A few days ago
The topic of WeChat display read function is on the hot search
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Although WeChat officials quickly made this happen
"No 'if'" response
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It also triggered a lot of discussion among netizens
Some people directly put themselves into the role of "no longer read"
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Others directly disagreed with the "read" reminder
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Others believe that displaying "read" is also a reply
"I returned, returned silence"
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This can be seen from these discussions
Most people are interested in the ability to display "read"
Still very resistant
The read function has actually been used in many social software
Most of them are working software
Although it is for the purpose of business management
But there is always pressure to respond immediately
Even if there is no face-to-face socialization
There will also be a sense of urgency to be watched by a pair of invisible eyes
If the eyes also turned
More personal social software such as WeChat
It will bring more discomfort and a feeling of encroachment on life
Sometimes it has not been read back just
As netizens said, "thoughts replied"
Or don't know how to reply, it takes a while to think
But "Read" is displayed
Directly bypassing these reasons draws conclusions
Cause unnecessary social stress
To sum it up in a word
Hate some ways of socializing without a sense of boundaries
Image source: Visual China
The development of the Internet has brought a lot of convenience to our lives
Let's find each other more easily
It greatly facilitates our communication
But at the same time, it also compresses a lot of personal space
Our dynamics, preferences and even inner thoughts
They may all be unknowingly spied on by others
Sense of boundaries in this case
On the contrary, it is more and more valued and mentioned
We don't like to be joked about without a sense of boundaries
Don't like to passively release information on the Internet
It's not just WeChat messages
There are also grouping settings for Moments
Social media accounts of other platforms that are reluctant to disclose to those around them
Including the army of "momo" who are "hidden in the net"
It's all us on the internet
The way to hold your own personal boundaries
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So here's the problem
Is it a social tacit understanding that you can't read it back to the end?
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As a child in etiquette class
We have learned the etiquette of face-to-face interactions
When I grew up, I also found a set by my own exploration
It belongs to the etiquette of Internet communication
Like what
Say something bluntly without asking "are you there?"
Avoid replying with the word "oh" to make the attitude seem less cold
Some memes are implicit expressions of the end of the conversation
It's all a consensus of etiquette in Internet interactions
Does reading a response also count as a form of social etiquette?
Whether it counts or not, it comes down to the end
Social software is just one part of our social lives
It cannot be an absolute basis for judging a person
Give each other some personal space
Proactive and direct communication is what breaks down barriers
The best way to hold the border
After all, sincerity is the biggest must-have
What do you think of "can't be read"?
What behaviors have you seen that don't have a sense of boundaries?
Let's talk about it in the message area
Source: Half Moon on New Media
Executive Producer: Sun Aidong
Editor-in-chief: Wang Xinya
Editor: Zhang Ziqing