Zhang Yunhe: The doctor insisted that he would not live to be 50 years old, insisted on the "three noes", and lived with his wife until the age of 93. The doctor "condemned" his indifference. He was in his forties at the time.
In fact, Zhang Yunhe is no stranger to such "punishment". More than 20 years ago, a fortune teller said he would not live to be thirty-five, but he broke this "superstitious curse."
Today he received the "death notice" again, and he still does not believe in evil. When the couple was discharged from the hospital, they set up "three irregularities", broke the short-lived "curse", and lived lovingly with their husband until the age of 93.
What are the "three noes" between Jang Yoon-ho and his wife? How did the couple stay together until they were 90 years old? Also, what other longevity secrets do these two people have?
Zhang Yunhe and Zhou Youguang
35 years of "death curse"
At the beginning of the last century, there was a famous rich businessman in Suzhou named Zhang Wuling. Due to the accumulation of wealth from his ancestors, he not only owns good land, but also enjoys a good reputation in the field of education.
It is worth noting that Zhang Wuling is very active in women's education and even established a special girls' school. His thoughts were very clear at the time.
Under his education, the four daughters of the Zhang family are talented and handsome, and Zhang Yunhe is the second daughter. But in the first year, whenever Zhang Yunhe was mentioned, Zhang Wuling's heart always became nervous.
Because Zhang Yunhe was born prematurely, he came to this world at seven months. With his current health status, such a child may not have been raised, let alone more than a hundred years ago.
Zhang Wuling and the four major buffets
When Zhang Yunhe was born, he weighed less than four kilograms, his whole body was covered with wrinkles, and he looked very sad. What's more, he also encountered a dangerous umbilical cord wrapped around his neck, which hurt so much that his entire little face turned purple.
Fortunately, his grandmother firmly believed that her grandson would be fine and found many people to rescue Jang Yunhe. In the end, foreign and local means were combined, and finally "robbed" Jang Yunhe again.
However, congenital weaknesses are difficult to fix. Despite the best efforts of the family to take care of Jang Yunhe, he is still a child, physically fragile and almost blown away by the wind.
Later, Zhang Yunhe also laughed at himself: "Except for the developed brain, everything else is underdeveloped." In addition to being weak and sick, he often cried as a child.
Jang Yunhe cried when he had nothing to do in his ignorant years. He was the kind of kid who wasn't very popular.
But the grandparents felt very sorry for this grandson and loved him very much. No matter how sad she cried, he patiently cheered her up, afraid that her emotions would ruin her health.
Under such care, Jang Yunhe gradually grew up and became cheerful and loving. Especially when he found out that although his body was still thin, he was very smart and intelligent.
Therefore, people often compare Zhang Yunhe with Lin Daiyu. But Jang Yunhe doesn't like the analogy. He doesn't want to be full of emotion like Lin Daiyu, but wants to become a hero who hates evil like him.
Unfortunately, the pride in his heart does not change his weakness. When he was twenty years old, a fortune teller did the math for him.
The soothsayer looked at Jang Yunhe's birthday horoscope and confidently asserted that he would not live to be thirty-five years old.
However, Zhang Yunhe never believed in fate and was not influenced by the persuasion of fortune tellers, and calmly lived to be in his forties. But when Zhang Yunhe was almost fifty years old, he had to be hospitalized due to a serious illness.
When the doctor passed the exam, he regretted that he might not live to be fifty. But Zhang Yunhe, who was sentenced to death, is not afraid.
After being discharged from the hospital and returning home, Zhang Yunhe formulated the "three no's principle" for himself while taking care of his health, and persuaded his wife to formulate "three no's politics" and "three irregularities". ”。
Zhang Yunhe's so-called "three no's" are: first, don't blame yourself for other people's mistakes; Second, don't offend others with your mistakes; Third, don't punish yourself for your mistakes.
Although it seems that these three principles are not directly related to the body, regulating the state of mind, this is where Zhang Yunhe comes in.
Zhang Yunhe was born in a special period of change in China, and he has witnessed a lot of scarcity in his life, so he now understands the value of life better.
Despite the severity of his condition, he was able to quickly adjust his attitude to avoid additional problems caused by pain and the physical burden that his attitude entails.
Under the influence of effective treatment and a positive attitude, Zhang Yunhe not only successfully passed the 50-year-old mark, but also continued until his old age. She traveled with her husband Zhou Youguang for 70 years.
The secret of longevity for couples
Speaking of which, Zhang Yunhe was predicted by soothsayers to live less than thirty-five years old, which also has a special relationship with Zhou Youguang. Zhou Youguang is a master of language, and Zhang Yunhe is a match made in heaven.
It was 1932 and they were about to enter the wedding hall. The guardians of the Zhang family came to tell them fortunes. In fact, the soothsayer's original words were somewhat exaggerated, he believed that Zhang Yunhe and Zhou Youguang would not live to be thirty-five years old.
But the truth is that they are all rare people, and I am afraid that fortune tellers are all ahead of them. If you ask why they live longer, it's a good mindset.
Similar to Zhang Yunhe's "three noes", Zhou Youguang also has three principles for dealing with people, which he calls "three-self politics": self-reliance, contentment, and contentment.
Zhou Youguang
For Zhang Yunhe and Zhou Youguang, the "three-no-principle" and the "three-self policy" are not empty words, but the principles of being people that they seriously follow.
When asked about the secret of longevity, Zhou Youguang spoke proudly about his lifestyle.
Not only do work, rest, and healthy eating allow couples to live longer, but most importantly, they get less angry and save more energy for deep thinking. Zhou Youguang once said honestly: "Some people often quarrel and get angry over small things. I don't think it's necessary at all.
Nietzsche
This coincides with the first principle of Zhang Yunhe and the "Three Noes", and also represents their tolerance and generosity, as well as their indomitable attitude.
In addition, Zhou Youguang also said "three nothings", that is, no will, no anniversary, and no New Year. It may sound strange, but it is more suitable for the life of the elderly.
Whether it's thinking about the future or celebrating a birthday, it's inevitable that older people will feel tired. If you put too much thought into it, it is bound to cause harm and damage to your health.
Supported by these principles, Zhang Yunhe and Zhou Youguang lived a simple and peaceful life in their later years, but this does not mean that they are not interested in life.
After Zhang Yunhe died at the age of 93, Zhou Youguang often recalled the old life they lived together: "We drink tea in the morning and tea in the afternoon, sometimes weak tea, sometimes English black tea, sometimes coffee. ”
At that time, they were both octogenarians (90 years old), but the years they spent together did not diminish their love of life.
Although they can't just drink tea and chat due to age restrictions, it's still a calm and fun time for them.
They were able to walk together for many years in a very calm and happy environment. If we look back on their seventy years together, it's really enviable.
It has been 70 years since the case was committed
Zhang Yunhe and Zhou Youguang met in the middle of summer 1925, when Zhang Yunhe was 16 years old and Zhou Youguang was 19 years old. When the two first fell in love, they were both in their youth.
Their origin is that Zhou Youguang fell in love with Zhang Yunhe at first sight, but Zhou Youguang was deeply troubled by Zhang Yunhe's inner reserve.
In the fall of 1928, Zhang Yunhe gently accepted Zhou Youguang's persecution and made his first official date with Zhou Youguang.
Despite being in his seventies, Jang Yoon-ho was so impressed by the day that he even wrote an article to commemorate it.
Through Zhang Yunhe's text, we learned that it was an autumn evening, and Zhang Yunhe and Zhou Youguang took turns walking out of the school.
They did not hold hands, but kept their distance. They talked and laughed on the road, only the autumn breeze slowly approached with long and short hair.
It wasn't until night slowly fell that they finished reading Romeo and Juliet, and then took the opportunity to quietly hand over books and hold hands. There was no one else around at that time, but Zhang Yunhe was still scared and his palms sweated.
Zhou Youguang was afraid that Zhang Yunhe would be uncomfortable, so he took out a clean white handkerchief from his pocket and wrapped it between their hands to avoid direct contact.
A small handkerchief represents the darkness of the first love of youth, but it does not affect two hands holding hands for a lifetime. They couldn't predict the future then. Only they themselves know that they will officially become lovers.
Due to the age difference, Zhou Youguang will go to Hangzhou to teach after graduation, while Zhang Yunhe will continue his studies in Shanghai. For young people, facing a breakup after a relationship is very cruel.
Both of them are young and introverted. When they broke up, they didn't even dare to write to each other. They can't just silently love each other in their hearts.
Before their romance succeeded, the Japanese invaders provoked the "January 28 Incident" in Shanghai, and the situation became even more chaotic. For safety reasons, Zhang Yunhe moved to Hangzhou and was able to meet Zhou Youguang again.
The two dated for eight years before officially entering the wedding hall. A simple but refreshing wedding foreshadows their happy life, but this happiness is inevitable.
It is not that they have a bad relationship, but the Japanese aggressors are becoming more and more powerful, and the War of Resistance Against Japan has already begun. They already had a son and a daughter, but they had to take refuge with their little daughter.
During the war, they experienced not only the pain of migration, but also the loss of their daughter together. But no matter how miserable their lives were, they still maintained their literary character and followed Chinese culture.
After the end of the war, their lives returned to stability. After the founding of New China, Zhou Youguang was transferred to Beijing to participate in the development of Hanyu Pinyin and the simplification of Chinese characters, and Zhang Yunhe also lived in Beijing.
After years of turmoil and turmoil, chaos and disorder, or calm and tranquility, they all stood firm and had few disputes.
At the end of the last century, the couple took their second wedding photos, which were post-80s and post-90s. After Zhou Youguang received this painting, he wrote a sentence next to the painting: "Many lovers are not old."
Seeing this, Zhang Yunhe was greatly inspired by poetry and wrote this sentence: "The deeper you love, the more old love you have." These two words may seem simple, but they are the best expression of their lifelong friendship.
Unfortunately, time will not forgive. In late summer 2002, 93-year-old Jang Yoon-ho died for the first time, ending their relationship that had begun in midsummer. Faced with the sudden death of his wife, Zhou Youguang was deeply shocked, but unable to do anything.
Until 2017, Zhou Youguang also followed Zhang Yunhe and died at the age of 112. I hope that if there is an afterlife, this old couple who love each other can meet again and compose a love story.
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