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Wen 丨 Qinghe Xu
Editor丨Qinghe Xu
introduction
62-year-old Cheng Fangyuan recent photo, old people dare not recognize!
Wang Gang's ex-wife Cheng Fangyuan, now 62 years old, has no children and no daughters, and depends on her 91-year-old father.
The former Cheng Fangyuan, for his own career, gave up marriage and returned to singleness.
In 1982, a song of "Childhood" spread throughout the country. This song is her favorite song and the song she became famous when she stepped onto the singing stage.
In the 80s, Cheng Fangyuan received the love of many people with catchy songs such as "Childhood", "I Want to Become a White Cloud", and "Youzi Yin".
She was a popular singer in that era.
In September 1960, Cheng Fangyuan was born in Beijing. Growing up in a scholarly family, she wears snacks and has many books for her to flip through.
In order to be able to accompany Cheng Fangyuan to grow up, her mother quit her job and concentrated on taking care of her at home.
Cheng Fangyuan's mother is extremely doting on her, to what extent? Once Cheng Fangyuan was washing socks at home, and her mother immediately ran over to take the things in her hand after seeing it, and looked back and forth at Cheng Fangyuan's hand, afraid that she would wear her hand.
Sometimes, Cheng Fangyuan's father saw such a scene and would laugh and say that his wife spoiled his daughter too much, and what should he do if he didn't know how to take care of himself when Yuanyuan grew up in the future?
Cheng Fangyuan's mother didn't care, she would smile and touch Cheng Fangyuan's head and say: "In the future, my family Yuanyuan will grow up and work hard to make money, so you don't have to cook and eat by yourself, just hire a maid." ”
Cheng Fangyuan's thoughts gradually matured with age and the amount of reading. She likes to read ancient and modern Chinese and foreign masterpieces, and hopes that one day she can become an eagle falcon soaring freely in the sky, instead of a toad sitting in a well watching the sky.
When she was in junior high school, Cheng Fangyuan was already able to play many kinds of musical instruments, such as electronic organ, piano, and guitar. But among the many instruments, Cheng Fangyuan likes the sound of the guitar the most.
On weekends, Cheng Fangyuan would carry his guitar to the mountains near his home, and play it all day. When you are hungry, eat some steamed buns casually and drink some boiled water to cope with it.
In 1977, Cheng Fangyuan was admitted to the Erhu major of the Folk Music Department of the Central Conservatory of Music, and the erhu played by her hand was full of emotion and made people cry when they heard it.
In 1980, Cheng Fangyuan graduated from the Central Conservatory of Music and directly joined the Central Orchestra as an erhu player. It was also this year that Cheng Fangyuan began to learn vocal music on his own, and his debut performance was successful. In 1981, Cheng Fangyuan officially entered the music scene and became a singer.
Such an achievement is not easy for recent graduates, but Cheng Fangyuan, who has a high vision, is not satisfied with the status quo.
Brief teacher-student marriage
Cheng Fangyuan had a relationship with her teacher during college. Just over 20 years old, Cheng Fangyuan was already married. Later, she joined the Central Orchestra.
Once a teacher, now a husband. I hope that Cheng Fangyuan can give birth to a child as soon as possible, and will not fight for any "music career" in the future, and teach his husband and children at home. For Cheng Fangyuan's husband, a woman's most important career is family, and everything else is trivial.
20-year-old Cheng Fangyuan is at the age of spirit. She has excellent ability and unlimited future, how can she be willing to be a housewife?
When her husband didn't let her continue to make music, she wanted to make something for him to see. She taught herself vocal music and also created a performance style of playing and singing herself.
In 1982, Cheng Fangyuan came into contact with a song written by Luo Dayou and tried to sing it several times, feeling that the tune of the song was very good. At home, he also made some adaptations with piano, guitar and other instruments.
In the end, Cheng Fangyuan still chose the guitar he liked more. She felt that such a cheerful tune should not be sung to adults, but to students who were in their youth.
Cheng Fangyuan remembered that during the holidays, she and her colleagues and friends held a special performance for the children. This song was sung by her as the finale. Cheng Fangyuan remembers that when other songs were performed, the children were chattering and laughing offstage.
Only this song, as soon as the prelude sounded, the children immediately stopped their movements, looked at Cheng Fangyuan on the stage obsessively, and some would sing with her.
Such a romantic scene that only appears in the movie, Cheng Fangyuan will not forget it in his life.
Later, he participated in various programs, and Cheng Fangyuan would sing this song. With this song, in 1984, Cheng Fangyuan was rated as a national first-class actor, and was fortunate to be on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
Cheng Fangyuan, whose career became more and more prosperous and became more and more famous, did not find that the distance between her and her husband became farther and farther, and finally this young and innocent teacher-student marriage completely broke down.
Remarried "Hekan", divorced because he did not want to have children
When Cheng Fangyuan was very prosperous in China, his marriage with her husband was broken, which seemed to hurt Cheng Fangyuan's heart. At the hottest time, she chose to go away to study abroad, and also gave herself a time to calm her emotions.
He returned to China again in 1991.
This year, Cheng Fangyuan received an invitation from CCTV and served as the host of the program "Variety Show". Long before entering the show, Cheng Fangyuan had already heard of his colleague - Wang Gang.
Wang Gang is very famous in the northeast, and it is said that his performance of commentaries is even better. But at that time, Wang Gang, like Cheng Fangyuan, had just transformed into a host across the line, and he was not famous in front of the audience.
When he first became a partner, Cheng Fangyuan did not have a good impression of Wang Gang, and he was even a little afraid. I always felt that Wang Gang's shrewd eyes were dripping and turning, and he didn't know what he was calculating.
However, Wang Gang has a good impression of Cheng Fangyuan, and Wang Gang's sister Wang Jing is also a singing actor. Therefore, Aiya and Wu, seeing Cheng Fangyuan, who was also a singer, subconsciously regarded her as his sister.
Wang Gang's sister - Wang Jing
In addition to the intersection of work, Wang Gang will often find Cheng Fangyuan to chat, and over time, the two find that there are actually quite a lot of common topics between each other. And both have experienced a failed marriage, and when it comes to talking about feelings again, they are a little more cautious.
But Wang Gang also spent a lot of thought in pursuit of Cheng Fangyuan. Knowing that Cheng Fangyuan liked to listen to Teresa Teng's songs, he asked a friend to help buy tickets, and invited Cheng Fangyuan to Teresa Teng's concert together, and the two sat in the front row to enjoy Teresa Teng's sweet singing together.
Wang Gang frankly told Cheng Fangyuan that he had been married once and had a daughter, but Cheng Fangyuan did not care.
In 1994, Wang Gang's "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo" was broadcast on TV, and he won the Best Supporting Actor Award for his excellent performance of "The Great Traitor and Juan". At the same time, the relationship between the two is getting better and better, to the extent of talking about marriage. For a time, relatives and friends sent blessings to them, feeling that these two people would definitely be able to "hold the hand of their son and grow old with their son".
In 1996, Wang Gang, who was newly married to Yaner, cooperated with Cheng Fangyuan and his wife and starred in the musical "The Sound of Music". Wang Gang's superb acting skills and Cheng Fangyuan's sweet and lively singing voice are addictive.
On the stage of the musical, Wang Gang saw that Cheng Fangyuan was very patient and gentle with the children who performed on stage. I can't help but think to myself, how wonderful it would be if I and Cheng Fangyuan had a child?
The life in Cheng Fangyuan's heart is as beautiful as a painting. She likes to create on her own, have someone prepare a hot meal for her, and focus on her ideals. It's beautiful, but not very realistic. And Wang Gang is too practical, Wang Gang likes to drink and chat with friends, and the whole family is lively.
At the beginning, when living under one roof, he still carried the beautiful filter of love, and he could tolerate some of the other party's small habits, but after a long time, Cheng Fangyuan was not able to bear it.
Once when Cheng Fangyuan was composing a song in the room, he suddenly heard Wang Gang's shouting, telling her to go down and help herself home. The people of the whole building poked their heads to see Wang Gang drunk into a pool of mud, and Cheng Fangyuan felt very humiliated. After arriving home, Wang Gang slept on the sofa, snoring one after another, so that Cheng Fangyuan no longer had a clue to create.
The two did not just quarrel over Wang Gang's love of drinking, Cheng Fangyuan's unwillingness to have children was also a big problem in their small family.
Cheng Fangyuan is reluctant to have children, but Wang Gang very much hopes to have a child with her who is related to the blood of the two, making this small family more happy and popular.
In Wang Gang's view, if the two get married but do not have children, the family may be dispersed at any time.
But Cheng Fangyuan's career is busy, he has no time to estimate things at home, and he is not willing to be silent for so long in order to get pregnant and give birth, delaying his development.
At this time, Wang just found that none of love, friendship, and family affection are worthy of Cheng Fangyuan's attention, and she is full of her own career.
Years later, Wang Gang also said: "If we are friends with Yuanzi, then we will be very good, friends who talk about everything, but it will be too uncomfortable to live." ”
In 2001, Cheng Fangyuan filed for divorce, and Wang Gang kept her many times, but he still failed to save Cheng Fangyuan's heart. In the end, the two broke up peacefully and could not be husband and wife and friends.
He is still unmarried and has no children
In 2006, Wang Gang remarried with Zheng Yandong, a girl outside the circle, and was happy to have a noble son at the age of 60, and his daughter also filled him with a grandson and enjoyed the happiness of nature.
Wang Gang, who has experienced two failed marriages, cherishes his current family. He would often rush home after filming to accompany his wife and son. In Wang Gang's words, when his son grows up, he is already old, and being able to accompany his son for one more day is one more day of happiness.
Cheng Fangyuan has not remarried after divorcing Wang Gang, and his life is very casual. She returned home to spend some time with her father and mother, who had worked hard for too many years and had not been in good health.
Cheng Fangyuan's mother's only wish is to see her daughter have a happy family. But Cheng Fangyuan married twice and divorced twice, but he failed to completely settle down.
In order to explore his soul, Cheng Fangyuan was fascinated by travel, and every year he went to many places to enjoy the great scenery of rivers and mountains. She also tries her hand at skateboarding, playing ball, and other sports to regulate her body and mind.
In September 2018, Cheng Fangyuan appeared on the stage of the Mid-Autumn Festival Gala, and when she appeared in front of the audience, she seemed to return to the past, she was still the little girl who liked to play and sing by herself with a guitar.
However, now 62 years old, she still feels a little lonely after returning home and facing the empty room alone.
Now Cheng Fangyuan's side is only accompanied by her elderly father and children. The old man is old and can't remember many things, but for the marriage events related to his daughter's later life, he will still ask Cheng Fangyuan over and over again: "Do you have a boyfriend?" After Cheng Fangyuan shook his head and denied it, he would comfort his daughter, which was really sad.
epilogue
The 62-year-old Cheng Fangyuan is still alone. But the little girl who sang when she wanted to sing and walked away seemed to have never compromised with age.
Wang Gang also mentioned Cheng Fangyuan in his own rotation, and he wrote in the book with self-blame: It's me who is sorry for Yuanzi, living with others, but drinking heavily every day, it's too unspeakable.
And Cheng Fangyuan, who lived the life he wanted, no longer cares about the past. She stays true to herself and enjoys the joys of life.
Cheng Fangyuan once said that she still believes in love and will always wait for the right person to come to her. I also hope that she can harvest her true love while being happy.