"Pretending to be a fool" is a kind of wisdom, a great pattern, and the highest state of life.
"Pretending to be stupid" is for their own ease, pretending to be stupid is to leave a way back for themselves, "pretending to be stupid" is to fulfill others while also achieving themselves, and "pretending to be stupid" is the embodiment of a person's atmosphere.
The so-called little clever, what he does, is transparent in front of wise people, but he can't see through it.
It's rare to be confused, it's rare to be confused. Big things are not confused, small things pretend to be confused, pretend to be stupid, is a kind of otherworldly freedom.
See through and don't say broken, have a number in your heart
Many things, just understand in your heart, do not necessarily have to break it.
Smart people may be quick to talk, but people who know how to pretend to be stupid will choose to see through and not say broken, and it is good to know something about someone.
Pretending to be a fool is actually a cautious attitude, and the ancients had clouds:
"Be sensitive to deeds and cautious in words, and sensitive to words and sensitive to deeds."
It took us a year or two to learn to speak, but a lifetime we learned how to shut up.
People, remember that calamity comes from the mouth, too many words will be lost, and when speaking, pay attention to proportion, so that there will not be too many enemies, just point to the end.
As for the truth and facts, just have a good idea in your heart.
Properly pretending to be a fool is more about retreating
It is said that in this world, there has never been a shortage of smart people, and more people who lack real wisdom.
Smart people may be smart for a while, while truly wise people will know how to strategize and know how to change themselves according to facts.
Those who only know how to express themselves and do not know how to converge will be greatly affected sooner or later.
Truly wise people have always silently accumulated strength in the dark, not showing themselves too much, but learning more from others.
Pretending to show weakness, in fact, is silent, silently working behind the scenes, improving yourself, and finding your own rhythm, which is probably "advancing by retreat" and accumulating your own ability.
To interact with people, you must know how to be humble, know how to cover up your edge, and know that the gun shoots the first bird, and a person who is too blunt will only ruin himself.
Appropriate pretending to be a fool can better reflect a person's true wisdom, find their own rhythm, according to their own way, to retreat into progress is the real realm, such a person will naturally harvest his own piece of the world.
Know how to play the fool to live calmly
In "Dream of Red Mansions", the shrewd and capable Wang Xifeng is a "hero in the fat powder pile".
He is decisive and ruthless, and is a hero among women.
However, her verdict was that "the organ calculated too cleverly, and mistook Qing Qing's life."
Wang Xifeng thinks he is smart, although he succeeds for a while, but after all, he is a little wisdom, and the result is often lifting a stone and shooting himself in the foot.
Su Dongpo was smart for a lifetime, but he was also mistaken by his cleverness.
After years of ups and downs, and after being repeatedly belittled, he finally understood that confusion is bliss.
When the youngest son was born, Su Dongpo said:
"May the child be foolish and reckless, and there will be no disaster to the secretary."
To be human, you must know how to play the fool.
The ancients said: "If the water is clear, there will be no fish, and if the person is clear, there will be no disciple".
People are too smart, they have no friends, and they are often smart and mistaken by cleverness.
Don't be too fine, too refined is easy to cause trouble. Know how to play the fool, do not obsessed with gains and losses, do not care about success or failure, and follow the circumstances, you can live your life calmly.
Be dashing in case of trouble, look at the world a little confused, and have no gains or losses in your eyes, you are a comfortable person in the world.
The ancients: those who know the time are Junjie!
Life, it is rare to be confused, know how to play the fool, grasp the proportions, in order to calmly!
Write at the end
The old man often said that people should learn to be content and happy, and people who know how to pretend to be fools should not only be more cautious in case of things, but also understand that they should think twice before doing things.
They are also more open-minded and more willing to pursue what they like.
Not wanting to get involved in those twists and turns, such people will live more freely and more satisfied.