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Sun Li, as we all know, is a famous film and television star who has won the love and respect of countless audiences with works such as "Jade Guanyin", "The Legend of Zhen Huan" and "The Legend of Miyue". She not only has brilliant achievements in the entertainment industry, but also has active participation and contributions to public welfare. She has sponsored many underprivileged students to help them realize their dreams of studying.
Xiang Haiqing, we may not be familiar with, is a child from rural Chongqing, from a poor family and a mother who is sick and bedridden. From an early age, he was determined to go to university and change the fate of himself and his family. He once attracted Sun Li's attention and sympathy because of a documentary, which led to her funding for four years.
However, after Xiang Haiqing was admitted to university, he did something shocking and disappointing. He even wrote a 6,000-word letter accusing Sun Li of being too critical, not keeping his promises, and not sincerely helping him. He also made the letter public on the Internet, which exposed Sun Li to gratuitous slander and attack.
What the hell is going on here? Why did Xiang Haiqing do this? How did Sun Li deal with it? This article will analyze the background, causes, and impacts, and give personal views.
Background: Sun Li decided to fund Xiang Haiqing after seeing the documentary
In 2002, Chongqing TV broadcast a documentary called "Hope in the Mountains". The film tells the story of poor students in a mountainous area of Chongqing who are struggling to study. One of the students was Xiang Haiqing.
Xiang Haiqing was in the second year of high school at the time, his family only had an income of one acre and a half of land, and his mother suffered from severe rheumatoid arthritis. He wakes up at five in the morning to leave for school and returns home at ten in the evening. He often did not have enough to eat and did not wear warm clothes. In order to save money on books, he was even reluctant to use toothpaste.
Although Xiang Haiqing had a difficult life, he was very diligent and studious. He excelled, served as class president, and was respected and loved by teachers and classmates on campus. He had a big dream, that is, to get admitted to university, get rid of poverty, and let his mother live a good life.
This documentary attracted a lot of attention and moved after it was broadcast. One of them is Sun Li.
Sun Li was 20 years old at the time, preparing for her first TV series "Jade Guanyin". After seeing Xiang Haiqing's story, she was deeply touched and couldn't help but think of her past difficulties.
When Sun Li was 13 years old, her parents divorced, and she and her mother depended on each other. She was also a poor student, living on her mother's meager income and her own work-study. She also once had the same dream as Xiang Haiqing, wanting to change her fate through hard work.
Sun Li felt that she had many similarities with Xiang Haiqing, and she also understood his suffering and longing. She decided to help this poor and strong child so that he could continue his education and achieve his dreams.
So, Sun Li asked her mother Aunt Deng to call the program hotline and contacted Xiang Haiqing. She promised to subsidize Haiqing 500 yuan a month until he finished his studies. This is undoubtedly a blessing to Xiang Haiqing, enough for him to study with peace of mind.
After Xiang Haiqing received Sun Li's funding, he was moved. He doesn't know who sponsored him, only that it was a lady named "Sister Sun". He wrote a letter of thanks to Sun Li, expressing his respect and gratitude to his benefactor. He said: "I will study hard and live up to your expectations. ”
Reason: Xiang Haiqing became greedy and shameless after being admitted to university
In 2004, Xiang Haiqing successfully completed high school, but because of his unsatisfactory grades, he was not admitted to university. When Sun Li's mother and son found out, they did not blame him, but encouraged him to repeat his studies for a year. Xiang Haiqing was still competitive, and after a year of hard work, he was successfully admitted to Shanghai Fisheries University.
In September 2005, Xiang Haiqing boarded a train to Shanghai, where a new life awaits him. Shanghai, known as the magic capital, must be full of dazzling lights. Walking out of the station in Shanghai, Xiang Haiqing met his benefactor, who had been supporting him.
She turned out to be Sun Li.
The big star standing in front of Xiang Haiqing made him stunned for a while. In a shocked mood, he hugged Aunt Deng beside Sun Li tightly, crying so hard that he couldn't cry. His dreams for so many years have blossomed under the protection of these two women, and his excitement is overflowing.
Sun Li stood on the side and looked at this simple country boy with a smile, and her eyes were red. Regaining his composure, Haiqing looked at Sun Li again, and it turned out that behind him stood such a glamorous person.
The annual income of a star like Sun Li should be an amount that ordinary people can hardly reach in a lifetime. At this time, this realization gradually distorted his concept.
Aunt Deng took Xiang Haiqing to Shanghai Fisheries University and asked about his recent situation along the way. When I arrived at the school, I arranged everything for entering the school in detail, and bought him some daily necessities. Xiang Haiqing looked at Aunt Deng's kindness and enthusiasm, and felt a little uneasy in his heart. He felt he owed too much to these two women, and he didn't know how to repay them.
After Sun Li's work in Shanghai, she also came to Xiang Haiqing's school and met him. She said to Xiang Haiqing: "Xiaoqing, you have to study hard and don't live up to your own efforts and our help." You have to remember that you are an ambitious, backboned, capable person, you have to fight for your future, and don't let anyone look down on you. You have to believe in yourself and you will succeed. ”
Xiang Haiqing listened to Sun Li's words, and his heart was a little moved, but also a little stressed. He said to Sun Li: "Sister Sun, thank you for your concern and encouragement for me. I will definitely study hard, strive for graduate school, find a good job, and make you proud of me. ”
Sun Li smiled, patted Xiang Haiqing's shoulder, and said, "Xiaoqing, you don't have to give us anything in return, as long as you can realize your dream, we will be very happy." We just hope that you can live a healthy and happy life, and do not forget your original intention and goals. ”
In this way, with the sponsorship and care of Sun Li and Aunt Deng, Xiang Haiqing began his new life at Shanghai Fisheries University. He made a lot of new friends at school and participated in many club activities. He listens carefully in class and actively participates in discussions. He reads diligently in the library and also actively consults materials. He gets along well with his roommates in the dormitory and respects the privacy of others. He saves money in life and relaxes and has fun.
Xiang Haiqing behaved like an ordinary college student, living an ordinary and fulfilling life on campus. However, deep in his heart, there is a secret hidden by no one.
That is: he began to become greedy and shameless.
Impact: Xiang Haiqing wrote a letter accusing Sun Li of being too critical
In June 2009, Xiang Haiqing successfully graduated from Shanghai Fisheries University and was admitted to the graduate school of Peking University. This is undoubtedly a great achievement and honor for Xiang Haiqing. He finally realized his dream from childhood to adulthood and became a veritable high-achieving student.
After Sun Li's mother and son found out, they did not skimp on their blessings and praise. They called Xiang Haiqing to congratulate him and sent him a graduation gift. It was a copy of "The Complete Works of Lu Xun", with a message written by Sun Li himself: "Xiaoqing: Congratulations on graduating and being admitted to Peking University!" This is the result of years of hard work and is why we are proud and happy for you. I hope you can continue to maintain this state and continue to study and progress at Peking University. This book is my graduation gift to you, I hope you can draw the wisdom and spirit of Mr. Lu Xun from it, and become a person with thought, character and achievement. I wish you all the best and happiness! Sun Li. ”
Xiang Haiqing received gifts and messages from Sun Li, but there was no trace of gratitude and joy in his heart. He only felt that the book was too cheap and that this sentence was too hypocritical. He felt that Sun Li did not really care about him at all, but was perfunctory to him. He felt that Sun Li was not really helping him at all, but was using him.
Xiang Haiqing began to think back to his four years at Shanghai Fisheries University, and he felt that he was deceived and tortured by Sun Li. He felt that Sun Li had given him too little support to cover his expenses in Shanghai. He felt that the love Sun Li gave him was too fake and inferior to his relatives in Chongqing. He felt that Sun Li's expectations for him were too high, which put him under too much pressure and burden.
The more Xiang Haiqing thought about it, the more angry he became, and the more he thought about it, the more he hated it. He decided to vent his dissatisfaction and resentment to Sun Li. He decided to demand the compensation and remuneration he deserved from Sun Li. He decided to reveal his true thoughts and feelings to Sun Li.
So, Xiang Haiqing wrote a 6,000-word letter, accusing Sun Li of being too critical, not keeping his promises, and not sincerely helping him. The letter reads along the following lines:
"Sister Sun: Hello! I'm Xiang Haiqing, the student you sponsored me for four years. I have now graduated and been admitted to Peking University as a graduate student. I should have thanked you for helping me, but I couldn't do that. Because you helped me not out of sincerity, but out of hypocrisy. You have helped me not out of selflessness, but out of profit. You have helped me not out of kindness, but out of malice.
You may think that I am vexatious and ungrateful in saying these things. But I want to tell you that I have made all these statements justified and substantiated. I will tell you that the funding you gave me is too small to cover my living expenses in Shanghai. The love you gave me was so fake that it didn't give me any substantial help and support at all. The expectations you have given me are too high and do not take into account my actual situation and capabilities at all.
You may ask me, how much less funding have you given me? I'll tell you, you've given me a lot less funding! You only give me 500 yuan a month, which is simply not enough in Shanghai! Do you know? How high are the prices in Shanghai? How expensive are rents in Shanghai? How bad are the meals in Shanghai? Is Shanghai congested? Is the air polluted in Shanghai? How indifferent are the people in Shanghai? How hard did I have a hard time in Shanghai?
You may say that 500 yuan is already a lot, and you can live well in Chongqing. But you know what? Chongqing and Shanghai are two completely different places!