In the entertainment industry, there are many fans who have successfully married their idols. On the surface, they seem to have achieved a happy life that everyone envies. But is that really the case?
Marrying the idol in your heart, for countless girls, is like picking off the stars in the sky and making your dream come true. They don't think much about how they will spend their married lives.
Life after marriage will be different from what you imagined, and even with wealth and beauty, happiness is not guaranteed. After all, not everyone can enjoy the happiness and sweetness of a family of three like Kunling and Jay Chou.
Even though Lisa Jiang seems to have achieved success in chasing stars, her life is actually a mess.
Successfully chasing stars and indulging in before marriage, but after marriage, he was forced to give birth by his idol husband, and he had four cesarean sections in just five years, which is really embarrassing, and it is difficult to imagine that a man would do such a thing.
She was sixteen years younger than her husband, but now she has become a woman with a bleak face. What exactly did she go through to cause such a change?
The birth of the ultimate "love brain"
Lisa Jiang, as Miss World Bikini Universe, showed her widely recognized tall and beautiful side, posting a set of photos on recent social platforms.
She is thirty-seven years old in the photo, tall and slender with long legs. She is dressed chic, cute, like a young girl, full of energy. However, who would have predicted that this beautiful woman would be a complete love maniac at a young age?
However, it seems understandable for a young girl in her early twenties.
For the rhetoric of the old man "Chen Haomin", coupled with the fan filter, it is impossible to compete with him. However, it's too late to regret it.
Lisa Jiang is a truly excellent student, after graduation, she chose to study in France and was successfully sent to graduate school in fashion design. She once said:
I aspire to create my own personal brand, where outstanding models from all over the world can showcase my clothes and add glory to the country and Hunan.
Her love for her work at the time was extremely pure, and I firmly believe that. Unfortunately, when she met Chen Haomin, that goal had become out of reach.
At a friend's party, she met the high-profile star Chen Haomin. This girl, who grew up following his film and television works since childhood, was seduced by his painstaking gentleman image and immediately fell in love with him.
Chen Haomin told her, if you have a hard time abroad, then don't go back, stay with me, I will take care of you.
"The King of Comedy" has become a well-known movie, and one of the lines "I raise you" has made many girls fall in love, and Lisa Jiang is no exception.
She had already found a stable job abroad, and she faced a struggle, both in love and in her career: whether to give up the career she had worked hard to learn for decades.
However, although humans can plan and predict, sometimes fate is far more arranged than our calculations. Having not experienced menstruation for a long time, she suddenly realized that she was pregnant, a fact that she inevitably had to face.
Nowadays, "marrying a son" has become very common, especially when the woman shows weakness, which often leads to the contempt of the man for the woman after marriage. Chen Haomin exposed this problem shortly after he got married.
Lisa Jiang is immersed in the joy of becoming a mother, but Chen Haomin asks her to stay at home and be a wife full-time. Jiang Lisa agreed without hesitation, but she did not realize that Chen Haomin was just treating her as a pleasure.
Since Chen Haomin's debut, he has been involved in countless scandals, almost everything.
He frankly said in an interview that he has personally experienced what he should do and play for more than forty years, and even married just to pursue novelty, which can be described as a pioneer in the scumbag world!
Even more resentful was that he let his wife give birth to four children in five years. I really can't help but ask, does your family have a throne to inherit?
The married life of the "magic barrier"
Her husband "Lisa Jiang" lost herself, so she attributed all the glorious hashtags to herself on social media.
She is not Chen Haomin's wife, let alone regarded by the public as a "fertility tool", she sees herself as an independent individual and lives for herself, but is ultimately defeated by reality.
In the family, Lisa Jiang gave everything without complaint, but in her husband's heart, this dedication was taken for granted.
In public, he not only did not show deep love for his wife, but also had a somewhat contemptuous attitude.
Chen Haomin was once interviewed by a reporter and asked to describe what kind of person his wife was, and his answer was indescribable.
Chan believes that his wife is a very fertile woman. She has nothing else to do at home all day and only focuses on having and caring for children, and the cycle never ends. She even said she wanted to have another child.
These words not only deeply stung Lisa Jiang's heart, but also triggered the bitter feelings of full-time wives, but also revealed the true portrayal of many families in China - women's lack of financial resources means losing the right to speak.
Lisa Jiang smiled before marriage, but after marriage, she faced unspeakable suffering, and was used by her husband as a means of arousing sympathy.
When Chen Haomin was about to usher in his first child, the news of cheating during pregnancy came out, and many Hong Kong and Taiwan artists came out to criticize him. Just when his career was facing a serious crisis, he used his wife and children as shields.
Despite the pressure of public opinion, he still did not care about his soon-to-be father's wife and insisted on bringing her to the press conference venue.
They both shed tears, hoping to be forgiven by the victims. This is as touching as the real-life version of the "crocodile" in tears.
You are so content to hurt that innocent little girl, why can you be so ecstatic? As the saying goes, Skynet is restored, but not missed.
Six days later, after the press conference, Lisa Jiang welcomed the birth of her lovely daughter. Chen Haomin couldn't wait to take photos for the family of three, sharing his joy with everyone, and hoping to erase the negative reports of the previous period through this happy news.
Their second son died less than two years later, and this cute little creature also came into the world through a cesarean section.
Lisa Jiang continued to usher in the birth of three daughters one after another, but she did not complain, and even bluntly said in the show that the reason why she had so many children was to firmly bind the heart of the unruly "prodigal son".
The woman who used to think that she "lived for herself" was eventually tormented by marriage and suffered serious psychological distress. She knew that her husband often cheated on her, but she had to endure it again and again.
When Chen Haomin was considering having a fourth child, he finally chose to compromise. They have been married for just five years and have already had four children who have had a caesarean section.
As the mother of a child, she should understand the existence of danger, right? This is not only irresponsibility to children, but also contempt for one's own life.
When she reappeared, it was puzzling whether it was necessary that she looked older than her forty-six-year-old husband, who was only thirty years old.
What young man listens to it and is not afraid of marriage and childbearing? After all, it is too hard to even give birth to four children without resting, and to take care of the elders and children at the same time.
Lisa Jiang never disturbed her husband's work too much, and she knew that as long as her husband had time, he would definitely come to her.
Lisa Jiang usually turns a blind eye to minor choices.
Lisa Jiang's performance can undoubtedly be called an excellent assistant, so unequal relationships will naturally lead to contradictions.
Lisa Jiang once told her heart in a variety show, she felt that it was difficult to find a balance between life, family and children, and completely lost her sense of personal existence.
However, when the wife cried, the scumbag simply said: Having so many children is so that I can accompany you after I die. Why didn't he mention that these four children were all brought up by his wife alone?
Years of getting along with each other has finally made Lisa Jiang realize the true magic behind the idol she once worried.
Careers are booming
Chan Haomin was once popular in the Hong Kong entertainment industry after the 90s, but time is not spared, and now his career is far less than that of some unknown 18th-tier starlets.
Chen Haomin recently took to social media to actively promote his new film "Dali Wind and Cloud Butterfly", a lower-cost online movie.
Despite the rough picture and poor acting, bad films like this are emerging one after another, so it is a blessing to be able to win the title of "King of Bad Movies".
Chen Haomin's career suffered a major setback, but at the same time, his wife Lisa Jiang's career was thriving.
After three years of the epidemic, Chen Haomin, who had already reduced the number of appointments, faced a more difficult situation, and the family was burdened with four children and felt breathless.
According to reliable sources, Chen Haomin's house has been changing frequently, which shows that the plight of their family is self-evident.
In order to make a living, the clever and witty Lisa Jiang cleverly used her and her husband's popularity to embark on the road of live sales, and unexpectedly, this path really played to her strengths.
Chen Haomin is getting older and can no longer find acting, so as a woman with an economic foundation, she has become more confident. Now he helps his wife take care of the family at home and thinks about his livelihood.
Lisa Jiang's reputation has become increasingly prominent, and she even once ranked in the top three of the "celebrity goods list" and became a million-level Internet celebrity.
Then, all kinds of endorsements and advertisements followed, and the status of the family jumped up, and finally I was able to look forward to it.
During the live broadcast, in addition to pulling my husband to help, I also publicly criticized him in front of netizens as a "gluttonous and lazy" man, and even complained that the meals I worked hard for him were also disliked by him.
After Lisa Jiang had financial support, she became confident, and she unreservedly expressed her past grievances, which Chen Haomin could not deny.
Although the financial power of the mother-in-law is now completely controlled by the daughter-in-law, this is after all the result of the rotation of feng shui.
In a live broadcast, even Chen Haomin's vice was still the same, molesting female fans in public, and was discovered by Lisa Jiang. And this time, she is no longer as silently patient as in the past.
Curse angrily: This family can be forgotten, but it doesn't matter, I don't have to want you!
Jiang Lisa was indeed able to support four children after leaving Chen Haomin, and no longer needed to worry about the attitude of others.
Years have passed, and Lisa Jiang has finally regained her true self. Isn't it good to be a financially independent and free beauty? Young girls must not let love lose their minds.
Epilogue:
We can clearly feel the importance of mastering "economic power" from Lisa Jiang's marriage. In a real family, women cannot be too dependent on men and also need to have their own careers, otherwise it will only be thankless.
When encountering a scumbag like "Chen Haomin", this unfair relationship will only lead to self-loss, live like a puppet, and the effort will be devalued to nothing.
When choosing a partner, it is hoped that all girls will remain alert to ensure that they can build a truly happy and happy family.