We live in a competitive world where it's in everyone's nature to crave success and good treatment. However, some people often fall into a misunderstanding: their own ability is insufficient, but they do not want to admit it, but instead rely on others, worship God everywhere and ask Buddha, and try to change their fate by external forces. This phenomenon is becoming more common in modern society, but it is worth pondering.
First, let's analyze why some people would expect better treatment when they are incompetent. This is usually because people are influenced by social pressure and the media, who are indoctrinated with an unrealistic notion of success that only having a very high social status and wealth can be called success. So, regardless of their own reality, they began to pursue these illusory goals. This phenomenon is especially evident in the age of social media, where people often see the show-off and success stories of others, creating the illusion that they should have such a life themselves, regardless of their actual abilities and resources.
Second, we need to be clear about our capabilities and limitations. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and ignoring your own shortcomings will only lead to more frustrations and disappointments. As a wise man once said, "Know yourself better than the whole world." "Only by knowing yourself deeply can you find a path that suits you and realize your potential. If a person blindly hopes for better treatment and is unwilling to face his own shortcomings, then he is doomed to failure.
And hoping that others will go around worshiping God and praying for Buddha will only make people fall into a deeper dilemma. The act of praying to God and seeking Buddha has its cultural and religious background, but here we are referring to an act of relying on external forces to change one's destiny. This behavior is a manifestation of escapism that allows people to shift the blame to the gods or luck instead of taking responsibility for themselves. This mindset only makes people more and more negative because they can't really control their destiny and often feel frustrated and disappointed.
Instead of hoping for better treatment, it is better to take the initiative to improve your abilities and conditions. It takes effort and time, but it's the only way to succeed. First, conduct a self-assessment to understand your strengths and weaknesses. Then, set reasonable goals and plans to gradually improve your abilities and knowledge. At the same time, be patient and persistent, because success is often not achieved overnight, and requires constant effort and persistence. The most important thing is to believe in your own abilities and not give up easily, because inner faith is the key to overcoming difficulties.
Admittedly, sometimes luck also plays a role, but luck tends to favor those who have already put in the effort. Success is often accompanied by sweat and perseverance, not flukes and miracles. Therefore, if we just hope for luck and are not willing to put in real effort, success will always be out of reach.
In addition, we should understand that success is not necessarily social status and wealth. Everyone defines success differently, some believe that success is family happiness, and some believe that success is the pursuit of one's passions and interests. Therefore, do not blindly pursue outside recognition, but find what is truly meaningful to you and pursue it wholeheartedly. Only in this way can we find true fulfillment and happiness in life.
Finally, we need to learn to accept our limitations. Everyone has their own limitations and weaknesses, which is human nature. But it's these limitations and weaknesses that make us unique and inspire our creativity and drive to progress. If we blindly seek perfection and are unwilling to accept our own shortcomings, we will only allow ourselves to fall into unnecessary anxiety and self-stress. We must learn to accept ourselves and cherish our own characteristics in order to truly find inner peace and satisfaction.
In short, when one's own abilities are inadequate, it is unwise to hope for better treatment and hope that others will go around worshiping God and praying for Buddha. We should face up to our abilities and limitations, strive to improve ourselves, believe in our abilities, look for things that are truly meaningful to us, and accept our limitations. Only in this way can we go further on the road of pursuing success and good treatment.
In life, we often encounter difficulties and setbacks, but this does not mean that we should immediately seek external forces to solve the problem. Praying to God or relying on others may give us short-term psychological comfort, but in the long run, real change and achievement can only be achieved through our own efforts and determination. When we constantly seek external support, we often miss opportunities to develop our own abilities, make ourselves more and more dependent on others, and eventually lose our autonomy.
In addition, the hope of better treatment can easily lead to unrealistic pursuits. There are many stories of successful people in society, but these successes are often the result of years of hard work, not just luck or external factors. If we only see the superficial success without understanding the effort and effort behind it, it is easy to have a wrong idea that success is an easy thing. This illusion can lead us to blindly seek higher social status and wealth, while ignoring the values and meanings that really matter.
In addition, hoping that others will go around worshiping God and praying for Buddha can also lead to unhealthy competition and comparison. When we constantly compare our own success and treatment with others, we tend to fall into feelings of anxiety and jealousy. This competitive mindset not only damages our mental health, but also our relationships. Conversely, if we focus on developing our abilities and pursuing our goals, we will be better able to build positive relationships and grow and progress together.
Finally, we need to understand that everyone has their own unique path and destiny. The definition of success varies from person to person, and everyone has different dreams and values. Therefore, we should not blindly pursue the success of others, but find the path that suits us, explore our potential, and realize our dreams. Only when you pursue your own unique goals can you truly achieve fulfillment and happiness.
To sum up, when one's own abilities are insufficient, it is unwise to hope for better treatment and hope that others will go around worshiping God and praying for Buddha. We should face up to our abilities and limitations, strive to improve ourselves, believe in our abilities, look for things that are truly meaningful to us, and accept our limitations. Only in this way can we go further on the road of pursuing success and good treatment, and realize our dreams and goals. Don't get lost in illusory fantasies, but bravely embark on your own path to create your own bright future.