An ordinary person can now live to be seventy or eighty years old, so it seems that people's lives are also very long, so people have a lot of time and opportunities to change their destiny.
In the secular view, graduating from college in your twenties, then having a stable job, getting married and having children after a few years of work, and the future is so plain, living a life around family and children.
But in fact, people can break the tradition, boldly realize their life value, to pursue the meaning of life, rather than trapped in a corner, casually spend this life.
Some people understand their life's pursuit at the age of twenty, and some people usher in their first precious opportunity at the age of sixty. So, don't set limits for yourself, maybe your hope will come quietly one day.
Just like actor Zhang Guoqiang, when he drifted north, lived in the worst basement, and played the most marginal role, he looked so inconspicuous.
However, now, he has become a well-known actor with many excellent works, and his experience tells us that regardless of the background, as long as you are willing to work hard, ordinary people also have the opportunity to fight back.
The beginning of a scribbled life
Zhang Guoqiang was born in an ordinary family in Heilongjiang Province, and although his parents were also engaged in acting work, they were only small roles and could not help him much.
But even so, Zhang Guoqiang was influenced by his parents when he was a child, and he was a little talented in drama, he was curious about the content of his parents' work, imitation, learning, and drama filled his childhood life.
His father saw his talent in this area, and when Zhang Guoqiang was seventeen years old, he suggested that he enter the drama performance class of the provincial art school.
Zhang Guoqiang accepted it gladly, he was also young at that time, he did not have great ambitions, he felt that drama was also his hobby, and it was also a good experience to engage in this profession.
At that time, the teenager did not think about traveling far away, and it was a happy thing to be safely by his parents' side, doing the work he liked.
His life went slowly and orderly, he thought of contentment and happiness at the beginning, there was no goal, he married the girl he liked at the right age, thinking that he would live this life plainly and fully.
But the path of actors is not so easy, and there are too many excellent actors at the same time, who graduated from better schools, have excellent backgrounds and excellent abilities.
At that time, Zhang Guoqiang was not very competitive and under great pressure. Life was okay, but then he and his wife had their own children, and everything began to change quietly.
After the birth of his son, Zhang Guoqiang was very happy, he loved this small family very much, and tried to contribute to the family. But some things, not after starting to work hard, there will be good results,
Children have to take milk powder, get vaccinated, go to school in the future, and attend tutoring classes, which are all big expenses. Having children is happiness, but also more financial pressure, life began to be tight, Zhang Guoqiang's wife in the eyes, anxious in the heart.
People are like this, if they live by themselves, everything can be done, but after having children, they just want to provide the best life for their children. "Poor couples mourn", this is not unreasonable.
Economic conditions determine the standard of living, and the standard of living is linked to happiness, and worrying about food and clothing every day naturally has no opportunity to feel the wind and snow. Although Zhang Guoqiang has been trying to earn money to support his family, nothing has been achieved overnight.
His career has developed very slowly, there has been no major improvement, his salary has been stagnant, and Zhang Guoqiang feels very unhappy when he goes home every day to face his wife and children who are constantly complaining.
His wife at the time was his first love, and the two young souls came together because of their mutual attraction in talent, and because of art, they had to face firewood, rice, oil and salt after marriage.
Too many practical problems piled up in front of the young couple's eyes, without the elegance of art, only the scrupulousness of life, Zhang Guoqiang's wife began to become shaken.
In the end, because she became disappointed with Zhang Guoqiang and thought that she would not be able to live a good life with him in the future, her wife filed for divorce, and she didn't even want the infant child at all, so she left the house.
The husband and wife were originally the same forest bird, and they flew separately when the disaster came, Zhang Guoqiang experienced the cruelty of reality, and also understood that only feelings are useless. In this way, he became a single father in his most difficult time.
Zhang Guoqiang's journey to the north
The departure of his wife hit Zhang Guoqiang very hard, which hurt Zhang Guoqiang's dignity. In order to make more money to raise children and find a way out for himself, Zhang Guoqiang chose to leave his young children with his parents after his divorce and look for new opportunities on his own.
When he came to Beijing, he felt that there would be more opportunities in big cities, but he did not know that Beijing had more opportunities and higher living costs. Zhang Guoqiang lived in a cheap storage room and ate simple meals. He can't wait to prove himself and raise his children well.
He moved from various crews, because he was new and not famous, he could only get some small roles, starting with the trick. He may have worked hard for a long time, but in the end there were no shots, used as a backdrop, or cut out.
The stars look glamorous, the famous actor nanny car picks up, and the assistant waits. But more are like Zhang Guoqiang, who has just arrived in Beijing, running at the bottom of the chain of contempt for dreams.
Some people asked why it is so difficult for Zhang Guoqiang to succeed because he is also a professional and studied drama class. Because there are too many competitors, he may be gold, but Beijing is full of gold, and if you want to be discovered, you need someone to catch it.
And Zhang Guoqiang was really fished by fate later.
By chance, he participated in "Soldier Assault". This drama was a turning point in his career. There is actually no big reason why Zhang Guoqiang can receive this drama, and no one is optimistic about it at first. Who knew that after it was broadcast, the response was enthusiastic, and it suddenly caught fire.
This drama brought Wang Baoqiang and Zhang Yi into the audience's field of vision, and also allowed Zhang Guoqiang to start a new chapter. With this good work, Zhang Guoqiang smoothly has more resources.
In the early stage, even if he got a small role, he acted with absolute sincerity, he respected every script, every role, and he believed that there were only good actors and no small roles.
It was this attitude that determined his success. He moved up little by little from the basement, and finally lived in the building, he went from an inconspicuous trick to having lines, shots, and finally becoming the protagonist.
With Zhang Guoqiang's efforts, his fame has become more and more and his life has become better and better. His serious state and tough guy image make him like a fish in the Legion drama, and the role seems to be tailored for him, and he plays it brilliantly.
In this way, the images of vivid soldiers came into the audience's eyes, leaving traces and making everyone remember this man named Zhang Guoqiang.
The real "start from scratch", bottoming out. Zhang Guoqiang has won many awards and has a position in the entertainment industry, and this time, he has gained a firm foothold in Beijing.
An enviable love
After divorcing his ex, Zhang Guoqiang devoted himself to his career, and the reason for the failure of his last relationship was like his shame, and he wanted to prove that he had the ability to make his son live a good life.
The hardships he has suffered for so many years are all to solve the problems of life and resolve the unwillingness in his heart. After life got better, he took his son to Beijing to find ways to make up for the lack of love when he was a child.
At that time, he only wanted to watch his children grow up healthily, and he did not think about his own happiness. Zhang Guoqiang's diligent and unyielding character is very appreciated, and his sincere and practical qualities are precisely the charm.
At a business event, through the introduction of a friend, Zhang Guoqiang met a woman named Wang Xiaonan. Wang Xiaonan is very beautiful and clever, known as the "Maggie Cheung of the North".
She is a particularly excellent girl, born in science and has acted in many popular dramas. After seeing Zhang Guoqiang, Wang Xiaonan was deeply attracted, Zhang Guoqiang is mature, stable and modest, and he is a very reliable person at a glance.
After the two became friends, they had close contact, but Zhang Guoqiang never considered that aspect. Having been hurt once, he no longer has the luxury of seeking love, not to mention that he still has a child, and other girls follow him, for fear of delaying others.
Therefore, although Wang Xiaonan took the initiative to be on time many times, Zhang Guoqiang chose to refuse. He was afraid that his child would be wronged, and he was also afraid that he would delay Wang Xiaonan, who was seven years younger than him.
But Wang Xiaonan did not flinch because of Zhang Guoqiang's non-response, she got along well with Zhang Guoqiang's son, and could even be a mediator between father and son.
Zhang Guoqiang's son was moved by Wang Xiaonan. The boy originally did not understand why he was left to his grandparents when he was a child, but after coming to Beijing, he understood his father's hard work and helplessness. He wanted to help his father, but he couldn't do it himself.
Finally, after returning home injured during a previous filming, Zhang Guoqiang's son proposed that he would have someone to take care of his father. Zhang Guoqiang was touched by his son and finally decided to marry Wang Xiaonan.
The wedding for two is very low-key, but very sweet. After marriage, Wang Xiaonan gave birth to a daughter to Zhang Guoqiang, and the previous hardships were healed by today's happiness, living with a son and a daughter, and an understanding wife, Zhang Guoqiang was very satisfied.
Wang Xiaonan gave up her career for the sake of her family, she took care of both parents, husband and son, and made their small family happy and harmonious.
I don't know how Zhang Guoqiang's ex-wife will feel when she knows their current life. The man who was once disliked by her, through his own efforts, his career flourished and his family was happy.
The hardships endured along the way are counted, as long as you put in the sweat and hard work, you will not achieve nothing, what needs to be done is to wait for the flowers to bloom. What do you think about Zhang Guoqiang's marriage, please write it in the comment area below to share with everyone.