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One day, good girlfriend Xiaofang and Xiaoli chatted together.
Xiaofang asked Xiaoli a little embarrassed, "How do you two maintain a relationship?" ”
Xiaoli listened to her girlfriend's question, mysterious, and said with a bad smile: "You can find some tips to enhance the relationship between husband and wife." ”
After hearing this, Xiaofang said: "My husband and I are also like this, but every time we both have to leave some urine before doing errands, it feels good." But I don't feel like this technique is very good, how do you two feel? ”
Xiaoli was a little surprised after hearing this: "The two of us generally don't leave some urine before doing errands, because feeling so unhealthy is bad for the body, although it brings great stimulation to the body, but it still feels bad for the body." ”
Xiaofang said: "The overall feeling is better, but there is a certain impact on the body, and I don't know if this little skill is advisable." ”
Xiaoli said again: "It depends on how much urine you keep, I feel that the amount of urine left is also very important, leaving less can bring pleasure to both parties, if there is more, it will be counterproductive." ”
Xiaofang thought for a while and said: "I don't know how to keep urine." ”
Xiaoli showed a serious look and said: "I think this can go to the doctor, by the way, ask if this little technique is suitable, and how much urine should be retained?" The doctor will have a better explanation. ”
Xiaofang said: "Why is this embarrassing to ask the doctor?" I'm afraid that without this little skill, the doctor will laugh at us. ”
Xiaoli smiled and said: "No, the doctor won't laugh, doctor, see more, know a lot, what are we?" After shopping later, let's go to the hospital and ask, in order to enhance the communication between husband and wife, even if this skill is not possible, you can ask a little other tips. ”
After speaking, both of them smiled.
First, leave some urine before "doing errands", the overall feeling will be better?
1. For men
Keeping a moderate amount of urine before sex is beneficial to some people with slightly weaker sexual function or erectile dysfunction.
When a little urine is left in the body, the filling of urine has a certain stimulation of the bladder, holding urine will stimulate the nerves, it is easier to maintain congestion when living as a couple, and it is easier to get excited when stimulated.
To the disadvantage of men, frequent urination may cause cystitis, urinary tract infection or prostatitis, and even damage to the bladder.
Nerve holding for a long time will be in excessive consumption, so that the nerve is also damaged, pain when urinating, incomplete urination or frequent urination leading to bladder sphincter weakness.
It is recommended that men should not urinate or shed a small amount of urine, if they do not know how to control the amount of urine, they can stay for 30 minutes after the last urination and start intercourse.
2. For women
Properly leaving urine in the bladder can improve sexual nerve excitement, and urinate afterwards, and can also prevent urinary tract infections.
The disadvantage is that the physiological structure of women is relatively special, the bladder is adjacent to the uterus, and it will compress the uterus when holding urine, causing gynecological diseases.
During sexual communication, it is easy to compress the urethra and bladder, resulting in the desire to urinate, which will cause uncontrolled outflow of urine when the bladder urine is sufficient, which may aggravate the discomfort in the abdomen and reduce the quality of sexual life.
Or there is too much urine, and the nerve center is difficult to excite due to the reflex of urinary urgency, and may even lead to urinary incontinence, so it is recommended that the bladder do not have urine.
Second, husband and wife do this harmoniously
1. Communication
In husband and wife life, usually both parties should communicate more and give each other enough confidence so that we can enjoy the process harmoniously and synchronously to make our love more passionate.
Only by communicating openly about each other's needs, preferences and concerns can we find a balance that allows us to properly handle each other's opinions.
2. Environment
When communicating with husband and wife, it is necessary to maintain a quiet and comfortable environment to create a quiet and romantic atmosphere, so that both parties can enter the state well and avoid the interference of undesirable factors to reduce sexual desire.
You can also add some props or fun to specific links to create a romantic and warm atmosphere to a certain extent to improve the quality of sexual life.
3. Stabilize emotions
Excessive irritability or bad emotions can affect normal performance, make both parties' thoughts not concentrated, reduce pleasure, and may even cause premature ejaculation or impotence in the man.
Before communicating, forget all the worries and invest in sex renewably, so that we can enjoy every moment.
4. Physical strength
When couples communicate, it is physically exhausting, if it is a continuous stay up late or after labor, try not to communicate, because this will have a mental and physical impact, aggravate fatigue, usually exercise more, enhance physical fitness and endurance, so that life communication is more passionate.
5. Do enough foreplay
Before the couple's sexual communication, be sure to do enough foreplay to stimulate the passion of both parties, enhance each other's feelings, you can kiss, touch, blow in the ears and other small games.
summary
Both husband and wife have physiological needs, as long as there are certain skills and methods, do not harm the body, and both parties are satisfied, this is called perfection. The harmony of sexual life requires both parties to constantly explore and learn, and they must find the right way.
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