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The actor's smart face has long become a living signboard in the entertainment industry.
In 1996, Gao Ming's name resounded with the movie "Kong Fansen", and since then he has embarked on a long and brilliant road to acting. In the industry for decades, Gao Ming has appeared in more than 200 film and television works, and has won countless awards.
Now he is old and old, he is recognized in the circle as an old artist with both virtue and art.
He has made great achievements in his career, and his love life has naturally attracted much attention.
Today, let the editor take you into the romantic emotional past of actor Gao Ming.
A dream of acting
Gao Ming was born in Jiangsu in the 40s of the last century.
Speaking of which, his family does have a very strong artistic atmosphere. In that era, when there were few recreational activities, my father, who studied art, was very prescient and sent Xiao Gaoming to study Peking Opera early.
Gao Ming, who grew up in such an environment, has had an extraordinary interest in performing on stage since he was a child, but learning drama is too hard for him, and the master's severe rebuke and cruel punishment make him unbearable, in order to let Gao Ming grow up healthily, his father eventually took him out of the theater class.
Later, Gao Ming transferred to a cultural school, but due to his weak foundation, he often hovered on the edge of repeating grades.
Gao Ming has little interest in the boring theoretical knowledge in the classroom, but he always thinks that he will be able to perform on stage again one day.
At that time, the open-air movies that were played in turn in various townships and counties became the only way for Gao Ming to get in touch with performance, and every time he saw the touching storyline in the film, Gao Ming's heart would be very moved, dreaming that one day everyone could also be fascinated by his performance.
Perhaps the seed of the dream will quietly germinate in Gao Ming's heart from this moment, and when the time comes, this small bud will become a towering tree in the literary and artistic world.
When he was in high school, Gao Ming was fascinated by literary novels and memorized a novel called "Daji and His Father" in the popular magazine "New Observation" at the time.
In order to enter the stage of Chao Si Twilight, in 1959, Gao Ming gave up the opportunity to participate in the college entrance examination and applied for the Kunming Military Region Repertory Troupe as a literary soldier.
In the examination room, what Gao Ming recited in the talent show was the "Daji and His Father" that he memorized backwards.
A year later, Gao Ming was successfully admitted to the Kunming Military Region Repertory Troupe. Here, he was exposed to systematic learning and professional training on stage performance for the first time, and finally had the opportunity to continue his dream.
Gao Ming regards this opportunity as a treasure and puts 100% enthusiasm into every rehearsal. In his spare time, Gao Ming does not socialize with other members of the troupe, but puts all his energy into observing and learning performances.
Gao Ming, who is highly professional, also received olive branches from other girls in the troupe, but he chose to decline.
A love affair at first sight
But when he was 17 years old, a new girl named Duan Ruifen came to the troupe, which completely changed the trajectory of Gao Ming's life.
Duan Ruifen looks bright and generous, has a slim figure, and is a Tuanhua-level figure.
Since Gao Ming first met Duan Ruifen, he had a deep affection for her, but he never had a chance to confess.
Once, the two played against each other on the stage, and the moment their eyes met, Gao Ming's brain was blank, and the lines he had memorized before disappeared in an instant. This brief loss of concentration almost caused a stage accident, and Gao Ming was fined thousands of words for review afterwards.
Unexpectedly, it was this mistake that made Duan Ruifen feel twice as good about Gao Ming, and she unexpectedly felt that Gao Ming's red ears on the stage were very cute.
Since then, the two have often been together, and the members of the troupe can often see them standing side by side in the rehearsal hall and canteen.
One of the two is a big girl who has just opened her love, and the other is a young man with square blood, and they soon came together.
But soon, the relationship between the two ushered in the first test.
For a long time, the troupe explicitly forbade actors under the age of 25 to fall in love, and Gao Ming and Duan Ruifen, who had just reached adulthood, were obviously not allowed to fall in love.
There is no impermeable wall in the world, and the news of the love between the two soon reached the ears of the superior leaders. Gao Ming was severely punished for this, but he was still willing to risk being expelled and fall in love with Duan Ruifen.
The leaders of the regiment repeatedly approached Gao Ming to talk to him and advised him bitterly: "How can your revolutionary will be so unfirm, it is really a waste of your acting talent." If you want to stay, you have to promise in front of everyone that you won't talk about it again. ”
Gao Ming patted his chest in front of the leader and promised that he would never fall in love again, but in front of Duan Ruifen, he changed again.
It turned out that they had discussed it in private for a long time, and in the future, they would remain "single" in front of everyone and engage in "underground love".
In this way, the two carefully fell in love for 7 years and hid from everyone.
It was not until 7 years later that the two graduated from the cadet class that they finally made the news of their relationship public again.
In that era, engaging in "underground love" was actually a very risky behavior, so Gao Ming has always been very grateful to Duan Ruifen for his willingness to unconditionally support him and choose himself.
And it is this kind of trust and tacit understanding that makes them never think of giving up this hard-won relationship in the long years together, no matter how difficult they encounter.
Mixed feelings of married life
In 1972, Gao Ming and his wife registered their marriage, and classmates who had not been optimistic about them came to congratulate them, and even the leaders of the drama troupe sent them wedding gifts.
At that time, Gao Ming and his wife were both assigned to Xi'an Film Studio as actors, and the combined salaries of the two were 90 yuan, which was naturally not low in the past.
The married life of the two was very sweet, and it didn't take long to usher in the crystallization of love.
The couple named their daughter Gao Tian, and a year later they gave birth to their son Gao Liang.
The arrival of the two little guys made this originally happy little family more complete, and the neighbors said that the Gao Ming couple had both children and made up a "good" word, which anyone envied.
Although the Gao Ming couple is also immersed in the joy of becoming a new parent, they need to face the problems brought by reality.
The couple are busy performing, who will take care of the children?
At that time, many relatives and neighbors persuaded Duan Ruifen to give up her job and become a housewife at home, but Gao Ming knew that acting was also his wife's dream, so he did not let his wife give up her career, but chose to hire a nanny for the children.
The salary of 90 yuan per month for the two people is not only to meet the basic expenses of life, but also to pay the nanny, there is no money left.
"At that time, I paid her salary at the beginning of the month, and I asked her to borrow money at the end of the month."
Recalling the hard years at the beginning, the smile on Gao Ming's face was obviously a little more bitter.
Although life is difficult, the family has never had conflicts because of this, and always faces life optimistically.
They lived like this for more than ten years, until Gao Ming was promoted two levels in a row because of his outstanding performance, and his salary rose from the original 45 yuan to 78 yuan, and the family's situation improved.
When he reached middle age, Gao Ming made a decision that surprised all his colleagues, he wanted to switch to film and television.
I have been a stage actor for most of my life, and now I suddenly want to turn to the screen, is it really okay to be smart? In the process of Gao Ming's transformation, the voice of doubts has never stopped, and only his wife still stands on Gao Ming's side without hesitation as she did a few years ago.
Although Gao Ming at this time had achieved great results in stage plays, he could only take on some supporting roles with few scenes in the crew at first.
However, Gao Ming never cared much about these false names, he just interpreted each character conscientiously, cherished every opportunity, read every line well, and constantly polished and improved his acting skills.
After a period of accumulation and precipitation, Gao Ming finally emerged in 1993's "Optimus Prime", with which he won a number of film and television awards that year.
Since then, many large crews have thrown olive branches to Gao Ming, but Gao Ming, who keeps about the film, has never lost his heart in the flowers and applause.
Before signing a contract with the crew, he will carefully study the script and select the right role for himself.
Before filming the movie "Kong Fansen", Gao Ming had long seen an interview in the newspaper about the director's casting criteria, and he had already had experience in playing excellent party members and cadres before, so at that time he had a very strong premonition that the director would find himself to play the role of Kong Fansen.
Sure enough, Gao Ming received a call from the director a month later, inviting him to audition Kong Fansen.
To be honest, playing Kong Fansen made Gao Ming feel pressure, because the older generation was very familiar with this excellent cadre. It is not easy to play such a heroic character in an ordinary story and fully show its connotation.
As a result, it was this role that made Gao Ming feel pressured to achieve him, allowing him to win the "Golden Rooster Award", "Hundred Flowers Award" and "Huabiao Award" in one fell swoop, becoming a veritable three-material actor.
Since playing Kong Fansen, Gao Ming has taken on more than 200 roles, large and small, and his rich and exquisite performance skills have made him win the love of countless audiences and become a veritable performance artist.
Enjoy their old age happily
In 2002, the aging Gao Ming chose to retire from his beloved acting career. He and his wife used to be busy with work, often seeing each other for two or three months, but now he finally has time to spend time with his family.
Over the years, Gao Ming has always hidden a regret in his heart, he feels that he has failed to fulfill his responsibilities as a father and has not given enough fatherly love to his two children.
To make up for his children, Gao Ming bought three villas in the same neighborhood in Beijing, one in which he lived with his wife and the other two for his children.
The daughter became a screenwriter, and the son set up an advertising agency with friends.
For the needs of work, the children are often on the move, and Gao Ming bought a villa for them, also hoping that they would have a place to live in Beijing and that the family would often have time to get together.
Not long ago, it was Gao Ming's 80th birthday, and it was also the golden wedding anniversary of Gao Ming and his wife.
The children specially prepared a romantic and warm ceremony for the two elderly people.
Gao Ming in the photo holds flowers, and his wife Duan Ruifang snuggles tightly in his arms. Although the faces of the two old men were already covered with fine wrinkles, they did not look like old people at all.
Perhaps this is what we often call "crane-haired childlike appearance".
Love the right person, and all the suffering in a long life becomes nothing to fear.