandering Earth", Andy Lau's Tu Hengyu lost his daughter in middle age, always feeling that he owed his daughter and did not let her have a complete life.
So he has an obsession and wants to bring his children back to life.
In real life, there is also such a case.
The famous musician Bao Xiaobai lost his only daughter at the end of 2021.
But he has never been able to accept this reality, immersed in the pain of losing his daughter.
It wasn't until two months after his daughter's death that he accepted this reality and held a funeral for her daughter.
At that time, many people on the Internet said that Bao Xiaobai was too fussy.
This kind of white-haired person sending black-haired person is not only his case, he will not be so painful that he will not even hold his daughter's funeral, right?
But if you know Bao Xiaobai's experience and the relationship between him and his daughter, you can understand his thoughts.
Don't look at Bao Xiaobai is respected in the entertainment industry, his growth process is simply grown up in the eyes of others.
His father was famous and already had a family, while his mother was just an ordinary woman living on the streets of Taipei.
By chance, she met Bao Xiaobai's father.
Although she knew that the man in front of her had a family and had children, she chose to start in order to change the status quo.
In the end, she gave birth to twins, namely Bao Xiaobai and his brother.
In the later period, Bao Xiaobai's father became tired of her mother, and was even more unwilling to provide living expenses, so in desperation, her mother could only give the Bao Xiaobai brothers to others.
After Bao Xiaobai and his brother were adopted, although it was hard, they had a family.
At this time, he and his brother also began to stabilize, and gradually they did not need to look at the face of their faces, and they could support themselves.
Originally, he did not think that he could develop in the entertainment industry, but he never thought that his natural musical talent brought him to the music road.
In the later period, he also recognized his father, and had a better relationship with his father and other children.
Their eldest brother Bao Weiming has developed in the music industry, and under the leadership of their eldest brother, they have developed a world.
Among the three, Bao Xiaobai is more well-known.
He served as a judge for Super Girl and Happy Male in his early days, and he also has a distinctive character among the judges.
Especially in 2007, when he was Fast Man, he even wrote a poem with the name of each contestant.
It can be said that he not only has musical talent, but also is very elegant, so he has been liked and recognized by many mainland audiences.
However, Bao Xiaobai's hometown is in Taiwan, and there are still relatively few opportunities for development in the mainland.
After that, he returned to Taiwan for military service, and after the military service, the entire music scene was also greatly changed, and he also devoted more time to creation.
Since the shadow of childhood makes him pay special attention to children who want to develop in music, he is a gentle person.
Since he was a child, he did not have a complete family, so he did not choose a vigorous marriage after becoming famous, but married a wife outside the circle and lived a dull life.
After the two got married, they had a daughter, and Bao Xiaobai's name for his daughter was also very grounded, and he named her Inclusive.
On the one hand, I want my daughter to be broad-minded and tolerant from a young age, and on the other hand, it also shows Bao Xiaobai's attitude towards people.
Because he was not loved by his father and mother from an early age, he grew up in a foster family.
Therefore, he spent a lot of money to train his daughter and let her go to the best school abroad from an early age.
And tolerance did not disappoint him, his grades were particularly excellent since childhood, and he was even admitted to a well-known university in the United States.
Inclusive majored as a doctor, but she didn't think that her studies had not yet been completed, and she herself became ill first.
At the age of 19, before he could finish his studies, he became seriously ill.
Suffering from the disease, she could only temporarily put her studies on hold and return to Taiwan for medical treatment.
Bao Xiaobai suspended all his work and devoted himself to the life of accompanying his daughter to therapy.
At the beginning, the doctor recommended a bone marrow transplant, and Bao Xiaobai immediately went for matching.
At that time, the doctor gave the result of semi-matching, that is, not a complete match, but transplantation can also be performed, but the rejection after transplantation may be relatively large.
The situation was urgent and they couldn't wait for the right fit, so they took the risk to transplant.
The rejection after the transplant was particularly great, so although Bao Xiaobai underwent a bone marrow transplant, he was unable to save his daughter.
At that time, Bao Xiaobai was full of guilt, and his daughter became even more ill since this operation.
I was treated in the hospital for two years, and the cost was also quite expensive.
In order to provide the best treatment for his daughter, Bao Xiaobai sold all his properties in Taipei.
He wants his daughter to have the best medical conditions and accommodation, and even wants to buy the best ward for her in the hospital.
He has not worked for more than two years and is fully committed to his daughter's treatment.
In the end, two and a half years later, Tolerance left him dead.
So he really couldn't accept his daughter's departure.
At the end of 2021, inclusion left this world. But it was not until January 2022 that Bao Xiaobai accepted this fact and held a funeral for inclusion.
Later, he also published an obituary on his personal social account.
He said that his daughter's departure made him very painful, so he was depressed for a while and did not come out to announce the news to everyone.
At the funeral, he and his family hugged each other and wept bitterly, sending away his beloved daughter.
Bao Xiaobai once said:
The departure of his daughter was the most devastating thing for him.
Losing his daughter, he also lost the person he loved the most in this world.
Although her daughter has been studying abroad since she was a child, she has not had much contact with Bao Xiaobai, but she is very close to her father.
Whether it was the daily diet at school, including whether anyone chased her, she would tell her father.
So the relationship between father and daughter is very good.
This is also one of the reasons why Bao Xiaobai cannot accept the fact that his daughter is gone.
Bao Xiaobai did not appear at work for a long time after his daughter left, and it was only during this time that he and his brother were interviewed on the show.
And in the show, he once made the audience unrecognizable.
The previous Bao Xiaobai was handsome and handsome, with neat short hair. And when he appeared in front of the audience again, he was already full of gray hair, and his hair was already very long.
He told the audience that he often met his daughter's head before his death, and her daughter also liked to brush his hair, so he was reluctant to cut his hair.
And his gray hair is worried.
He said that after his daughter's death, he had accepted this reality and wanted to go back to work hard in order to forget the pain.
But he tried hard, but he did not come out of the pain of losing his daughter, so for two years, he was soothing his heart.
He said that when he was young, he had no parents and depended on his brother.
After growing up and having a daughter, he thought that he was no longer alone, but he never thought that life gave him a thunderbolt on a sunny day, making him accept the most painful white-haired person in the world to send a black-haired person.
In the eyes of the audience, Bao Xiaobai's attendance at the show this time is mostly a look away, but from his behavior, we can find that he did not come out of this reality.
Bao Xiaobai's brother said that at first, Bao Xiaobai went to chat with his daughter every two weeks, and he felt that her daughter did not leave him.
Later, he even made his daughter's ashes into a necklace and wore it on his body.
It seems that his daughter has always stayed by his side, and this way has gradually allowed him to come out of his low mood.
Although this way brought him out of the loss of his daughter, it is clear that he is still obsessed with his daughter's departure.
Bao Xiaobai has been in this state, and his family is also very worried, his brother has no choice but to let his son help persuade Bao Xiaobai to come out.
But at this time, Bao Xiaobai already had his own beliefs.
He even started his Ph.D., specializing in AI reconstruction technology.
Bao Xiaobai wants to rebuild her daughter's image through AI technology and let her live in the digital world.
As soon as his idea came out, it instantly caused an uproar.
Although everyone can understand his pain in losing his daughter, his obsession is something that many people cannot understand.
After all, the Sri Lankan people have passed away, and the living people should live well, not continue the second half of their lives for this obsession.
If his daughter knew that her father gave up his musical achievements for him to pursue a doctorate in AI technology.
Presumably she won't feel good either.
What do you think about this?
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