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Editor|Innocent
In 2021, Yu Rongguang and his wife ushered in an emotional crisis, and his wife Wang Yuling insisted on divorce.
Wang Yuling's decision shocked Yu Rongguang very much, because his wife is 61 years old and will not joke about divorce.
First, clean and self-sufficient, but the wife insists on divorce
Yu Rongguang can be called a superb acting bone, playing the role of many villains and bigwigs.
He has always been clean and conscientious.
He never imagined that he would have to face marital problems one day.
At that time, he was still shuttling between the set and home, and the work of working upside down had made Yu Rongguang very hard.
The dispute with his wife gave him an incomparable headache.
But in order to make money, he still persevered.
Yu Rongguang is a very traditional person in his bones.
He believes that the male protagonist and the female protagonist should seriously do a good job as a housewife and do everything behind the scenes for him, so that he can be more motivated to devote himself to work.
What's more, compared to other industries, the actor industry is already considered a high income.
Both of them are over 60 years old, and Yu Rongguang's career achievements are also recognized, both fame and status, which can be described as both fame and fortune.
But the wife's determination was difficult to shake, and she could not listen to any explanation, but was obsessed with getting the divorce certificate.
Yu Rongguang persuaded in every way, hoping to change his wife's mind, because the current life is not easy to come by.
They have suffered a lot, and the happy old age that they have so hard to have has just begun.
At that time, he had been married to Wang Yuling for 35 years.
For so many years, he has been trying to balance family and career, and does not want to let outside voices disturb the hearts of his family at will.
But since Wang Yuling has the idea of divorce, it is destined to be because of the resentment that her husband has accumulated self-awareness.
And this also starts with Yu Rongguang's early experience.
Second, the rugged drama
Yu Rongguang is an authentic Beijinger, born in 1958 in a house of performers, more precisely, specializing in singing Peking Opera.
Everyone understands that Peking Opera is a national essence, so the glory of this profession is the envy of many people.
In the 50s of the last century, most people wanted to get rich through hard work, and many people could only engage in heavy physical labor, but Yu Rongguang could feel the artistic atmosphere at home.
My father loves this profession, and he is ugly, singing and fighting...
These Peking Opera elements are integrated into the daily life of this family and have a great impact on the children, especially Yu Rongguang.
Yu Rongguang yearned for the profession of Peking Opera actor when he was a child.
Because Peking Opera actors can wear makeup and withstand applause on stage.
He didn't want to be an unknown person, he wanted to inherit his father's mantle.
But his father, Yu Mingkui, rejected his son's ideals.
Because, although my father likes to sing, after all, the drama belongs to the "lower ninth class", and he lives with laughter, which is no different from a beggar on the street to beg, not just learning by talent.
Sometimes, dreams and reality are opposite, the difference is a millimeter, but the error is a thousand miles.
He didn't want his son to follow his old path, and it was better to be a reader or a businessman.
Big men should be aspirational and should not lose their minds with playthings.
But Yu Rongguang disagreed.
He has seen migrant workers moving bricks on construction sites, and waiters who have been abused by customers for spilling vegetable soup, and neither is easier than his father's profession.
If he can learn the essence from his father, then he will definitely be able to take the shortcut of Peking Opera performance.
After all, it must be difficult for a father to feed this big son without being a little different from ordinary people.
And the father lived happily every day, which is enviable.
Slowly, under Yu Rongguang's repeated insistence, his father also saw Yu Rongguang's talent.
So I decided to teach by example.
However, Yu Rongguang's rebellious heart is very heavy, he is naturally rebellious, and he is very unwilling to follow his father's rules.
Therefore, the process of learning Peking Opera was very difficult, obviously he learned a little of everything, but he was still only superficial and understood a little, which greatly disappointed his father.
But there is no turning back arrow from the opening bow.
In the end, his father introduced Yu Rongguang to the Beijing Fenglei Peking Opera Troupe.
At that time, Yu Rongguang was only 11 years old, and in this place, Yu Rongguang's opera skills ushered in a qualitative change.
After engaging in the art industry, Yu Rongguang became more perceptive.
He often played the role of martial artist, and found that many younger siblings at a young age were more talented than him.
Sometimes he struggled to outperform those with talent, which frustrated him greatly.
When a person really loves an industry, he is afraid that someone is more gifted and spiritual than himself.
It is said that hard work is important, but for those who are engaged in art, talent is the key.
Few people dare to admit that they have no talent, but in the face of reality, the mouth is useless.
After Yu Rongguang realized that his talent was not enough to really get ahead on the road of opera, he began to slowly look for opportunities in other professions.
Later, during Yu Rongguang's singing performance, director Xu Xiaoming took a fancy to his figure and spirit offstage.
After that, he found Yu Rongguang and invited him to play a villain in a Hong Kong movie.
Yu Rongguang naturally agreed without hesitation.
And the process of playing the villain also made Yu Rongguang feel very enjoyable.
In that era, audiences often couldn't tell the difference between film and television dramas and reality.
As a result, actors who play villains in film and television dramas often make the audience hate them very much.
Everyone has a good heart, and Yu Rongguang naturally failed to gain any good impression.
Even because he plays too sincerely, some people think that he is a very bad person by nature, and will interpret some bad people out of the soul.
But Yu Rongguang didn't care.
The villains he plays easily bring ratings to film and television dramas, and although he is always subjected to scolding, he is also intoxicated by them.
For an actor, being famous is the greatest luck.
Even villains can convey a lot of philosophies about how to deal with people.
3. Regrettable divorce changes
Many entertainers choose to marry later.
Because once you give birth, some of the smart charm on your body will disappear in an instant.
And Yu Rongguang also dragged out lifelong events until he was 30 years old, until his parents couldn't wait, and he began a blind date under force.
At that time, his parents were very optimistic about the girl Wang Yuling, and after meeting, Yu Rongguang also fell in love with her at first sight.
Yu Rongguang, who was stirring with a spring heart, understood that his fate had come.
Wang Yuling is very virtuous, and since the beginning of the relationship, she has paid close attention to Yu Rongguang's food, clothing, housing and transportation.
For Rongguang, Wang Yuling is like half a mother, so that he can no longer leave her.
When Yu Rongguang was injured in filming, Wang Yuling's careful care of him made him even more moved.
In the past, I used to experience great joy and tragedy in the play.
But when he returned to life, he found that although there are not so many joys and sorrows in reality, real emotions are much thicker than acting.
A year later, in 1986, Yu Rongguang and Wang Yuling got married.
Within half a year, Wang Yuling became pregnant.
Just in time for Yu Rongguang's new play to start, he went to Hong Kong to act.
And this marriage was tested for the first time because of distance.
Wang Yuling, who is pregnant, is always upset, afraid that her husband will fall in love because of the drama.
In 1987, Wang Yuling gave birth to a son, named Yu Zilong, and she devoted all her energy to his son.
Because she understands that no matter how glamorous her husband is outside, with a son, he needs to worry about her at all times.
Yu Zilong's image is completely different from his father, his father is the image of a tall and burly tough guy, and he is a weak scholar.
Because the child spends most of his time with his mother, he is greatly influenced by his mother.
The price of "widowed parenting" is directly reflected in Yu Zilong.
Yu Rongguang's mind is on TVB, and more and more viewers are willing to buy movie tickets for him.
As his fame grew, many mainland directors began to want to work with him.
Yu Rongguang became more and more busy between the set and the director, and did not even see his father for the last time.
This incident touched Wang Yuling a lot, because a person treats his father like this, then she and her son may even end up worse than their glorious father in the future.
The idea of divorce was buried at this moment, just for the sake of the son, and it was not immediately raised.
Later, his son grew up and successfully had his own small family.
Wang Yuling, who was finally idle, remembered her wish when she was young.
I have seen too much of her and don't want to revolve around her husband anymore.
In fact, when she served Rongguang in every way during her relationship, it was doomed that the relationship between her and Yu Rongguang would not be equal.
And Yu Rongguang, who was accustomed to all this convenience, did not feel that there was anything wrong with his wife's dedication.
Because he has been acting for most of his life, he thinks he doesn't enjoy much at all.
In addition to his love of acting, he worked so hard to make money, that is, for a sense of responsibility to his family.
Two people who are already approaching their old age, one is more aggrieved than the other.
And Yu Rongguang began to pay attention to Wang Yuling's feelings, but it was too late.
The sincerity of being late is less than the weeds.
After repeated arguments, Yu Rongguang finally signed the divorce agreement.
People divorce only when they are old, which makes Yu Rongguang's efforts an empty busy.
You can't have both fish and bear's paw.
Career and love, he can only get one.
Wang Yuling once wanted to freeze the 50 million deposits in her husband's account, but then she refused.
With the help of a lawyer, they divided the common property.
It is difficult for them to remember the sea oath mountain alliance when they were young.
The divorce was made in his 60s, which made many people who did not know the truth speculate vainly, and even doubted whether Yu Rongguang had an affair with which female star.
In fact, the reason for their divorce is only because Yu Rongguang is equivalent to letting Wang Yuling stay a widow for most of his life.
epilogue
In fact, everyone who can get to the point of divorce is because there is no love between husband and wife.
Needless to say love, there may not be any affection with each other.
Yu Rong has been clean all his life, but because of neglect of his wife's love, he ended up divorced in old age, which is really embarrassing.
Fortunately, this old actor was not troubled by this emotional setback for too long, but put all his energy into the film and television career he loved all his life.
Today, he is still active in the film and television industry and continues to contribute film and television works to fans.
I hope he can work well and live happily.