49-year-old woman with help with Mai problems:
1. Husband's rheumatoid arthritis, hand joint pain, swelling, knee pain, weakness, bad face, often high fever, dermatomyositis, lung nodules, internal organ damage.
2. The mother's back and legs hurt.
3. Others owe money or don't come back, in a hurry to use it.
Since childhood, her parents have always fought wars, the conditions are better than ordinary people, she and her husband are in free love, her parents do not agree, she and her father are particularly competitive, the more her father does not want her, the more she competes, she does not feel that her father is good to her, although her father does not agree to meet her requirements. The in-laws' family was very poor, her husband treated her very well, and she asked for a bride price of 10,000 when she got married, and her in-laws could not take care of herself and let her take care of the house, and she took 7,000 to pay for the famine in three days of marriage, and took out another 10,000 the next year. In the autumn, the in-laws will not let her manage the war, the most powerful time is that the father-in-law lost money to let her return, she was not happy that she paid all the money in the family, lost the money and let her return it, the mother-in-law said she didn't want her, she said: I still can't look at your house and lift the table. Once, the in-laws sold the large potatoes and gave them the small potatoes to eat, she said: The potatoes that feed the pigs to us will fight, they did not beat her, she scratched the face of the in-laws and smashed the house for a while, the child was about to give birth and she returned to the in-laws' house, and the husband protected her at the war, and the husband beat the father-in-law.
Her husband called her back to find a broken house, she gave birth to a child with heavy bleeding, gave birth to a child for a month and did not stop raising it, could not pee, her husband served her for a month, her in-laws did not come to see her, her father felt sorry for her to take her back to her mother's house to buy a house, food and drink were all given by her mother's family, she asked for 10,000 bride price to her in-laws to return 20,000 famine. The husband and brothers have two sisters, and the two aunts have the final say after marriage. On the day of marriage, I couldn't see that the eldest sister was at the mercy of the eldest sister, and over the years, I resented the eldest sister for being in charge, and it was all my parents who helped me at the mother's house. The in-laws did not take care of it, when the child was three years old, the father-in-law suffered rheumatism and internal organ damage and died, and the dying husband held the child and let the father-in-law look at it, pretending to be old clothes She did not look at the in-laws.
After her father-in-law died, her eldest sister held a family meeting to let her famine return, so she left for her husband to manage, and her husband did not care, and went back to her mother's house with her. The mother-in-law remarried and they did not agree, the eldest sister they all agreed, the mother-in-law and her relationship is not good and it is impossible to come to her, when she fights, she wishes: You can move is not good for me, see how I treat you when you are old. But she is actually not so ruthless, usually the father helps them, when the child is six years old, they go out to work, the husband has worked on the construction site for three years and his legs are broken, the father let them come back and build a house is all made by the father, the husband is obedient to her father, what is delicious is worried about her parents, she is too powerful and has to have her final say. She raised sheep and lost 30,000 or 40,000, she raised pigs, opened a small shop to farm, and then her father got sick, and it has always been a father who has never been grateful and felt that it should be given, and her father died of lung cancer at the age of 59, and she felt that the sky was falling, especially helpless.
She thought about earning money without accompanying her children, she listened to other people's words and walked into the pyramid scheme, when her father was still alive, she cried and shouted to release her, during which she committed an adultery, and soon her father was gone. Later, I bought a car and spent a hundred thousand yuan, and her husband had nothing to do, and she had a brain tumor again. She has had hepatitis B since she was twenty-eight years old, and she has been suffering from major and minor illnesses, and after she has a brain tumor, she has nothing to remember and does not care about family affairs, as long as she can live, it is the best, and nothing matters. The daughter got married at 21, and after the marriage, they earned a lot of money raising pigs, and one year they earned more than a million, but they did not save it. She is now in good health, and her husband is sick again. The daughter did not want to have a second child, they persuaded, the daughter said: You persuade me again to jump off the building, and then the daughter still had an abortion, during the second child, the daughter lost a million at home playing the Internet, and she told her aunt to help pay it back.
Last year, the relationship between my daughter and my aunt was particularly bad, and it was not good to play too much money, and my aunt wanted to divorce. She did the cleansing without divorce, and later they were both very happy to find jobs. Previously, the pig breeding took a two-year break, and this year the pig husband fell ill. In Harbin, the treatment was not good repeatedly, and the husband was not allowed to raise pigs, saying that it was karma, and the husband did not believe it. Raising chickens, ducks and geese, this time she was sick and sold some of them, she served pigs at home, and he saw a doctor in Beijing. Her husband loves her the most, listens to her in everything, and can't live without him. Filial piety to her parents, indebted to her in-laws, her mother-in-law died this year, and their mother-in-law's descendants are all handled by them. She didn't have much feud with her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law found a few wives outside who were unwilling to be at her house. The mother-in-law saved some money in the eldest sister, and after she died, the eldest sister and the second aunt asked her what to do with the money? She said it would be enough to divide it equally. The family is divided into 35,000, and the eldest brother has never interacted with his mother-in-law in Shenyang, and they have been doing well in recent years, and they have not interacted before attending classes.
In the past, I complained that my sister was in charge, and sometimes the old lady came to them when she was sick, and she complained but she still had to serve. In the early years, she did not buy things for her mother-in-law and came to her house without making noise or scolding, but she did not have a good face, and her mother-in-law did not want to stay in her house. She used to be able to call her husband very much, but her mother-in-law was not used to it, and her husband never objected to her being so good to her. Her mother had back and leg pain in her seventies, her mother and brother lived in Beijing, and sometimes her mother was sick all the time when she came to her house, and after her father died, she felt that her mother would not live long, and the result was quite good. The husband did not give anyone money for repairing the motorcycle, and they did not pay back the mother-in-law's money. Today I want to deal with the pigs to go to Bliss, the husband does not admit it, last year I did the universal homework of my parents, in-laws, husbands, daughters, and aunts, and she also repented, but sometimes she couldn't turn over her conscience, recently cried on her father several times to turn over her conscience, in her mother-in-law's sadness, her father-in-law did not turn over, after getting married, she concentrated on earning money and earned money until she was gone, her daughter did not manage the adult, and her husband was sick.
Teacher Yu Shan made a brief summary after listening to her sharing:
1. Who are you doing?
She said: Yes, my husband has always been very good to me, only me in my heart, the biggest mistake we made was to beat my in-laws and smash the house, and the people from the police station and the brigade came to see my big belly and a lot of reasons. Dad was arrogant all his life, and she forced her husband to drink medicine. She can bully her husband, others cannot. Less than seven days after my mother-in-law died, my nephew spent 2,000 playing with my mobile phone, and I felt that I was doing the right thing. My mother-in-law died in my family, and I was fine with them and had no complaints.
2. Whether your husband's disease is good or not is not in our hands, you beat the old and scold the old and get this disease is a felony and a light punishment!
She said: I want to repent.
3. Don't expect to repent and act.
She said: Let the people in the live broadcast room not make mistakes, my aunt urged me to study and write homework in a hurry, and I am grateful that my aunt saved us. Our husband's high fever was cleared by us together, and now his face is also over, and even Mai Xunsi can be good.
4. What happened to your husband at that time?
She said, "It's okay, just be nice to me."
5. Before you got married, you went to your in-laws' house, and your in-laws were quite nice to you?
She said, "Yes, the more my dad cares about me, the less he listens." My father cried on the wedding day, and my father was very happy to see me for a month after marriage. When I couldn't wait, my father got me around again, and my father was in charge of both of us without the ability to live. My husband was very filial to my parents, and his own parents were not filial. I listened to the class, he didn't care if he was good to his mother, and he didn't care about buying anything.
6. It's dozens of dollars, at most two hundred is not really touching your husband. What did your in-laws like you?
She said: I don't know about my temper!
7. Before getting married, your mother-in-law thinks that you are a good wife and a good mother, so she will leave the house to you to manage, and after marriage, you are not living a life, and you are not the same as you saw before. What they say doesn't count, and it infuriates you. Why did you fight for the first time?
She said: My father-in-law lost money, so I will correct this problem of my father-in-law, and I will throw the dish sauce on the table during the meal and give them all over the face.
8. Your husband didn't take care of it?
She said: "My husband was not at home at the time, and he stopped when he came back. My husband has always been obedient to me and is a good old man, and I am not good at all. I have improved in recent years, and no one agrees.
9. If you want to be really good, can you disagree?
She said: My mother-in-law found a wife to put some money in the hands of the second eldest sister, I persuaded her to spend some money on the eldest sister, they had a misunderstanding about me, and my mother-in-law did not have to divide the money equally so that there was no misunderstanding.
10. What do you think about the fact that your mother-in-law's money is divided equally?
She said: "There was no idea, they asked me to buy a gold bracelet."
11. Isn't a gold bracelet a shame? Let you see the harm to your in-laws back then?
She said: I made a very ruthless wish, and said in front of my aunt that when my in-laws were old, they would see how I abused them.
12. If the mercy of the old man comes to you and you harm them, will your sins be deeper? Why did the husband do it to his father-in-law that time?
She said: Because I gave me small potatoes, the big ones were sold for money, I said that I paid for the land to plant, you took small potatoes to feed me to the pigs, my father-in-law took a stick to eliminate me, my husband kicked my father-in-law out of the distance, my big belly scratched the face of my in-laws, smashed the house to pieces, and scolded the two old men and did not dare to go home. I sent a letter to let my father and brother go and did not see the old man and could not let the divorce, my father scolded me and said that my father owed his son back, my husband and I never showed signs of divorce, gave birth to a daughter and tossed her father for a month, the child could not pee, could not eat milk, and gave birth to a child bleeding heavily. The mother-in-law sometimes went to see the child, and the father-in-law glanced at the child before he died.
13. You are really ruthless and have a feud with your in-laws, and treat the second elder like an enemy.
She said: I am willful, and my father is used to spoiling me in my mother's house.
14. You are the one who obeys me, and the one who rebels against me perishes. You and your parents are top-notch, your parents have to quarrel if they don't scold, and your parents in your heart pay for you and have to listen to you. My in-laws hope that you will be filial and let you manage the house, but I didn't expect it...
She said: Everything in the family is accompanied by her mother's family.
15. How much to eat, how much to suffer, how much to sin to accompany to send?
She said: The husband is obedient because of this! I also took money to pay for the famine.
16. The in-laws are so poor that they can't sell the big potatoes?
She said: "Feed me what to feed the pigs."
17. Who feeds pigs with potatoes?
She said: I'm just looking for fault
18. Did you have a daughter?
She said: I had no intention of getting pregnant thirteen years ago, and everyone advised me that if I wanted to earn money, I couldn't keep my aunt with me, and the doctor wouldn't let me flow.
19. Your daughter is with you.
She said: Yes, I am pregnant with a child and my fortune is good, but after the flow is not good.
20. I think you have to have a son, and your daughter-in-law cuts you eight times a day.
She said: I am sick, brain tumor hepatitis B has been taking medicine for many years. Putting down the disease to maintain the status quo, the head hurts for a lifetime, the brain clearance eats more than 20 tablets and can't sleep, the heart is not good, the sin of brain tumor surgery...
21. Your body suffers, and your parents suffer in their hearts!
She said: "My face has no shape after surgery, no appearance.
22. Now it has become a big potato, you scratch the face of your in-laws, and your husband kicks your father-in-law far away, do you feel in your hearts?
She said: There is no remorse at all, my husband has not done it until now, I am a little.
23. The reason why I don't make a mistake now is not because I'm sorry that the second elder is sick and it's better to live than die!
She said: My nephritis was so painful that I couldn't lift my pants, and I suffered an old crime.
24. Now think about your in-laws being scratched by you, how old was your in-laws then? How old is your daughter?
She said: At that time, the in-laws were in their fifties! Daughter 28.
25. Forty-seven years old is less than fifty years old, what do you feel about letting your daughter and aunt scratch and kick far away now? Your daughter died when she was three years old, and she died at the age of fifty.
She said: "Then I have to break off the relationship, my father-in-law had rheumatism before I got married and couldn't work." Taking medicine causes damage to internal organs, metastasis and dies.
26. Isn't that also cancer, isn't your husband also suffering from this problem now? For three years, I haven't let my in-laws see that the children don't come and go. What did your father-in-law think? When dying, I want to take a look at my granddaughter. How far are you from your father-in-law? Your husband is also injured in internal organs, and the high fever is also dangerous, and the hospital cannot cure it. Is this disease so serious?
She said: There are 18 kilometers, the karma done in this life is too big, rheumatism can lead to death.
27. Isn't your father-in-law a case? Very young, but before he died in the same situation as his husband.
She said: I just don't have a heart of repentance.
28. Isn't repentance the exposure of seeds? Isn't it impossible to get sick when exposed seeds?
She said: I will not expose this disease to me.
29. If your husband marries another daughter-in-law, he will not do this, and he will not break the relationship, or divorce, and a daughter-in-law like you can only stand on the side of his daughter-in-law. Your husband's illness, you have a high probability of cleaning up, you let your husband learn that he does not recognize, and the root of your husband's confession is not in the husband. Didn't you let your husband kick his father-in-law and break the root? You are against the sky, and your in-laws are completely enemy-like, three years of father-in-law died, father-in-law died of grievances. In the countryside, the son kicked the father far and far, how to embarrass people, how can he go out and see people? You have to die, who used you to this? Brain tumors should be malignant and come over, someone must pay for you, who hurts you the most?
She said: Father, father 59 went lung tumor, I also bold with my father in front of my father, and I have no vendetta with my parents.
30. Can people like you who beat your father-in-law and scold your mother-in-law still stay in the village?
She said: I didn't hear it here.
31. Just like you still complain about others, your eldest brother dies and does not communicate with each other and takes away thirty-five thousand.
She said: I didn't say how my eldest brother was, but it was corrected.
32. Is it bad to change? If your mother-in-law does not have a penny, she absolutely cannot carry it, and whoever carries the prayer banner will take the money.
She said: If you don't learn a girl, you shouldn't have it.
33. The girlfriend can't get it, your eldest brother is old and dead, the money has to be spent by you, how are you going to spend it?
She said: I didn't think about it, the money I earned myself was not well spent, it was spent by illness. The husband has a good heart and does a lot of good work, and he does a lot in front of outsiders.
34. If you don't do it in front of your parents, what can outsiders do? How long have you been studying?
She said: It's been more than two years.
35. Have you been learning from me?
She said, "Well, learn to take care of your illness."
36. Have people like this ever heard of Sky Strike? Ever heard of the horrific consequences? You are living well, why are you not collected? Knowing how thick the virtues of our ancestors are, we can live and learn that we are truly virtuous in our ancestors. You beat and scold your parents, and every time you can turn Ji into a death. What do you get in return? You have done all the things that lack virtue and the language of lack of virtue, and you are not ashamed to live today, and no evil fruit has happened to you? You have come back from the line of death again and again, nine deaths in your life, do you know that you are going to be collected? Even so, your ancestors did not give up on you.
She said: There are always nobles to help.
37. Where did the nobleman come from? Taiye is a doctor who heals and saves people, and when we encounter difficulties, the seed can ripen to help us, and the house of good will have Yuqing, blessing and descendants! Or it's a miracle that you can live to this day, have you talked about this topic?
She said: I told him he didn't recognize it.
38. He was fine when he knocked the cow to death. Your husband has lost great filial piety in this life, and he has done righteousness here, and he doesn't even want his parents directly for his daughter-in-law, are you moved?
She said: He has been so good to me in this life, I can't live without him.
39. It's too difficult for you to wake up your husband, as far as your realm, the mind and people think, who listens to you, the body and mind? Have you planted the seeds of help? The crowd is heaven. Parents are doing too well, feeling like their own parents, and many people have to clean up. The child is sick, people treat it as their own to clean up, you can't talk well, if you want to make your husband good, you don't want to make it, your husband died pitifully at your hands! Marry a good daughter-in-law Wang for three generations, marry a bad daughter-in-law and ruin your life, what can you do for someone who can't even cry?
We can't understand the old people, one day we will also be old, and when we are dying, we will have to look at our granddaughter, and they all have this thing and have come to the rescue several times. I will calculate your situation for you, what you did on the in-laws' side is sparse, and you can get the forgiveness of the second elder is the mercy of the old man, not you did well. No matter how bad we do, our parents and in-laws forgive. The sparseness done in front of your parents and in-laws has damaged the morality of your mother's family, and you have lost your destiny in filial piety, your husband does not believe you, he does not obey you at all, and he does not believe you when you become better. He criticizes you and accuses you of complaining that you just don't admire, you girl, you give 100,000 and don't have children, your girl doesn't listen, she doesn't admire you at all. Here in brothers and sisters, you are nothing in their eyes, face and heart are not in harmony, it does not matter whether relatives are there or not.
You remember one thing, the destiny of heaven will be great, your destiny will be lost, you still count on the money owed to you outside, and you also count on good health, so you have to do the thing of long-term destiny! No one admires that your destiny is too small. You have changed now, are you a good person, and people still draw question marks on you. You can't fake now, you are still superficial, when you are true, God will give you the opportunity to let you wash away your past sinful karma, and people have good wishes that God will bless them.
She said: My mother-in-law was hospitalized and I took care of her for half a month. Later, I listened to the class, my mother-in-law was sick and I wanted to serve, my eldest sister didn't give me a chance, I didn't do it seriously.
40. Do it really, it is the in-laws who give us the opportunity to take care of the in-laws. The first thing you have to know is that your husband has this disease because you have done something very wrong, you should be 100% responsible for your husband's responsibility, do you still need to explain to him? Do you still want him to change? In the first half, he protects you thoroughly, in the second half you are at least a righteous person, your husband cares for you wholeheartedly, and he is happy to kill him. He kicked his father and ancestors to break the roots, and then he was 100% responsible for his husband's affairs, where did he lose the most?
She said: Filial piety.
41. Be filial to your mother, your mother is your father's concern! How do you make up for your filial piety? You are a big disobedient today, and everyone is still 100% responsible, because there are brothers in all worlds. You make up for it here with your brothers and sisters, what do you want to do in a nursing home?
She said: Serve the elderly.
42. Are you sick, can you? Your husband doesn't recognize it, you do this to your husband, your husband recognizes 100%. You owe too much to your parents and in-laws, you obey your husband to the extreme, completely turn your conscience over, if you can't rely on your ability, you suggest him to participate in the Kaimo teacher study class, which is more helpful for you to be a true daughter-in-law, if you don't do well, your husband can't participate in the class. You also have to turn your conscience over to your in-laws here, people are poor and we are rich, we can't look at others? Isn't it to sell big potatoes and keep small potatoes just to live? Your mother-in-law left you money, you carried a big gold bracelet, and you were ashamed all the time.
Today, you can connect with the Mai everyone who is willing to take 100% responsibility for your affairs, you have to thank your ancestors for virtue, and every time you can turn evil into luck, it is the ancestors who have virtue, do more good deeds, and accumulate more Yin virtue to repay your parents and ancestors. Tell others more about your unfilial behavior, because what disasters have occurred when you are unfilial, and do you have the desire to promote the family way in the second half of your life? Turn your daughter-in-law first, turn your parents' conscience first, turn your heart over and let your husband admire you first. Your husband disciplined you and criticized you, but you didn't do a good job. Doing his duty well must make the husband admire, make the husband feel that he has really learned well, and if he is wronged, he also says that he has no temper at all. You are here to wake me up today, and no one in the mother-in-law family admires it, the destiny of heaven is lost, and the duty is not done.
The daughter-in-law lost her destiny and suffered many disasters, her mother's family suffered with sin, and the other half also suffered from illness. Your husband can do it to you and your parents, and you can't limit your husband to being unkind, unfaithful, and unfilial! I wish you early success!