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Papro's monologue
Editor|Papro's monologue
Zhao Benshan has two daughters, the eldest daughter Zhao Yufang and the youngest daughter Zhao Yihan.
Although the two people are both genes of Zhao Benshan, they can be said to be one in the sky and one in the ground, living completely different lives.
A dragon and phoenix fetus that did not show up
After Zhao Benshan divorced the original partner, he gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses with his new wife. The boy's name is Zhao Yinan, nicknamed "Niu Niu"; The girl's name is Zhao Yihan, and her nickname is "Niu Niu".
From childhood to adulthood, Niu Niu and Niu Niu have gained 100% love from their parents.
They live in luxury villas and have the best food, clothing, and housing.
However, neither child liked to read, and his grades were worryingly poor.
Although Zhao Benshan was not very satisfied, he still let them eat, drink and have fun.
Among them, the girl is even more arrogant and indulgent, and everything is the best.
She only scored twenty-six points in the exam and didn't care, and Zhao Benshan often took her to visit companies and show variety shows.
Niu Niu gradually became addicted to wealthy life and the entertainment industry, and no longer cared about her studies.
Niu Niu wants to buy hundreds of thousands of brand bags, and Zhao Benshan satisfies her.
In order to ask for the idol's signed photo, Zhao Benshan also contacted him personally, completely regardless of the cost.
Rack your brains to mix up the entertainment industry
When she grew up, she also wanted to enter the entertainment industry, and she tried to be a singer and actor.
But all ended in failure.
Later, she became an Internet celebrity, opened a live broadcast and began to sell goods to make money, but the live broadcast content was all showing off her wealth.
He often took out expensive clothes, bags, and food to show, and said that he spent nearly 10 million on plastic surgery.
This style caused disgust among netizens and also led to her dismal sales.
What's even more ironic is that Niu Niu often shows romance in live broadcasts.
Her boyfriend is very unorthodox, looks more delicate than a girl, and eats soft rice all day.
The two often quarrel over trivial things, and show affection and reconciliation.
Once, after Niu Niu quarreled with her boyfriend, she actually broke out on the live broadcast: The two have only been together for 3 months, and it cost her 25 million yuan!
Niu's jaw-dropping extravagance made the audience shake their heads. Zhao Benshan and his wife also had a headache about this, but they were helpless.
On the other hand, the daughter born to his ex-wife is simply not much stronger!
A self-reliant life
Zhao Benshan's ex-wife Ge Shuzhen lived a very frugal life after leaving Zhao Benshan with her daughter Zhao Yufang.
Zhao Yufang washes dishes in restaurants during the day to earn money, and also works odd jobs everywhere at night.
As long as you can make money, you will do it, and the income from hard work will be used for the life of the two mothers and daughters.
Ge Shuzhen always warned her daughter that she must not ask Zhao Benshan for a single point.
Zhao Yufang was admitted to university with her own efforts and found a decent job after graduation.
Never used the father's influence relationship, everything on his own strength.
In terms of feelings, Zhao Yufang rejected many candidates from wealthy families introduced to her by Zhao Benshan.
"I'm just an ordinary person, and I know in my heart whether I deserve it or not"
She chose mundane objects that matched.
Even if Zhao Benshan opposed, she insisted on her choice and lived a simple family life.
She said:
"My dad is not ordinary, but he is not good to my mother..."
"Let's divorce..."
In May 1991, the weather had just warmed up.
In addition to his busy work, Zhao Benshan made a rare trip back to his hometown.
Since he became popular, he has not returned to visit his wife Ge Shuzhen and two children for a long time.
That time home, Ge Shuzhen was very happy, and she carefully prepared a table of delicious food.
After the children finished school, the family finally reunited and had a warm reunion dinner.
After eating, Zhao Benshan quietly called Ge Shuzhen to the bedroom.
Ge Shuzhen vaguely understood what would happen next.
Zhao Benshan took out a passbook, which contained all the savings he had worked hard to accumulate over the years - 250,000 yuan.
He also took out the property title certificate of the three-bedroom house and the license of a car, and handed them all to Ge Shuzhen.
"Shuzhen, it's not interesting for the two of us to live like this anymore, it's better to divorce and each of them to be happy."
Ge Shuzhen had long expected the arrival of this day, and after a moment of silence: "What about the children?"
"I also want to take one, but I'm too busy with work now, I really can't take care of it, or you take it, I'll pay the alimony."
Zhao Benshan also had nothing to take away, and after hugging the children, he left in a hurry.
12-year-old Zhao Yufang cried and hugged her father who was leaving: "Dad, don't go, don't want us." ”
Although Zhao Benshan felt a pain in his heart, he only told his daughter to help her mother take care of her brother, and quickly left the house after speaking.
When Ge Shuzhen was washing dishes alone in the kitchen, tears had already flowed all over her face...
After Zhao Benshan and his ex-wife Ge Shuzhen divorced, they have not been in a hurry to find a new love.
A new love that arrives unexpectedly
He feels that he is still young, his career is on the rise, and he does not want to be too bound by family life.
During the Spring Festival in 1992, Zhao Benshan encountered a serious car accident on his way to Daqing's performance.
Two ribs were fractured, his right wrist was severely bruised, and he had to lie in the hospital for a long time.
It was at this moment that Ma Lijuan appeared.
After Ma Lijuan heard the news of Zhao Benshan's car accident, she rushed to the hospital as soon as possible.
Finding that he was alone and left unattended, he decided to stay and take care of Zhao Benshan personally. Ma Lijuan carefully served him in the hospital and took care of him properly.
In the relationship between the two in front of the hospital bed, Zhao Benshan was completely moved and determined to enter into marriage with Ma Lijuan.
But it turns out that their children can be said to be the failure of Zhao Benshan's life.
Two daughters who are worlds apart
Zhao Yufang is rich enough to face difficulties; And the girl is luxurious on the outside, but empty inside.
Zhao Benshan has achieved high career achievements, but he also has to reflect on the issue of his daughter's education.
He appreciates Zhao Yufang's independent quality more, and also sees the problem of Niu's indulgent upbringing.
How to cultivate children's independence without arrogance is a question that every parent should ponder.
In life, we should not overemphasize the advantages and disadvantages of conditions, it is important to focus on the heart. As long as you know how to experience the fun of doing things, you can live happily.
Zhao Yufang has accumulated rich inner qualities with an ordinary life, which is where she is superior to Niu.
Their growth process is worth reflecting, do not be stumbled by the external environment, and live a positive life in any environment.