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"Go to the covenant with those who admired in your youth, and gather your children and grandchildren around when you are dying."
He met his wife at the age of eighteen and fell in love for sixty-three years, truly achieving from green silk to gray hair.
Living on a large flat floor with your children, you have to pick time to travel thousands of miles when you meet every day, and you can go through the door. There is no need to deliberately invite, as soon as the meal arrives, it will look like a family reunion and happiness.
And the reason why Gao Ming's life is the envy of everyone is not only because of the happiness and success of the small family he formed, but also because he grew up in an environment surrounded by love since he was a child.
«——[Love from green silk to gray hair.] ——»
At the age of seventeen, Gao Ming from Jiangsu was successfully admitted to a drama troupe in Kunming.
This is where Gao Ming first came into contact with his acting career, and it was also in this union that Gao Ming met the person who would be with him for the rest of his life.
The boy looks handsome, and has a bookish atmosphere on his body; The girl is tall and tall, and her bright smile is as warm as it was in early March.
At that time, the mood was just opening, and when he raised his head slightly during rehearsal, the unintentional touch of his eyes revealed the affection of young boys and girls.
Gao Ming was thrilled by Duan Ruifen, and Duan Ruifen also responded to Gao Ming's heartbeat, and the relationship between the two gradually deepened day by day. A year later, the two officially held hands and confirmed their relationship.
However, it is clearly stipulated in the drama troupe that it is not allowed to fall in love, and as long as it is found, the two of them must be thrown out together.
The two understood that the repertory troupe could bring them excellent opportunities for development, so they began to talk about "underground love" after discussion.
When his thoughts were unbearable, all Gao Ming could do was go downstairs to Duan Ruifen's dormitory.
After Duan Ruifen saw it, he walked downstairs to meet him, and then the two walked one after the other, with a long distance in between, but this was already the closest distance they could touch.
With such a cautious and careful mode of getting along in love, anyone who looks at it will not think that the two are in love.
But the good times are not long, and no matter how much attention the two people in love usually pay attention to getting along, they can't control the love for each other in their eyes. Those people in the drama troupe are not young people who have not experienced anything, looking at the bright love in the eyes of the two and the intentional or unintentional conversation between the two, they soon discovered the "underground romance" between the two.
The regiment leader did not understand the young man's thoughts, and immediately let the two break up. I thought that this pair of little mandarin ducks must be inseparable, and they would do everything in their power to preserve their love, but they didn't expect the words of the group leader to come out, and Gao Ming agreed.
Seeing that everyone agreed, although it was too crisp, they didn't say more.
But the hottest emotions of adolescence are so easy to extinguish. The two agreed on the surface and simply maintained a romantic relationship behind the scenes, but the mode of falling in love later was much more cautious than before.
After a long time, the two finally graduated from the cadet class and were finally able to make their relationship public. With deep feelings as the foundation, coupled with Duan Ruifen's liking with the Gao family's parents, the two soon entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, the life of the two is not rich, and even because of the addition of two children, the life of the family has become a little bitter, but this has not consumed the love between the two.
Treating his wife, Gao Ming has always maintained the hot and innocent love of his youth.
Even if he is old, he is willing to spend time creating romance for his wife, remembering to bring her a bouquet of flowers when he returns home, willing to cook delicious meals for his wife, and specially preparing flowers, preparing exactly the same couple clothes, and celebrating the golden wedding with his wife.
This kind of love that began when you were young but never lost in the long years is not something that everyone can have.
«——[·Bitter but warm little home.]——»
For a pair of children, he also fulfilled his responsibilities as a father well.
When the child is sick, he will take leave to go home to take care of the child, rather than leaving both children to his wife to take care of.
Even because his children are often sick, he often takes leave of absence from this matter, which has attracted many opinions.
Later, his wife had to quit her job in the drama troupe and go home to take care of the children, so that Gao Ming could devote himself more attentively to work.
But even if he is busy with work, Gao Ming will take time to accompany his wife and daughter, so that the two children can feel the care from their father.
With such a family atmosphere, the growth of the two children will undoubtedly not be a big problem.
Indeed, a pair of wise sons and daughters will grow up to do their own thing. The daughter became a screenwriter; The son was admitted to the General Political Repertory Troupe and walked the road that his father could not complete that year.
Not as calm, serious, and unsmiling as the stereotypical father, Gao Ming is a humorous little old man in front of his children, who will take his son to film together, and will also talk and laugh and fight with his son.
Compared to father and son, Gao Ming seems to be more willing to get along with children like friends.
Gao Ming also enjoys getting together with children. So in order to facilitate the meeting, he directly took out the savings he had saved after filming for so many years and bought a large flat floor with three houses in Beijing, just one for himself and his children.
When you live closer, it's easier to get together.
At every mealtime, a large group of people sat together, lively, and there were a few children around them.
Who wouldn't envy such a warm scene?
«——[·Rewarding career.]——»
Some people envy Gao Ming's happy family, and some people envy his successful career.
As an older generation of artists, being rated as a first-class actor naturally proves that Gao Ming has done something on the road to acting.
Since participating in his first movie "Black Cannon Incident" in 1986, Gao Ming has used his superb acting skills and excellent performance to present us one after another roles that are classic enough and deeply rooted enough, and he has won a lot of various awards.
Although it is light to say, behind the characters and awards, there are also clever tears and pains.
Recalling the movie "Kong Fansen" that made him popular, many people only know that this movie pushed Gao Ming's status in the entertainment industry up a lot, and even won him a total of six awards, including the Chinese Film Hundred Flowers Special Award.
But no one cared about the difficult shooting conditions at that time. Because he went to Ali, Tibet, to shoot on the spot, sometimes during filming, Gao Ming would not be able to breathe in because of his physiological reaction.
In the cold and high altitude, the cold is like a shadow. According to Gao Ming's recollections, it was common to be so cold at night that it was impossible to sleep. Even during the day, sometimes you will faint as soon as your eyes are dark.
But even so, he didn't think about giving up the role, just hid the fact that he fainted and didn't let his wife know.
«——[·Harmonious and happy family of origin.】——»
To say that Gao Ming is the luckiest thing is to be in a happy environment from an early age.
He was born in an ordinary family in Jiangsu Province, the second eldest in the family, with an older sister and a younger brother. In some multi-child families, the position of "second old" means that they are not valued and cared for, but Gao Ming has not experienced this.
His sister was especially nice to him and his brother and would wait for them to come home together every time after school.
When the brothers wanted to eat popsicles, my sister just smiled and teased them: "Shout sister, I'll buy it for you." "
When the brothers heard that there were popsicles to eat, they called out "sister" unambiguously, and the sister listened, turned around and went to buy a popsicle for each of them.
For Gao Ming, "family" has always been his most solid support.
When he was in school, Gao Ming was never a high-achieving child.
This also made him very distressed, learning is not good, want to go other ways but worry that it will not work.
You know, in those days, reading was considered the best path. Gao Ming is also worried that his decision not to go to school will be opposed by his parents.
Unexpectedly, after hearing Gao Ming's idea, the family did not accuse more, but considered it from many sides and finally agreed to his idea.
At that time, a drama troupe in Kunming was recruiting, and Gao Ming was quite interested in acting.
His family fully supported his idea of learning to act, encouraging him to be brave and do what he loved.
«——[·Epilogue.]——»
Whether it was when he was a child, or in love later, or the small family he set up later, Gao Ming achieved that his grandmother grasped the happiness that belonged to him, and with this happiness, he moved towards a more willing and better future.