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Wen 丨壹贰叁
Editor丨壹贰菁
preface
Independent women have always been full of love for life, and in these women's lives, they will choose a way that they think is comfortable to bring themselves physical and psychological pleasure.
Among the various methods, "using the hands" has become the first choice of many single women.
In the pursuit of stimulation, the use of hands has also brought comfort and pleasure to many women, but using hands is undoubtedly the most difficult to control among many ways to obtain happiness, and unreasonable use has also become a blade that harms women's health.
This method will not only harm women's physical health, but even distort the psychology of some women.
Self-soothing or self-harm?
The use of hands is common among men in the eyes of the public, and surprisingly it is also a very common thing among women. Even among today's women, more than 70% of women use their hands to achieve self-comfort.
But using your hands is not the best way to comfort yourself, but the most dangerous. Under the condition that the hormones in the female body are normal, excessive use of hands to achieve the purpose of seeking stimulation and orgasm will indirectly lead to the disorder of female hormones, so as to affect the health of the body.
Long-term use of hands for self-comfort, seeking spiritual and physical liberation can also lead to many diseases.
Gynecological diseases are one of the most common, first of all, aside from the bacterial infection caused by hand hygiene, the disorder of the lower body flora. Long-term hand solving can also lead to estrogen disorders, and even male hormones in women's bodies will be affected.
If there is no protective measures or hygiene measures in advance during the use of the hand, the slightest carelessness when the hand enters the lower body will lead to damage to the lining of the genitals and ovaries.
The female lower body is often in a humid environment, the wound is not easy to recover, and the infection becomes the final result. Small wounds over time can also cause very serious gynecological diseases, and the most serious may even further damage the female reproductive system.
For those little girls who have not yet experienced intercourse, the slightest carelessness with the hand will cause the hymen to be destroyed, along with other parts of the hymen.
In addition, in the process of using hands, constant friction will cause different degrees of stimulation to women's lower body, and women's urethral structure is shorter than that of men.
This also leads to women in the process of using hands are extremely easy to cause urinary tract bacterial infection, if not timely detection of serious medical treatment, will cause repeated infections of the urinary system.
In the process of finding orgasm with the hands, the female lower body also continues to contract at different frequencies, and the female genitals also maintain the same contraction frequency.
However, some women experience several orgasms in a short period of time during the process of using their hands, and each orgasm causes the frequency of genital contractions to increase. This can also easily trigger discomfort in the female genitals, which can lead to severe pain in the lower abdomen.
Hormonal changes caused by long-term use of hands can also affect a woman's mental outlook, and the flatness of hormones is often reflected in the face. Hormonal imbalances caused by excessive use of hands will make the skin lose its luster and lack of elasticity, and even appear spots, acne, wrinkles.
Heavy eye bags and dark circles also make women look very unenergetic and show a lost soul. In addition to the physical changes brought about by excessive use of hands, mental changes are also worth paying attention to.
Many young women seek excitement, and the extreme excitement caused by excessive use will also bring them extreme depression.
The mental state will also decline rapidly in a short period of time, and the physical and energy consumption will make these women feel extremely tired. All day long, you can't find a state, and even under this mental state, your memory will be damaged.
Some women will also have symptoms of "sleep disorder" after excessive use of hands, and excessive excitement after orgasm or the sense of loss and tension that has not reached the ideal orgasm will make it difficult for women to fall asleep and sleep disorders.
Even if you barely fall asleep that night, even if you don't do anything when the next night comes, you will also reappear when you fall asleep. My mind recalled all the details of what had happened the night before, and once again fell into insomnia.
For each woman, the causes of sleep disorders are also different. However, if this occurs after using the hand, it is necessary to withdraw for a period of time to avoid neurasthenia and become more fragile and sensitive.
In fact, self-comfort is a "just need" for many women, after all, for women now, pleasing themselves has become a very important thing.
Self-soothing is a common thing, and the mind looks at desire
Using the hands to meet the needs of desire is as normal for both men and women as eating. Using your hands is not all bad, and this act of pleasing oneself through self-soothing is often manifested in infants and young children.
Therefore, proper self-soothing is not much harm for an adult, but can get a lot of benefits. First of all, in the process of women's self-comfort, they can not only understand their own bodies better, but also improve the level of estrogen secretion.
When hormone secretion reaches normal values, women's sleep and skin conditions will be effectively improved. Dopamine produced by the body when excited also makes women's emotions more stable.
Especially for women who are overly stressed, moderate use of hands can release stress. Studies have shown that such a positive state of emotions can last at least twenty-four hours afterwards.
In the process of using the hands, it can also promote the expansion of blood in the female lower body and the blood flow in the pelvic floor muscles and reproductive organs. For adult women, the use of "hands" on the other hand can also arouse sexual desire. Using hands not only gives women enough satisfaction and sexual stimulation, but also effectively alleviates the symptoms of urinary incontinence in many women.
In the process of self-comfort, the physical consumption is also very large, a self-soothing that ends with an orgasm can even be worth climbing two floors, so self-soothing is also a way to help women consume physical strength and improve physical function metabolism.
After a long period of research, it has been found that as the age continues to rise, women's hormone levels continue to rise, which also leads to a stronger desire for sex.
When there is no outlet for catharsis, self-soothing is one of the appropriate methods. The survey results also clearly show that there is a situation of female use of hands in any country, and even this situation is closely related to women's educational level. The more educated women are, the more willing they are to try new things and the more they comfort themselves.
The possibility of self-comfort for women in a stage of education improvement will also be relatively increased by 2.15 times, which also shows that women with relatively high education level have a fuller understanding of sexual knowledge and themselves, can face their desires more intuitively and clearly, and use more scientific and effective methods to treat the arrival of desires, and use this to please themselves and enjoy pleasure.
These findings are positive for women to clarify the benefits of resolving desires for women's health, and positive results also bring more possibilities for women to understand themselves.
As long as the right method is used to solve the desire reasonably and moderately, then women will only become healthier and happier in the process.
How to be reasonable and prevent excessive use of hands
When it is found that excessive use of hands causes physical discomfort or mental discomfort, it is necessary to immediately begin to intervene in "using hands" to avoid the problem becoming more serious.
When abstaining from using the hands, you can first try to divert attention and divert the need for desire by being exposed to more external stimuli. You can divert your attention by reading books, traveling, and everything that can arouse interest, so as not to distract from sexual impulses.
You can also learn a little more about women, and understand your body better in order to reduce your desire for sex. In the process of self-comfort, you can also constantly give yourself psychological hints, telling yourself that this is not a shameful behavior and there is no need to deliberately exercise restraint. Excessive restraint is counterproductive, and only by truly accepting one's own behavior will one not take too much.
Just like Murphy's Law, the more you don't want to experience things, the more you tend to experience, driven by psychological effects, you will inadvertently do what you least want to do.
Stress is often the biggest reason why women want to use their hands, especially those who live alone. The catharsis and stimulation that comes with the body after orgasm often releases these stressed women.
This kind of stimulation often makes them ignore the low after the stimulation, but instead want to pursue the feeling of orgasm more to release the pressure of stacking up. Therefore, the most important thing is to learn to relax and reconcile with stress. Find other ways to vent stress, or talk to friends to achieve relief.
If these methods are not effective for you who have suffered from excessive hand damage, you must seek medical attention in time.
Withdrawal is not as painful as imagined, and the so-called withdrawal is only a means of excessive indulgence to cause physical damage, not to abandon all desires. For women, as long as it is reasonable and moderate, then the impact of sex and orgasm on women is often more beneficial than harmful.
summary
Sex is a very normal thing for women, and there is no need to be overly ashamed and afraid when facing sex. Facing it peacefully and exploring the pleasure brought by the body to the fullest is the happiness that belongs to women.
Self-soothing is not harmful to the body itself, and grasping a proper degree will make it healthier.