On the evening of August 17, a recording of Li Min before her death went viral on the Internet, related to the dispute between her and the program team during her tenure as "The Voice of China".
She believes that The Voice of China's format is unfair and very rudely disrespectful to the dissenting mentors.
As soon as this incident came out, the reputation of "The Voice of China", which was once popular all over the country, was discredited and plummeted. The fact of the dark box operation behind "The Voice" has been successively exposed by Eason Chen, Jay Chou, etc., and also exploded a third place in the first season of "The Voice": Jike Junyi!
In fact, the collapse of Jike Junyi's personality has not been a matter of a day or two.
The character arranged by the program team for Jike Junyi is: an inspirational singer who came out of a poor mountainous area to repay his mother's kindness. The mentor and fans also added a lot of sympathy points to her character.
But as early as 2012, after she became popular in "The Voice", she was picked up: although she is a single-parent family, she is not very poor, she was already full of brand-name clothes and bags before her debut, and immediately bought a luxury car and mansion in Beijing after the fire, and even began her uncaring personality collapse, and even more and more brazenly showing off her wealth.
Although, the collapse of personality has long been commonplace and strange in your circle, such as Jin Dong, Jiang Yiyan, Zhang Zifeng, Zhai Tianlin, etc., who are set up as scholars, such as Wu Moufan, Li Moufeng, Luo Mouxiang, Li Moudi, etc. who are pure and big-boys.
Hegel said that existence is reasonable.
But is that really the case? Does the existence of such chaos really mean that it is reasonable?
I believe that anyone who asks the three positive views will give a negative answer. And after the collapse of their personality, they lost their former aura and glory, fame and status, which is the best proof!
Therefore, whether inside or outside the circle, doing a good job of people will always come first. And the really reliable people are those who dare to be responsible for their own personalities.
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Dare to take responsibility for the persona you have set up
Two days ago, the post-90s self-media entrepreneur Zorro published an article in his writing community called: "I chose a business model where one person can't make money if he collapses".
Someone asked him: Teacher Congee, your personality is very good in all aspects, three positive views, good character, positive energy, caring for the family and loving his wife, loving learning and growth, being good to employees, being responsible for students, in short, everywhere is good. But have you ever thought that this business model that focuses on your personal IP, once your personality collapses, won't this business model collapse with it?
Congee Zorro replied that this is both a character and a true representation of myself. It's really tiring to pretend to be a good person. But if you understand in your bones that this is good for yourself, that it must be done, that it is done naturally, and that it is done naturally, you will not get tired.
Choosing a business model where one person can't make money by setting up a collapse, on the surface, I chose a more difficult path, but in the long run it is a road that makes my life better, and the road that allows me to start and end well to the greatest extent.
A post-90s entrepreneur has to be admired for having such a high level of awareness. This is also a phrase that many business tycoons often say: do the right thing, do the right thing, do the hard and right thing.
Similarly, if a star does not have the consciousness to be responsible for the character he has set up, he must have the consciousness that all the glory after the collapse will be lost.
Why should celebrities be responsible for their own personas and practice them to the end?
Today is different. Today's status as a star is no longer the humble drama of ancient times, but the proud son of heaven who stands on the stage and shines and influences millions of people on the screen.
And people with such great influence must not only be responsible for their own career, but also for the fans who support them, and for all those who may be influenced by him. This shows the magnitude of his responsibility, and he must be an example for others!
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Dare to take responsibility for a person that you did not set up
Some people may say that most of the celebrities' personalities are set up for them by the company, that is the script, it has nothing to do with the stars themselves, who can live with a mask every day, how tired it is, and the collapse of human society is normal.
Indeed it is. For example, the "The Voice of China" program group that made Jike Junyi's debut is Starry Sky Chinese, the largest IP creator and operator in China.
I have to say that Starry Sky Chinese has something in the matter of creating IP. In addition to the well-known "The Voice of China", "This! It's street dance" and "Masked Guess" and other popular shows, which are run by them.
As the saying goes, starting a business is easy, but keeping a business is hard.
Creating a successful IP is relatively simple, under the premise of a certain capital operation, as long as it is interesting enough, it can trigger people's curiosity, sympathy, admiration, etc., and basically quickly harvest a wave of fan goodwill.
Unfortunately, they invested almost nothing in keeping IP. Only when there is a scandal does crisis public relations begin, trying to wrap a fire with a piece of paper. Both stupid and futile.
Can those celebrities who seem to passively choose their personalities rightfully push their mistakes onto the company? As an adult, they must take responsibility for their choices to the end!
As the poet Wang Guozhen said, since he chose a distant place, he only cares about the wind and rain.
In the same way, since stars have chosen to walk on the red carpet and stand on the stage, they have to make more efforts and efforts different from ordinary people to gain the recognition and respect of the world.
Even if it is difficult to maintain your own personality, you must grit your teeth and persevere, study hard, be positive, slowly get closer to your own personality, and eventually become the character itself.
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Dare to take responsibility for your collapsed persona
Some people jokingly ask, is there no character that will not collapse?
Some netizens ridiculously replied, there are, such as Wang Xiaofei's faceless character "As long as I am not embarrassed and embarrassed, it is someone else".
Jokes are jokes. Such a negative black and red character, but anyone with a slightly correct view will not take the initiative to choose. As the saying goes, evil is invincible. Even if the black and red character can be popular for a while, it will soon be disliked. In the long run, you still have to choose difficult but correct characters.
Character is perfect, but no one is perfect. As long as it is a human being, it is possible to do something that is not so right or even wrong because of its own limitations.
It is to take Jike Junyi as an example, the originally simple, filial and inspirational character has collapsed due to a series of events such as showing off wealth, personality, and emotional entanglements. Could it be that this is the end of her life? Is there no other way out?
Some. It's not too late.
We also know that many stars debut too early, read too little, are too impetuous, and because they are busy making money and have no time to learn and grow, etc., resulting in their knowledge, culture, cognition, moral level, etc., in fact, they are not worthy of his personality.
This is also why many celebrities choose to quietly withdraw from the circle when their careers are at the trough or even the peak of their careers, go abroad to study, concentrate on practice, and do more public welfare.
For example, Hu Ge, who was a little "lost" recently, rushed to the peak of his career after performing "The Legend of Sword and Fairy", but chose to go abroad for further study due to the major blow caused by a car accident and disfigurement. His "mourning" has always been because he knows what he wants, in order to return full of blood again!
There is also Jin Shijia, who became popular in "Love Apartment", did not strike while the iron was hot to act in more works and earn more money, and also chose to go abroad for further study. As he said: I may still be that little tree stump, where I can't see, the roots under me are more and more solid!
This also shows that they know that even if they make more money and gain more fame and fortune, if they are not worthy of the position, their cognition is not in place, and their roots are not deep enough, these things obtained by chance will eventually be lost.
Therefore, even if the personality collapses, as long as there is an attitude of being responsible for the collapse of one's own persona, the determination to correct mistakes, the courage to start again, and the perseverance to defy difficulties, there is a possibility of creating brilliance again!
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Dare to stick to your own personality for a long time
Are there no reliable people in your circle?
The answer is yes. No matter what circle you are in, there are people who cherish their feathers.
In addition to the above-mentioned Hu Ge and Jin Shijia, there are many excellent stars who are insisting on their own personalities, and even constantly improving their personalities.
For example, Li Jian, who is known as the wandering poet in the flashy world. He finished reading all of Yu Hua's books, and in order to get Yu Hua's signature, he personally went to the signing site to line up. Finally, he became friends with Yu Hua. Some netizens laughed and said: As soon as he opened his mouth, I knew that he was going to persuade me to read more. Some netizens said that he was really using actions to remind me to read more at all times.
For example, Yu Entai, who played Xiucai in "The Legend of Wulin", once won a scholarship from Oxford University in the United Kingdom, was a doctorate in directing at the Shanghai Theater Academy, and then studied for a doctorate degree at the Central Academy of Drama. He is a real scholar character, whether in the play or in reality, he has always stood tall.
Of course, there are many more. Such as Stephen Chow, who has been from a laughing actor to a powerful director, such as Leung Ka Fai, a film actor who is insulated from scandals and is loyal to only one person in his life, such as Michelle Yeoh, an Academy Award winner known as the modern "Mulan".
In them, they all exude the best brilliance of human nature. They did not live as characters, but as themselves! Their spirit is worth learning from all stars like Jike Junyi, and even more worthy of all of us, and finally becoming a truly reliable person.
Written by Kimi
Edit: drizzle